I don't really have the requirements to attend such a forum but I am interested in the male and female psychology with regards to sexuality and I find interesting how the male sexual organ perceptions swings so much between men and women.
Easy route would be to us males it is always too small/never big enough, women tend to perceive it bigger than it is but they also have weird attitude vs penis.
To say one, had a long relationship with the same (beautiful) woman long time ago and we were also watching at porn together, it helped both into having more fun in bed as well as to be more confident with each other, issue being that both of ut at the first experiences not having other parameters we got fooled by porn and you know what I mean, boobs were all big, and I love them big, dicks all big, and which girl doesn't like it big, cum shots same, damn Peter North... at the end we had fun but in our own minds we were debating our "endowments" at the end of the day she always felt threatened by girls with bigger boobs and me by bigger dicks with the difference, on my advantage, that while you can clearly spot big boobs it'd more difficult to spot a big dick and, above it all, women are not really into the dick size to choose a man, it actually seems more of a bonus...
So, we got the idea that anal sex is normal (and thanks to porn we both discovered an amazing source of pleasure) as well as facial and swallowing and if I were here to tell you how many times she wanted to try and I pulled back on the very last second but, hey, when it finally happened (can still remember that very first time) it almost became part of our routine and emulation was not just a mere emulation but we kept what made our sex life spicier and kept the rest on the side.
The story was, by the way, that after fun is over we both started to struggle with our own self being, she with boobs, me with penis... as a long time couple we had breakups and also some extra couple experience and that helped too, we both figured that boobs and penis size are not that big of a magnitude in a couple but the most interesting was that with added experience and more water under the bridges we figured that both she wasn't small at all neither I was but we had the porn flick crews to compare to and it was misleading.
I seem to understand that our very own point of view is totally different than the camera angle and width used in movies and that's why porn has to be watched with the knowledge it can damage your confidence if one doesn't know there are tricks: small actresses to make male features look bigger, wide angle lens and closeups to exaggerate proportions, cum shots wise forget it, still have very clear in my mind a BTS I watched of the beautiful Janine Lindemuler being covered with yogurt in between the final angles of the scene...
So even tho I know there are tricks to make things look bigger or smaller (I'm a part time photographer and learnt something about it), even tho I know those who shoot porn are a very small percentage of the human race with certain characteristics, even tho I know they take drugs to keep erections, to be lean, to last longer and add that many a times a scene is being shot in multiple instances... I still compare myself to those and when I look south I go like "really?" as if all women watch porn or date 8+ fit men...
What happened once was eye opening, dating a girl much younger than me (yeah, a common sense but girls are attracted by the middle aged men...), she was very much into me but the very first couple times sex was nothing memorable due to illness and tiredness on my side, a third time happened a year or so later after a casual meet and to my surprise she passed appreciation onto my tool asking to apologise as, before, she thought I was small...
Similar happed with an on and off long date with a very experienced woman who the first time we had intimacy passed a nice compliment to my endowment and did it a few more times even in public which made me blush like a blown balloon.
To cut it to the end I now know, out of direct comments from those who had experience with it, that I am thick and girls like the fullness it gives, I also know I make good use to it but if it wasn't because of these few instances where I could momentarily forget about my embarrassment to show or caught by surprise (well, can't be much of a surprise when you are in intimacy with somebody) and get comments I'd still think that I am maybe average while, by reading onto here, even tho those pornstar stats are real, I almost as thick as Danny D to say one but, hey, I look at him in clips and then hold mine and go like "I gotta get a new tape... this must be faulty" I know about the camera/lens tricks, I know he's super skinny and I have a fat pad and a bigger frame, I know the hands of girls handling it are small...
Lot of people claim willing to try being cucked, I had a discussion online with one of them who proposed an encounter where he said he'd do everything to please his wife, even to watch her having fun with somebody else, I told him if he thought of what could happen once blood pressure goes back to normal once back home, porn is kind of the same, we should watch it being conscious that it represents a very very small percentage of masculine sample (there is more swing with female, several features there to suit every taste while men, hey, fit and big almost does it all).
So, when and how did you realise where you fit in the stats before you hit the tape and measure yourself???
Easy route would be to us males it is always too small/never big enough, women tend to perceive it bigger than it is but they also have weird attitude vs penis.
To say one, had a long relationship with the same (beautiful) woman long time ago and we were also watching at porn together, it helped both into having more fun in bed as well as to be more confident with each other, issue being that both of ut at the first experiences not having other parameters we got fooled by porn and you know what I mean, boobs were all big, and I love them big, dicks all big, and which girl doesn't like it big, cum shots same, damn Peter North... at the end we had fun but in our own minds we were debating our "endowments" at the end of the day she always felt threatened by girls with bigger boobs and me by bigger dicks with the difference, on my advantage, that while you can clearly spot big boobs it'd more difficult to spot a big dick and, above it all, women are not really into the dick size to choose a man, it actually seems more of a bonus...
So, we got the idea that anal sex is normal (and thanks to porn we both discovered an amazing source of pleasure) as well as facial and swallowing and if I were here to tell you how many times she wanted to try and I pulled back on the very last second but, hey, when it finally happened (can still remember that very first time) it almost became part of our routine and emulation was not just a mere emulation but we kept what made our sex life spicier and kept the rest on the side.
The story was, by the way, that after fun is over we both started to struggle with our own self being, she with boobs, me with penis... as a long time couple we had breakups and also some extra couple experience and that helped too, we both figured that boobs and penis size are not that big of a magnitude in a couple but the most interesting was that with added experience and more water under the bridges we figured that both she wasn't small at all neither I was but we had the porn flick crews to compare to and it was misleading.
I seem to understand that our very own point of view is totally different than the camera angle and width used in movies and that's why porn has to be watched with the knowledge it can damage your confidence if one doesn't know there are tricks: small actresses to make male features look bigger, wide angle lens and closeups to exaggerate proportions, cum shots wise forget it, still have very clear in my mind a BTS I watched of the beautiful Janine Lindemuler being covered with yogurt in between the final angles of the scene...
So even tho I know there are tricks to make things look bigger or smaller (I'm a part time photographer and learnt something about it), even tho I know those who shoot porn are a very small percentage of the human race with certain characteristics, even tho I know they take drugs to keep erections, to be lean, to last longer and add that many a times a scene is being shot in multiple instances... I still compare myself to those and when I look south I go like "really?" as if all women watch porn or date 8+ fit men...
What happened once was eye opening, dating a girl much younger than me (yeah, a common sense but girls are attracted by the middle aged men...), she was very much into me but the very first couple times sex was nothing memorable due to illness and tiredness on my side, a third time happened a year or so later after a casual meet and to my surprise she passed appreciation onto my tool asking to apologise as, before, she thought I was small...
Similar happed with an on and off long date with a very experienced woman who the first time we had intimacy passed a nice compliment to my endowment and did it a few more times even in public which made me blush like a blown balloon.
To cut it to the end I now know, out of direct comments from those who had experience with it, that I am thick and girls like the fullness it gives, I also know I make good use to it but if it wasn't because of these few instances where I could momentarily forget about my embarrassment to show or caught by surprise (well, can't be much of a surprise when you are in intimacy with somebody) and get comments I'd still think that I am maybe average while, by reading onto here, even tho those pornstar stats are real, I almost as thick as Danny D to say one but, hey, I look at him in clips and then hold mine and go like "I gotta get a new tape... this must be faulty" I know about the camera/lens tricks, I know he's super skinny and I have a fat pad and a bigger frame, I know the hands of girls handling it are small...
Lot of people claim willing to try being cucked, I had a discussion online with one of them who proposed an encounter where he said he'd do everything to please his wife, even to watch her having fun with somebody else, I told him if he thought of what could happen once blood pressure goes back to normal once back home, porn is kind of the same, we should watch it being conscious that it represents a very very small percentage of masculine sample (there is more swing with female, several features there to suit every taste while men, hey, fit and big almost does it all).
So, when and how did you realise where you fit in the stats before you hit the tape and measure yourself???
