Ok, So this is my first post on LPSG after "lurking" around for quite some time. After reading this forum frequently, I see that a lot of you give great advice and that's what I am in need of right now. I've recently been getting "in-touch" with my sexuality, and been exploring it. Suffices to say I haven't done anything with a guy yet, but if/when it came down to it. I wouldn't have a problem.
So here is the dilemma: There's a guy I know(I'm interested in him), not really a friend, but have seen/heard enough about him. I've seem to have found his alter-ego online. With this alter-ego he claims several of things, some which I know are true, and many others which I know are total bull shit. The main one that is bullshit is, his sexuality. Online he claims to be open about his sexuality(Bi-Sexual), that all his friends know they are ok with it, etc..But in real life he is known to be promiscuous with women, and NO ONE knows his dirty little secret.
I would like to talk to him, but I'm only "out" to a few people. I feel as if contacting him via has real identity will blind side him and he will deny everything making me look like the idiot in the whole situation. (I wouldn't bring up the fact that I know EVERYTHING about his internet life, but instead just try to befriend him). Several times I have contemplated on contacting him through the alter-ego aswell and to get to know him via that, but because I know the truth, I feel as if it would make him angry.
I don't want to out him, nor divulge his secret to others, but I would like to get to know him. I know I'm rambling but I'm not sure what to do and the situation seems to complex in my head, It's hard to write it out.
If you need any questions answered just ask.
Just looking on what I should do with the situation.
So here is the dilemma: There's a guy I know(I'm interested in him), not really a friend, but have seen/heard enough about him. I've seem to have found his alter-ego online. With this alter-ego he claims several of things, some which I know are true, and many others which I know are total bull shit. The main one that is bullshit is, his sexuality. Online he claims to be open about his sexuality(Bi-Sexual), that all his friends know they are ok with it, etc..But in real life he is known to be promiscuous with women, and NO ONE knows his dirty little secret.
I would like to talk to him, but I'm only "out" to a few people. I feel as if contacting him via has real identity will blind side him and he will deny everything making me look like the idiot in the whole situation. (I wouldn't bring up the fact that I know EVERYTHING about his internet life, but instead just try to befriend him). Several times I have contemplated on contacting him through the alter-ego aswell and to get to know him via that, but because I know the truth, I feel as if it would make him angry.
I don't want to out him, nor divulge his secret to others, but I would like to get to know him. I know I'm rambling but I'm not sure what to do and the situation seems to complex in my head, It's hard to write it out.
If you need any questions answered just ask.
Just looking on what I should do with the situation.