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Of my relationships, people have often asked "who's the bottom?" My answer: "we don't do the top/bottom thing." The first guy who popped my cherry was vers and I thought everyone was like that. I found out most guys (when it came to anal intercourse) would only do one or the other.
I was lucky in my last relationship; he was totally vers like me. Back out in the dating world, I was reminded how rare this was. Anyone who said he was vers was usually a bottom. In the past I've dated total bottoms and total tops but not long-term. I'm currently dating a total top who has been sticking dildos up his ass to prepare for me. I told him I didn't want him to do it out of obligation.
In my experience (and I'm not exactly young) I haven't run into many other guys who were actually versatile. When people pry and I tell them I'm vers, they often accuse me of being a bottom with baggage. I assure them that if I was a total bottom, I'd be brazen. The number of guys who are totally vers like me seem mighty slim.
I was lucky in my last relationship; he was totally vers like me. Back out in the dating world, I was reminded how rare this was. Anyone who said he was vers was usually a bottom. In the past I've dated total bottoms and total tops but not long-term. I'm currently dating a total top who has been sticking dildos up his ass to prepare for me. I told him I didn't want him to do it out of obligation.
In my experience (and I'm not exactly young) I haven't run into many other guys who were actually versatile. When people pry and I tell them I'm vers, they often accuse me of being a bottom with baggage. I assure them that if I was a total bottom, I'd be brazen. The number of guys who are totally vers like me seem mighty slim.
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