Why do we care?

[novice_btm]

I'm always paying you compliments. You don't chat with me. Perhaps you could save some money by chatting with me.

Well, Eeyore, to be honest, I guess it's cuz everytime I DO chat with you, you just spend the whole time telling me you're not worth wasting my keystrokes. :wink: Sorry, I'm really NOT trying to be mean, I'm just answering the question that you basically keep asking in these public posts to me.

 

[Freddie53]

This thread is interesting. I am not well endowed. I have commented to that to some of the very endowed guys here. And everyone of them has said it doesn't matter. Being really endowed means the most to those who have insecurity issues regardless of their dick size. There are some size queens and some really like the big dicks as for their sexual preferences. But very few endowed guys just the character of other guys on dick size. I'm not sure I would really want a lasting friendship with anyone if it were based solely on dick size and nothing else.

 

[txquis]

I just like 'em.

 

[novice_btm]

I just like 'em.

ROFLMAO!!! That is seriously the most brilliant answer I've seen here. :biggrin1:

 

[B_Stronzo]

I think of it as a separate entity. It has its own personality devoid from any logical or sensible part of the body. Think about it. Much as I adore them, they're really preposterous looking.

Mine has nothing to do with confidence. It's simply more fun to have one that's bigger and to play with someone else's who's bigger than average.

And as one poster put it 'better'; no. As a matter of fact I suspect those with smaller appendages are 'better' since they're not constantly obsessing about where to put the big ol' thang.

 

[B_Spladle]

I just like 'em.

<3<3<3

 

[rope9839]

Hi guys....I'm like the rest of us here. I like measuring, comparing, studying, thinking about, talking about and admiring my nice penis! BUt whenever I read te threads on this site I wonder....why do we care so much? It's certainly not because our partners will like us more, because that's a very small minority of people. Do we feel more dominant? Do we consider it a surrogate of our abilities in this world?

What do you think?

Heck, deer compete on antlers. When the penis really is a surrogate for a guy's masculinity and, somewhat through social norms, a good portion of his sexual identity I would imagine there would be some degree of competition. At the least, it would be good to be told you are superior in this attribute.

A more practical view might be my own experience. Being a straight guy, I have had a limited number of times - five, to be exact - when I have been in a sexual situation with other guys where a comparison of erect organs was inevitable. By sheer luck I was the biggest in these groupings each time, by a significant margin twice. I can tell you that I got a little charge just out of being the "stud male." Even better was swapping and knowing that you were fucking the other guy's girl deeper than he could.

One other thing, which I hope you excuse if it is mildly creepy. Cock size has certainly grown as a fetish. You can even see that here with some of the weird posts that are cleary just the masturbation fantasies of probably smaller than average guys. Many, many guys covet what I've got. Poor bastards. Like my ego needed another boost.