What opened your bi side?

I would like to get more comfortable meeting with guys into this fetish. The problem is that some of them (especially from the apps) want to go further, like me rimming etc. And I am not really up for that. The one time I did, I was able to dissociate myself, but I literally only did it so it wouldn't be boring for the other guy.
Only do what you are comfortable doing when you feel comfortable with whomever you are with.
 
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I would like to get more comfortable meeting with guys into this fetish. The problem is that some of them (especially from the apps) want to go further, like me rimming etc. And I am not really up for that. The one time I did, I was able to dissociate myself, but I literally only did it so it wouldn't be boring for the other guy.
What are your interests with other guys?
 
I kind of wish I had the urge early on because getting it later in life feels puzzling. You can't help but try to make sense of it where as being younger you just go with it naturally. There's nothing to compare it to.
I know the feeling now as I've also aged.
 
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I assume, I've Always been Bi. Growing up in the 80s, it seems anything but straight was frowned upon, and done In private, behind closed doors. Of course I dated women exclusively. But every so often, I wanted the excitement of a man's mouth. It started off, finding men who were just looking for a straight guys cock. If your Gay, you know what I mean, and eager guys were in no short supply.
Moving on, late teens turned to 20s. And by late 20s, marriage came knocking. But still. I wanted the thrill of getting blown discreetly. Now, I was only getting blown, and leaving right away. Surely, I was still totally straight just getting an head?
Fast forward to the divorce. Fuck the world, leave me alone..blah blah.
A friend of mine, openly Gay asked me to get off my ass and get out. He invited me to hang with him at a small get-together with ' his people '
Sure. My life is over. I go drink some other dudes alcohol and sit in the corner alone.
That's how it started. All of them in one room, me alone in another on the couch. Out of nowhere, this defensive linebacker HUGE ass Black dude walks in - fuckin Nude, of course. I got nothing. No clever chit chat..no eye contact. And definitely no BALLS to just walk away. He steps up in front of me. So close his toes probably touch the couch between my legs.v
When I tell you - I was a deer in the headlights. WTF is THAT?? I ALWAYS thought my 7 was big. This guy looked twice as big, and twice as thick. It was like half a tree trunk where a Dick should be. I'm just staring. As he is in no hurry to stroke almost in slow motion about 5 or 6 inches from my face. When I tell you, my first ever time seeing a black guy naked, not to mention RIGHT in my face, I was memorized. Stunned. Curious, I don't even remember the thought of leaving entering my head.
There's NO WAY this can be Real - is this what ' these people ' do together??'
Then, out of nowhere, THE one thing I had NEVER considered, happened.
This motherfucker started emptying his, unimaginable sheer volume of cum, all onto my chest. The first pump or two was total shock. And then I realized, it was more like being hit from a firehouse. Honestly. I have no clue. 5, 6 solid shots to the chest, of pure BBC Cum.
And he just walked away, leaving me in complete shock.
Days, weeks later, I could not get that out of my head. Running thousands of do overs in my head. All ending the same. ' Man Drowns from an accidental Cum Shot to the face ' Film at 11..
Of course I later asked. No one knew him . No way to contact him. But I was changed. A defining point. A before and after mark on my life. I wanna ride that ride again!
And, that's the life changing event that led me on this path of bisexuality. And all these years later... would I change anything?
Not a Fucking Chance!!
So tell us about your experiences, please.
 
It is very interesting, for a change, to read about someone whose realization of his bisexuality resulted from his willingness to have other men blow him rather than his eagerness to blow other men.
Idk. I think you're missing the whole denial part. I was still completely straight. I wasn't doing anything. He was the one swallowing my loads. And for me, that went on. Long time. But it was lies told by me. To me
 
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Your experience may be much more common than you realize.
I understand more now than then. I was doing it for one reason. To cum. Now, I'm out sucking cocks because I LOVE it. I can get off getting someone else off. That's gotta mean something