wvalady1968: Things are NOT happy at Chez David. Perhaps some of you can shed some light on this and keep me from sleeping in one of the other bedrooms tonight. I am hot. I confess. But I'll take this down to the bottom line to keep it simple. I have never, ever been in any relationship with any man when he hasn't eventually decided that he has the right and the authority, no, the God given mandate, to tell me what to do.... AND THEN he gets pissed off when I say, "That's a nice idea, but, no, I'm gonna do it my way." And then the fight starts. WHAT IS IT WITH THAT?