What would you choose?

[jakerick1989]

what would you choose,

to find out that your bf or husband is using a female whore to satisfy his sexual drives/addiction

or

to find out that your bf or husband is meeting another woman regularly for sex to satisfy his sexual drives/addiction

or

to find out that your bf or husband is using gay or man to satisfy his sexual drivess/addiction

???

 

[deleted848353]

none of those options

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

None of the above.

 

[693987]

None. We're monogamous and take that seriously.

 

[MickeyLee]

Cheating on me is cheating on me. The boy would be dead to me.

I am open to non-monogamy. If our relationship grew to a place where all parties were comfortable with open boundaries I'm cool with that.

Going behind my back with no communication would infuriate me. Well pass the point of discussing it. I'd be packing his shit and calling an Uber.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I keep his balls drained and satisfied. He don't fuck around behind my back. I don't fuck around behind his.

Any of the options provided would provoke the same reaction from me. I'd fuck some shit all the way up.

 

[950483]

I'm going to vote in your poll, and I'm choosing 2, the mistress, purely because that would statistically be the choice least risky to my health.
On the plus side he would have somewhere to sleep and someone to wipe his bum, empty his bedpan, and spoonfeed him pureed deliciousness after I found out about it.
So if you are asking for the reason I think you are, I'd advise you to pick 2 too.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I choose... To leave him.

 

[LaFemme]

I choose... To leave him.

Same here. Boot his cheating ass.

 

[jakerick1989]

I'm going to vote in your poll, and I'm choosing 2, the mistress, purely because that would statistically be the choice least risky to my health.
On the plus side he would have somewhere to sleep and someone to wipe his bum, empty his bedpan, and spoonfeed him pureed deliciousness after I found out about it.
So if you are asking for the reason I think you are, I'd advise you to pick 2 too.

Hi, I know this is ask girl. but as follow up question to your answer. since 2 is meeting up regularly with a girl, aren't you afraid that he might fall in love with this girl, like totally? Or you would want us to consider your second statement as an answer to this question?

 

[deleted848353]

Hi, I know this is ask girl. but as follow up question to your answer. since 2 is meeting up regularly with a girl, aren't you afraid that he might fall in love with this girl, like totally? Or you would want us to consider your second statement as an answer to this question?

no its ask a WOMAN

 

[jakerick1989]

no its ask a WOMAN

hahaha okay ask woman hahhaa

 

[EllieP]

He would be a gone pecan.

We were both married before. We were both cheated on before. It's what ended our respective marriages. We've endured that pain, and both of us know we could never inflict that on anyone we love.

So if he cheats then I would know there's no love remaining. And he knows the same.

He makes me so damn angry sometimes that I don't even want to be in the same house sometimes. But I'll always love him, and we'll always make up.

But put that thing somewhere other than where it belongs and it will no longer belong there.