When and how did you learn that your cock was big/small? (18+)

My hockey teammates would make comments in the showers about my cock. I’d find it really embarrassing and I didn’t really think it meant that I had a bigger dick. I thought they were just making fun of me. And compared to porn, it didn’t seem that big. Hilariously, it was my dad who made me think I was maybe actually big. He caught me with a hard on and said: you a good size on you! Once I started having sex, it was all confirmed
 
I always felt my dick was small but the moment I was sure about it was when I was finally able to jerk off with all the foreskin pulled down (I has phimosis for years) and I realized there wasn’t to much between the base and the tip
 
I have both... also personal perspective is different than what others see. To me my penis is normal sized. Up until later in life, men talk more about size. The first time I realized, was when I lost my virginity in my 30s. The girl needed a smoke after sex. I soon followed out in the yard naked. She did not say much about my penis, just looked at it. I was still hard. She took note of how big it got compared to how we started off. Then after that, every woman told me it was big, and of all things said it to a guy that made some comment. Which I felt embarrased.
 
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Mine used to get like that. After a 2 years + of pumping it doesn't do it anymore. Even if I stop for a month or so. You seem content with your size though that's true power.
 
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Mid 20s, I worked on a military base, and could use the gym on base for free. That was really my first experience with communal showers since my high school had a voluntary shower policy in gym class, and nobody used them.

There's lots of size variety in a military gym locker room, but I never intentionally looked, just glances here and there. It still didn't hit me until one day a guy in the shower told me mine was one of the biggest he'd seen.
 
Calc Sd has me at 90- 99 percentile in length depending on what study I compare to. That left me scratching my head and kind of suspect of those st

When I was younger all my friends were bigger and a few said i had a rice dick. In locker rooms everyone was bigger. One girl suddenly became disinterested in sex once I pulled it out. Another girl chose to sleep with a friend over me because my dick was smaller than his. Then one time my wife said I wasn't that small which i interpreted to mean I was small but not super small. Plus a plethora of other reasons why it became obvious including the sheer number of dicks on the net that are significantly bigger.
I have similar experience. The thing is ppl know that we have size insecurity. Soo in turn they made the average size an inch or 2 smaller. It makes sense to me because Ive been called small on several occasions. The story of my username...one day I was drinking with a sex buddy. She lost her phone and so she asked me to call it. When I found it she has me down as SmallDguy. Fucked up part is I thought she felt pretty damn snug. She tried to say it meant something else which made it worse so I left laughing but on the inside I was really bummed she was really pretty. Maybe hot girls just get hit on by "big dick energy guys". Just my theory. I've had personal comments telling me I'm on the bigger side of average. I guess it varies from person to persons experience.
 
Besides my brother and girls telling me my dick was big, I would get noticeable stares in the shower after gym workouts. I began to glance around in locker rooms and soon noticed I was bigger than most of my peers. It was at that point that I began to flaunt it.
Flaunting it helped me discover my bi-sexual tendencies. I got turned on by guys staring at my body and thirsting to get me off. That was a crazy period in my life as I was young and experimental. Guys would offer to suck me off, play with my balls, they wanted to sniff my ass, lick my ass, suck my toes. Having a big dick while in High School taught me the power that comes with it.
 
Besides my brother and girls telling me my dick was big, I would get noticeable stares in the shower after gym workouts. I began to glance around in locker rooms and soon noticed I was bigger than most of my peers. It was at that point that I began to flaunt it.
Flaunting it helped me discover my bi-sexual tendencies. I got turned on by guys staring at my body and thirsting to get me off. That was a crazy period in my life as I was young and experimental. Guys would offer to suck me off, play with my balls, they wanted to sniff my ass, lick my ass, suck my toes. Having a big dick while in High School taught me the power that comes with it.
Had a friend of mine once he figured out his place in the food chain it’s like he quickly learned to use this power. It sucked having been best friends but now he was part of something I couldn’t physically be part of. What sucked worst was seeing everyone just melt be turned on and in awe of him. He was 6’2 me being only 5’9, and cock size was double my size nothing impressive on my end by comparison. He could get away with all and he knew it. What’s worst is people knew they were being used by him hey they went with it because the emotion and excitement of just glimpses of him. Holy hell he knew how to only give enough to get it all.
 
I learned that my cock was bigger than average when my wife started to make photos of my erected dick with a digital camera. I now got a view of my dick from a different angle and I started to look also to other man photos on LPSG and Sexual Forum (SF). The invention of cheap digital cameras made it possible to share photos. It's funny by the way that I never was interested in my dick size until my wife started to make photos of my dick 20 years ago. She also once started to measure my dick size and compared this with results published in scientific medical literature. She became member of SF and later of LPSG,and posted photos of us being nude. We are also still posting photos of us on Southern-Charms.com: I am 67 and my wife becomes 66 y.
 
In my 20s. I thought I had an average one at best throughout high-school because of the legendary tale "20cm/8ich is the average" and the angle they use porn to make actors' dicks look longer. Then I started having sex and I barely found guys larger than me. It then clicked I wasn't that average