Why LPSG? My rant against large penis capitalism and small penis discrimination

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  1. guyface

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    Part One: The first question is...
    Why is a large penis support group so popular?
    (if you don't like essays/ rants, don't read. I don't think it's too opinionated though...)

    There may be some neccesity in the existance of one, people with large penises may have trouble with having sex, appearance issues, being discriminated against, or having people be jealous of them, therefore they may need support. This is understandable I guess.

    What I do not understand yet is, why isn't there a small penis support group of the same popularity? If you google the words small penis support group, you may find a very small site, with little information, and little or no actual members that can post on the site.
    Why not just a penis support group for that matter? You know, to offer support to men and their penises of all shapes and sizes. Most of all men have various insecurities, and many have problems and questions to ask. So why is it then, when you look up "penis support group" and the internet, the largest online support group you see is LPSG?

    It seems to me that a person with an average or small penis would be more insecure about it and therefore need more support.
    Though, ironically, there are more "small penis humiliation" sites than there are support sites for small penises. That is, if you don't consider the hundreds of sites that claim to support small or average penises, but offer penis enlargement pills and products. The products are either scams or rarely ever work, but if they did, the purpose would be to change a small or average penis to a large penis.
    It seems to me, that any man who seeks support or information related to male inadequacy on the internet, will very likely get bombarded with penis enlargement sites, or otherwise any other site that would only make a man not want to have a small penis.
    Is it bad to have a small penis? Apparently it must be, because if you need support because you have one, it is most commonly offered in ways to change it so it is not small. And with all the sites that idolize a large penis, anyone can conclude (and almost all do) that having a large penis is far better than having a small one. So if a large penis is a good/better thing to have, what does that make the direct opposite? It is eaisily implied that having a smaller penis is bad/worse.
    I think that after a while, all of these implied (though often blatantly stated) "facts" can do serious damage to a persons self esteem. A person's self esteem, or pride shouldn't be degraded or damaged just because of a physical atribute that (for the most part) cannot be changed.

    I know people still do, but is it proper or appropriate to make fun of short people? Fat people? Women with small breasts? What about people with disabilities? Maybe you think this is going to far, after all having a very small penis is not a disability, but maybe it feels that way to some people (imagine having a micropenis).

    So why are penis enlargment sites so popular, why is porn involving large penises more popular on the internet than porn involving modest or average length penises? Why is small penis humiliation becoming so popular? And why is LPSG so popular?

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    Part two: the profitability of large penises, and an entwined rant on small penis humiliation

    Why are sites involving either the idolization of large penises, or the condemning of small penises, or sites promoting an increase in size, so popular and therfore profitable?

    Something I first noticed about lpsg is that to be able to continue viewing pictures or videos in the gallery, you have to pay for a gold membership. Many people are very interested in seeing pictures or videos of a large penis, so naturally putting a fee on being able view them would make a lot of money. Is that any different from a porn site where you see a preview and pay to get membership and see more?
    Regarding internet porn, there is simply more money to be made by putting larger penises in the porn.
    Even on non-internet porn, the kind that comes to dvd, the average man in porn has larger than the real life average.
    Why? Because people want to see it. The more people see it, the more popular it becomes, the more it becomes the norm.

    I probably have the biggest problem with small penis humiliation sites. There are some average or large people that want to see penises smaller than theirs be made fun of, so they can feel better about themselves. All I can say about this, is that it is not a very nice way to make yourself feel better or get off.
    Then there are even many people with small penises themselves that get off on seeing a small penis get insulted or having their own insulted. I find this sickening. If you have ever dealt with being emotionally hurt in such a way in real life, why would you want to fantasize about it? Does anyone else think that people who want to be abused sexually is strange and probably unhealthy? Yes, abused sexually. As you know, sex isn't all phisical, it's emotional, and humiliation seekers want emotional abuse to derive sexual pleasure. This is more sick to me than people who would want to be whipped or beaten before or during sex, I know there pleasure and pain can be related when it comes to the physical aspects of sex. Where does having your inadequacies insulted and degraded, come in? How do you get off on that?
    Even the small penis humiliation sites are pay sites or all link to pay sites. I saw one where you can pay to have your small penis insulted.
    There is even a lot of money to be made in penis humiliation.
    I know people are going to say thing like, "anyone can like what they want in sex", "whatever floats your boat", "it's just a fetish", and things like that.
    Good for you. You are open minded. Probably so open minded that your brain is going to fall out of your head.
    Please don't get me wrong here. It's not that I think that SPH is wrong and sick, I also think that people who think its okay are wrong and sick.
    Is that not fair of me? For me to think that money should be made off of the idea of the degradation of dignity and rights?

    Have you ever heared of the universal declaration of human rights? The very first article states, "All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood." Directly following, article two states, "Everyone is entitled to all the rights and freedoms set forth in this Declaration, without distinction of any kind, such as race, colour, sex, language, religion, political or other opinion, national or social origin, property, birth or other status...". This is from a declaration created by the UN. Most countries have their own individual document(s) regarding human rights, and I'm sure all agree that all people are equal in dignity and rights, and that no one should be discriminated against just because of a status they are born/grow into.
    I'm sure that's all very boring stuff to you, but you can look into the whole "human rights" thing if you want. http://www.un.org/Overview/rights.html
    So why are basic human rights any different when they violated on the internet? Because the stories and acts are fake? Because the “actors” aren't really doing it? Well even if it isn't real, how bad do you think it feels to earn a days pay from being insulted for having a tiny dick and having to do degrading acts? But I'm sure in all porn men and women alike have to do degrading acts, that they probably don't feel all too good about, but I'm not about to war on porn right now.
    Any site that intentionally makes someone feel bad about their penis size, violates a persons rights, this is what I believe.



    Back to the profitability of a large penis, millions of dollars are made every year from porn involving larger than average penises. It is obviously very profitable, because it is because it is what people want to see. Also, large penises are generally thought of as better than smaller ones. So my last questions are,



    Why do people desire to see large penises, so much, that they would pay to see them?
    Is it right for so much money to be made from the idea that a large penis is better?
    Why do most people think larger penises are superior?
    Is it right to idolize people for what they were born with and can't change?
    Is it right to think less of people for what they were born with and can't change?



    I believe that after time, this general consensus of “beliefs”, found on the internet and other media, can socially condition a person into believe that large penises are superior and small penises are inferior. And, I believe all this can very damaging to a persons emotional health and self esteem.



    Thanks for reading. I don't actually expect you to answer any of the questions. This thread is more like a rough “thought inspiring” essay I had been working on. I know it's kind of unrefined, but due to the fact that I'm not going to do anything with it, I don't mind posting it as it is.
    You definitely can answer any questions I brought up though. Feel free to comment! Any feedback is welcome, though these are just thoughts and opinions (even if I do think I'm completely right), so please don't hate! I won't respond if you just post to bash me.

    (ps, please don't ban me lpsg :smile: )
     
  2. Industrialsize

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    my......take a breath........I come here to look at the pics and flirt :cool:
     
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    OMG. You posted a Doctoral Thesis. I only read part of it. Men with small penis are welcome here.
     
  4. DaveyR

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    Me too IS. I think someone needs to lighten up :rolleyes:
     
  5. Quite Irate

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    tl;dr

    Did read the opening paragraph, though. Mistaken premise -> mistaken conclusions
     
  6. B_Monster

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    This should be a good thread :mad:
     
  7. Lex

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    Isn't the rest of the world the small penis support group?



    (note: Madame Zora was the first to ask that question)
     
  8. novice_btm

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    True, they are, but if you don't have an LP, or if you don't at least like LPs, why would you bother to join an LP site? I can just think of some many better things to do with my energy, like, oh, I dunno, maybe joining an SP support group. :rolleyes:
     
  9. Industrialsize

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    OK someone clue me in......how do you make those nifty barely readable comments?????
     
  10. Lex

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    Change the color of the text before you submit your post.

    If you choose well, you can make unreadable lines of text like this:


    WOOOOOOF!!!

    Highlight above this line to read.
     
  11. Industrialsize

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    OK....I'm offically stupid........I went "advanced" and can't find anywhere that will let me change the color of my text.........Where is it LEX?(daddy sir?)
     
  12. Supersized

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    Small men need approval from larger men. It is important for male bonding.
     
  13. guyface

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    Hahaha. :smile:

    Some people just need a support group. There isn't an online sp support group (at least not one you can join the same way as lpsg).
     
  14. Lex

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    Not True. This forum is over 10 years old.

    Main Index - Measurection.com - Powered by FusionBB

    Can we let it go now?
     
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    Come here boy, Ill show you.

    This box im typing in, look up at "sizes", Im surprised you missed it, :wink:
     
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    Yes there is. Measurection. Measurection is older than LPSG, having been born from the Small X-change email then BBS then website.

    LPSG was started as a joke and the owner at the time was shocked to find that big guys really do have issues.
     
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    Oh cool. I guess missed it. Still, the amount of positve attention towards big and small endowments is huge.


    Let what go?
     
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    i think your forgetting the SUPPORT part in LSPG, some people here may just use it for porn or "propaganda of over-sized phallic-ism" but i and some others I'm sure use this website for support, like how to adjust yourself without anyone realising, i don't think this website nor any other have anything to do with males and females believing that large penises are superior, i think its instinctual, i think i am the most biased person here because i was a late bloomer and had a small penis until i was about 17 and grew considerably. the porn industry is partly to blame with the recent symbolisation of a large penis, but i think it is mainly naturalistic and parental nurture. and comparing the feelings of people with micro-penises wishing they had larger ones, do you forget its the same with a lot of genetic disabilities? do people with big ears wish they were smaller, if it isn't the penis it's just something else. i believe that assuming that large penis infatuation is down to anything other than common human social normality.
     
  20. lucky8

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    lol ive wondered the same thing...what guy with a big dick needs a shoulder to cry on about it? im guessing 1 out of 10,000. ive come to realize that this is more of a socializing porn site rather than a support group, but if someone wants to have their cock insulted, what do i care? my answers to your questions:

    Why do people desire to see large penises, so much, that they would pay to see them? people want what they cant have. seeing a large penis is more stimulating to a person than seeing a small penis. if you watch porn, you may notice that the girls who tackle the really big cocks make REAL sounds and have REAL reactions, as opposed to girls who have sex with small penises and fake their reactions and sounds.
    Is it right for so much money to be made from the idea that a large penis is better? who says that large penises are better than small penises? ya, a lot of women prefer a big penis to a small penis, but that is because the size of the penis directly effects them when they are having sex. the only girl i have ever truly loved did not like my big penis. she was small, and i was too big, and honestly, i felt bad whenever we had sex because 1/2 the time she was in pain. so i can tell you from experience, bigger is not always better, but for those who like being visually and physically stimulated, i can see why a big cock could be seen as better.
    Why do most people think larger penises are superior? well everyone knows that a big penis can produce more sensation and bigger and better orgasms in women than a small penis can. a small penis cannot reach the cervix and epicenter to give those trembling orgasms that women seek. this is probably where the stereotype comes from. although, im sure society is partly to blame also. during the Roman empire, guys with large penises were NOT seen as superior. large penises back then were like small penises today. just look at all of the artwork from that time period. have you ever seen a statue or a painting that had a guy with a big wang? David certainly doesnt have one...
    Is it right to idolize people for what they were born with and can't change? i wouldnt say its right, but i also wouldnt say its wrong. who am i to judge what is right and wrong?
    Is it right to think less of people for what they were born with and can't change? no, and honestly, i dont think there are THAT many people in the world that look down on someone for having a small cock. small cocks are motivaters...ever heard of little man syndrome? ive heard that a few of my friends have really small dicks, but these "small dicked friends" are the most motivated people i have ever met. i certainly wouldnt say i look down on them, and anyone that does probably has issues of their own
     
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