cliff notes: I'm late 50's, wife early 50's(post menopausal). wife isn't interested in having sex with me anymore. "we're past that stage in our lives" well. maybe she is, but I am not. I have an ED problem, but nothing that can't be assisted with viagra, cialis. I am in good shape othewise, not overweight, look younger than my years. I still enjoy using my big cock, it makes me feel like a man to make love to a woman, and have a woman make love to me. we have discussed this very same thing a couple times. one time, she relented and we had sex or I should say I had sex, she pretty much laid there. if I try a little bit harder, I can probably score on one or 2 gals that are younger than me, both have shown an interest in me. both are very good looking, and sometimes I wish I was 20 yrs younger. I would definitely be trying to make the one of the two, my lady forever. my problem is my conscience. I mean, I took vows for fidelity. I don't want to hurt my wife, or either of these 2 gals. I just wanna get laid, and going to a "pro" is out. this is a small town, which is another problem. no matter where I go to get laid, eventually the odds are pretty good, I will get caught. don't want a divorce either. my wife needs me to take care of her, the house, cook, clean. she has low energy. has been tested for lupus a couple times, negative. fibromyalga(sp?) negative. she is overweight, which I think is part of my ED problem. I was talking to one of the above mentioned gals one nite. we had an arm around each other, and after awhile I was bone hard. what to do? I might live 20 yrs more, and don't want to be celibate?