Sorry if I shouldn't be creating this thread under this section, but I figured the whole top-bottom dimension was a central part of gay relationships. So this is something I've been wondering about a lot recently, but why does one choose to be solely a top? I mean, what are the incentives (other than the obvious physical pleasure)? Is it the sense of power and control? Do you just simply not enjoy being the bottom? Or do you just refuse to be the bottom because you may see it as emasculating? Also, would it be safe to assume that tops are more common amongst bisexual men than homosexual men? Not trying to put tops in a negative light (there's already so few of you!), but I'm simply curious, why top? I'm sure this thread has been done over and over again and I apologize for redoing it. I did try the Search function though, but my search for 'top' yielded "no matches".