When Did You Realize That Your Dick Was Considered Large? (18+ Only)

I'm around 7x7. As a few others mentioned as a teen internet wasn't as readily available as it is these days so my only real comparison was porn. I'd had several women comment on the size but i always chalked it up to just something they were saying to be nice or in the heat of the moment. It wasn't till my early 20s where i hooked up with a few close female friends that really drove it home. One in particular was my bar hoping buddy, she was a little older and smoking hot but there was nothing between us until one night things just happened and afterwards she was making a big deal about how she'd have fucked me a whole lot sooner had she known and whatever my response was, she said something like no she was serious she'd fucked a lot of guys and i was well above average especially in the girth department.
My realization was similar. All the women I was with when I first started fucking would tell me 'you have a big dick'. The only other hard cocks I had seen at this point were in porn, so I thought this was just something nice that women said to all their partners. It wasn't until I was in college; between seeing all my teammates showering on the soccer team after games and realizing I was bigger than most of them soft, and a few conversations with my roommates that it started to click.

Eventually I had to bum a condom from my upper classmen suitemate and he handed me a magnum. As I rolled it on it was the first time a condom didn't constrict my cock when I was fully boned. And my dumb ass was finally like: Ooooooooooo
 
My realization was similar. All the women I was with when I first started fucking would tell me 'you have a big dick'. The only other hard cocks I had seen at this point were in porn, so I thought this was just something nice that women said to all their partners. It wasn't until I was in college; between seeing all my teammates showering on the soccer team after games and realizing I was bigger than most of them soft, and a few conversations with my roommates that it started to click.

Eventually I had to bum a condom from my upper classmen suitemate and he handed me a magnum. As I rolled it on it was the first time a condom didn't constrict my cock when I was fully boned. And my dumb ass was finally like: Ooooooooooo
Too funny. I remember that realization the first time I put on a magnum as well. It was like “oh, I guess condoms don’t have to constrict the heck out of my cock”.
 
For me it was when I got that "cock shock" expression from my first long term girlfriend and she compared it to the length of her forearm from wrist to elbow.

Next day a couple of her friends started teasing me about it. Second long term girlfriend, same thing. When one of her friends walks up to you and dead to your face asks...
"So... I heard you were huge and cause nothing but destruction with that thing, or is that just bullshit?" Because my 2nd long term girlfriend was one of those petite girls with a super tight pussy. Difficult to even successfully have sex without a lot of loosening up haha.

Knew I had to be at least above average if not big compared to most of the male population surrounding me "at the time".

Now uh days... I'm firmly in the "Above Average" crowd. I leave that to the ladies to call be big or not.
 
I'm not hung myself but I speak on behalf of my boyfriend, who has a poor knowledge of English.

Thanks to the Internet, he knew very quickly that he had a very big cock (about 24.5 cm, 9.4 inches) in comparison to the average, but I did not know that his size was also pretty rare. He remembered in particular the look of the doctor during an occupational medicine appointment after an injury during work. He didn't comment, but his eyebrows betrayed surprise.

But above all, he realized that he had an unusual size when it came to choosing condoms and that even condoms deemed to be large proved too narrow for him. None of the condoms sold in supermarkets actually suit him, he has to order on the Internet.
 
For me it was when I got that "cock shock" expression from my first long term girlfriend and she compared it to the length of her forearm from wrist to elbow.

Next day a couple of her friends started teasing me about it. Second long term girlfriend, same thing. When one of her friends walks up to you and dead to your face asks...
"So... I heard you were huge and cause nothing but destruction with that thing, or is that just bullshit?" Because my 2nd long term girlfriend was one of those petite girls with a super tight pussy. Difficult to even successfully have sex without a lot of loosening up haha.

Knew I had to be at least above average if not big compared to most of the male population surrounding me "at the time".

Now uh days... I'm firmly in the "Above Average" crowd. I leave that to the ladies to call be big or not.
"Cause nothing but destruction with that thing" is such a turn on to hear :p
 
Didn’t realise until my late teens, since the thing to do was always to measure length I never even considered girth- then one day I searched online and boom, shocked myself that it was thicker than most.

Had all my future partners mention how girthy it was but as a teen never occurred to me tbh
 
(7.25x5.5) Not until I was 24/25. My girlfriend at the time said I was big, but I didn't really believe her. Girls sometimes just say that to make you feel good. All the same, normal condoms were constricting and I would lose erection (didn't help that I wasn't actually much into women - just deep in denial). We eventually found a brand with a large size that fit well, didn't constrict or slip off, but I still didn't really believe I was large, maybe just slightly above average. I'd heard rumors that large condoms weren't actually much bigger, that it was all just marketing.

It wasn't until I started hooking up with men (having acknowledged that I "might be bi") that I realized I wasn't actually "slightly above average," and a bunch of things clicked into place. The only woman I had been able to have enjoyable, comfortable sex with had been a mother of two. The trouble I had with sex wasn't just because of condoms and "nerves" - my size had also made it difficult! What a relief!
 
For me it was when I got that "cock shock" expression from my first long term girlfriend and she compared it to the length of her forearm from wrist to elbow.

Next day a couple of her friends started teasing me about it. Second long term girlfriend, same thing. When one of her friends walks up to you and dead to your face asks...
"So... I heard you were huge and cause nothing but destruction with that thing, or is that just bullshit?" Because my 2nd long term girlfriend was one of those petite girls with a super tight pussy. Difficult to even successfully have sex without a lot of loosening up haha.

Knew I had to be at least above average if not big compared to most of the male population surrounding me "at the time".

Now uh days... I'm firmly in the "Above Average" crowd. I leave that to the ladies to call be big or not.
Well @Nick Briggs that is a very good example, I think many men are in this situation as we are 'suspicious' that comments from women are not accurate. Are they making fun? sarcastic? Do they think its big but have only ever had small ones before?

I had a girl compare it to her face (yes I know it sounds like a fantasy I asked her to do, but no when you are sucking cock it makes sense for her to measure it this way) and yes it did look 'bigger' to me then I expected lol

Girls do talk about it, but often men don't find out or if they do its all heresay

You are much more than above average BTW but yes best to leave it to ladies to make the call - I had one once say 'well you are definitely big to me - there is no room left in my pussy!' ha ha Girth is helpful if you are not very long, as in my case
 
(7.25x5.5) Not until I was 24/25. My girlfriend at the time said I was big, but I didn't really believe her. Girls sometimes just say that to make you feel good. All the same, normal condoms were constricting and I would lose erection (didn't help that I wasn't actually much into women - just deep in denial). We eventually found a brand with a large size that fit well, didn't constrict or slip off, but I still didn't really believe I was large, maybe just slightly above average. I'd heard rumors that large condoms weren't actually much bigger, that it was all just marketing.

It wasn't until I started hooking up with men (having acknowledged that I "might be bi") that I realized I wasn't actually "slightly above average," and a bunch of things clicked into place. The only woman I had been able to have enjoyable, comfortable sex with had been a mother of two. The trouble I had with sex wasn't just because of condoms and "nerves" - my size had also made it difficult! What a relief!
Hi @NickSpud91

We are similar in size based on your comment and yes when using condoms and sex with my GF of the time a very similar situation. Your comment is very well put.
 
Grew up in the sixties where there was no opportunity to find anything about cock size. The common understanding was a cock was six inches long hard (unboned pressed). That was my size so I just assumed I was like every other guy. I found this site in the early 2000's and found the TP test. I could not get my hard cock inside. Reading about cock sizes here I realized I was thicker than average and at 6.75 inches (bone pressed) slightly larger than average. I was in my fifties. It made me understand why regular condom's squashed my cock.
 
Grew up in the sixties where there was no opportunity to find anything about cock size. The common understanding was a cock was six inches long hard (unboned pressed). That was my size so I just assumed I was like every other guy. I found this site in the early 2000's and found the TP test. I could not get my hard cock inside. Reading about cock sizes here I realized I was thicker than average and at 6.75 inches (bone pressed) slightly larger than average. I was in my fifties. It made me understand why regular condom's squashed my cock.
Well, still have a lot of time to use magnuns and be happy.
 
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I had never thought I was particularly large or bigger than average, and I assumed the women who told me I was big were just being kind, but when guys started telling me I was big I started to think maybe I was sporting more than the average sized dick. 6.5-6.75 x 5.5.
 
My wife dated a black guy in college who lost his virginity to her. The sex didn't last long but she commented how big it was during the sex. Afterwards he asked if she was being honest or just saying it. She was experienced and told him that he was very well endowed and he should be proud of that. She put him at about 9 inches.
 
I’m 23 and the first time I realized my dick was big was after many different experiences where I finally accepted it. My first partner ever and I dated her until I was 20. With her she would always tell her friends “my bf’s dick is so big” whenever she was with her friends talking about sex and I was around. I always would tell her stop saying that because I didn’t believe it and I thought she was just saying it to make me feel better around her friends and stroke my ego. It was actually annoying because I didn’t believe it to be true.

Then I joined the military and we took showers in an open bay and me and this other guy would get laughed at by a group of guys that would say “you big dick mf’ers” and they would try hitting our dicks with their towels. That one was weird but yeah.

Then as time went on I slept with a few girls and started experiencing things I noticed with my first gf sexually which were a lot of choking,gagging, and even vomiting from trying to give me oral. Also bruising a few girls cervix, causing bleeding from small tears on their vaginal lips, and hearing “my stomach hurts” during or after sex, and also having a hard time getting it in before sex because of my size is thick. And also anal sex I’ve only had once no one else besides my first gf has wanted to try and when I did with her she had some bleeding from slight tearing and she said it was sharp and painful and we had to stop and I never even finished.

At that point I started to think okay for these things to happen during sex I’m obviously not small but deep down I still didn’t realize I was considered big. So I had a phase where any girl I was talking to and hadn’t had sex with, I would initiate sexting them, which led to dick pics. By the way I talk to a lot of girls on Snapchat and Instagram so close to about 100 girls over the course of months I sexted and ended up exchanging nudes which I never did because I thought it wasn’t moral but I was just trying to learn about sex more and be more out there. So I can’t lie out of the 100 girls about 5 were size queens and reacted mediocre to my dick pics. The rest were always amazed saying comments like “that’s not real” “it’s huge/so big” “you have a monster dick” “you’re too big for me” “that’s the biggest dick I’ve ever seen” “how are you not killing people with that” “you’re going to break my pussy”. It was funny and also an awakening and each new girls reaction made me want to get more reactions from other girls. Almost as if I wanted to share it with any and every girl. The best part is that girls thought I was hot of my looks already but when they found out how big my dick was it made me way hotter to them.

So a few months ago I went to the club and a few of the reaction I heard from girls from my pics was I have pornstar dick. So I met this group of girls and one ask me what I do for a living and I tell her I do porn. So she ask me to show her my dick and I told her do you want to see a picture? She said yes with a smile. The other two girls were talking to themselves while I showed her and once she saw it she said it was fake and not mine and then I told her look at the tattoos to make sure that was me in the picture. She quickly grabbed her other two friends by the arm and said “you guy, this man right here has it. HE HAS IT! Show them right now!” So we made a small huddle in the club and I pull my phone out again to show her friends. They all had big smile and there eyes wide open as they kept looking at eachother and staring me up and down. I just smiled and said “do y’all wanna tag team my dick?” just to be funny but they were all not my type. But as the night went on those 3 girls kept following me in the club smirking and giggling from a distance.

Lastly I started dating this one girl for 4 months now and she doesn’t say it’s big probably because she assumes I know it is and doesn’t want to sound corny to state the obvious but her nickname for me is Third Leg and she says it around her friends. It does raise my confidence a lot and I find myself walking around other men differently and approach women confidently like most likely I’m the biggest dick out of all these guys and most likely I’m the biggest dick shes gonna experience.
 

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