Why?

[headbang8]

Katiecav, there's a sexist subtext to your question.

If you google "female body image" you'll find thousands of sites devoted to making women feel comfortable with their bodies. And deploring how women are held up to an impossible ideal.

Google "male body image" and you'll find a lot of articles which say how surprising it is that men, nowadays, might be even a little worried about how their bodies stack up. The first such article quotes a snide remark from a woman: "I think it's only fair that men get a taste of what it's like to be us." Meaning, I guess, that she wants even attractive men to be insecure about how they look, the impression they make, and the gifts nature gave them.

Even incredibly attractive women seek reassurance that they're desirable. They get it from female friends, and seek it from their (often exasperated) partners.

Men need some reassurance that they're OK, too---all of us, gifted or not. But in our culture, we're told to suck it up and get over it. Thank god there are places like the LPSG where we buck the trend.

Katie, if you've ever asked your boyfriend "Does my bum look fat in this?", and he's told you that it's a stupid question because you're an obviously attractive, desirable beautiful woman so stop being silly, then you know how we feel when somebody says "why do you need a large penis support group?"

hb8

 

[hippyscum]

Originally posted by headbang8@Aug 27 2005, 12:50 PM

Katie, if you've ever asked your boyfriend "Does my bum look fat in this?", and he's told you that it's a stupid question because you're an obviously attractive, desirable beautiful woman so stop being silly, then you know how we feel when somebody says "why do you need a large penis support group?"

hb8

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*applause* very nicely put HB8

 

[steve319]

Katiecav, I wonder if you've taken the time to read enough of the discussions and posts here to see the raw need for information and affirmation that so many of our members (myself included) have shown and, more importantly, how quickly the informed, supportive membership at LPSG jumps to action?

Your post strikes me as something done in the heat of the moment by a new visitor who hasn't seen the forums at work. Perhaps I'm wrong; maybe the lighthearted, joking topics and occasional personal attacks have given you the wrong impression. If so, give it another shot.

Rest assured that, for many of us, the openness and fellowship available here is a real gift.

Here are my shoes. Walk a mile or so then get back to me, OK? :hi:

 

[SomeGuyOverThere]

Im sure some people do need support, I remember one guy who was suffering from a genetic disorder and a tumour leading to a hilariously large penis, and I think he found LPSG a very supportive place he could talk about it.

I however, use it more for the open discussion, and how you can just discuss anything at all here.

If I hadnt found LPSG I'd still have told nobody at all that I am Bi, and would have missed out on a lot of interesting topics.

 

[MisterMark]

If you're curious about the history of the LPSG, here's something special for you. It's an archive of the LPSG throughout the years. It's not complete, but it gives you an idea of how it started:

http://web.archive.org/web/*/lpsg.org

 

[B_HallWildcat]

I personally like this site because of this; when i have had questions about sex, especially questions about fitting in my girlfriend and size issues its not easy to find someone to relate to, if i talk to a girl about it, she will think i am just trying to impress her cuz of my dick, and if i talk to most of my guy friends about it they either dont believe that i have some of the problems i have, or they cant relate because they arent hung. I am gald this site is here, you can get great advise, talk about the things you would be thinking about anyways and you can have fun.

 

[Paul Vincent]

I'm just curious why guys with a large penis need a support. If I was a guy I'd want to have a large penis. I would think guys who have a small penis would be much more in need of support.

I didn't ask for an LPSG lol. I come for the information, I stay for the education (and of course the many cool people). Although this is a site primarily about the penis, you can learn so much more...

Don't question, just enjoy lol.

 

[RideRocket]

The idea of a bunch of hung men sitting around in a circle holding hands and singing 'kumbaya' and then hugging each other just doesn't strike me as what's going on here.

Can you picture the meetings?

"Hi I'm D, and, well, <gets choked up> oh, I just don't know how to say it, well, <sobs> you see, it's just that <more sobs> my dick, ya know? Ya know what I'm talking about? It's just, TOO BIG. I need help <tears>"

I just joined recently because there are a group of people out there like me!

The only support I need is an athletic one... lol

 

[Paul Vincent]

The idea of a bunch of hung men sitting around in a circle holding hands and singing 'kumbaya' and then hugging each other...

That's some funny shit right there! XD

 

[Aruba 1st]

Why ?

What a sharp cookie !
She asked, “Why ?” !

I'm just curious about why guys with a large penis need support.

U-m-m-m-h-u-M
Very good question.
Have you noticed there are a number of different forums within LPSG ?
Each of these covers a different “problem/support required” area.
How to handle:
Sex,
Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy,
Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues,
Health,
Youth,
Women, etc.

Kind of like with girls. They have similar problems.

If I was a guy I'd want to have a large penis.

Uh huh.
Spoken like a new member to the List.
Sounds good, until you discover the drawbacks....

Stick around and read more.....
Bigger isn't always "better".
Someday you may meat a big fella. That will answer the question...

I would think guys who have a small penis would be much more in need of support.

There are similar physical problems shared by women with huge breasts and men with a huge penis.
Do you know any women with large (greater than D cup) or huge (greater than F or G cups) breasts ?
If so, ask them about the problems their size presents.
Then reconsider, and re-ask; Who needs more help ?
The flatter chests, or the well-endowed ?
.
.
“Why ?”

 

[14x8thck]

Many of us could have gone through our entire lives thinking that we were the ONLY dude who couldn&#39;t find underwear or jeans that fit or that we were the only guys who could never use a condom (there WAS a time before They Fit or Magnum XL). This forum gives us a place to discuss those things--the issues surrounding it (especially the fact that everyone thinks being huge is SO great) and the fall out because of it.

I don&#39;t feel like I NEED support (well, besides physical support)--but I am thankful that I can dialogue with people in similar situtations here and I am hopeful that the younger men/women reading these fora are better equipped (for having them to read) to deal with the issues that I so mightily struggled with.

That&#39;s why there is a LPSG.

BRAVO ! THE PERFECT ANSWER!

 

[RideRocket]

Thanks Paul!

 

[pippi]

maybe just everybody need help and support? i dont think its limited to any group of people with special physical or mental traits.
i am not here to get or give support, but rather because big penii fascinate me and i like to be a smart ass. will this get me banned?

 

[B_caneadea]

maybe just everybody need help and support? i dont think its limited to any group of people with special physical or mental traits.
i am not here to get or give support, but rather because big penii fascinate me and i like to be a smart ass. will this get me banned?

________________________________________________________

pippi, my friend, you're in good company here. And you're correct. Everybody need help and support.

 

[GoneA]

maybe just everybody need help and support? i dont think its limited to any group of people with special physical or mental traits.
i am not here to get or give support, but rather because big penii fascinate me and i like to be a smart ass. will this get me banned?

even people like you need support ... this should not get you banned.

but in the event that it does ... goodbye pippi.

 

[B_Spladle]

I'm just curious why guys with a large penis need a support. If I was a guy I'd want to have a large penis. I would think guys who have a small penis would be much more in need of support.

I feel the same way. I think the fact that this forum exists is pretty silly. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

 

[latin_male83]

to be honest, i think its kind of odd that theres a lpsg but no average guys or small guys, apsg or spsg but at the same time its nice to have somewhere to talk about the penis in an open setting and not have to worry about what other people think or about them judging you for bringing up the topic.

 

[B_Danceswithlamps]

to be honest, i think its kind of odd that theres a lpsg but no average guys or small guys, apsg or spsg but at the same time its nice to have somewhere to talk about the penis in an open setting and not have to worry about what other people think or about them judging you for bringing up the topic.

Actually, there is, for smaller endowed men, at least. BTW, I'm not sure it would be right to say small men, or small guys. They are no less of a person because the have 3 inches below average. (No pun intended). Anywhoo, for the smaller penii/penises/dicks/whatever, there is www.measurection.com

As for why there is an LPSG, would you just waltz up to a friend and say, "Hey Jim. You know, my penis is 9 inches long (just a random number), and it stays hard forever. What do you think?" You just don't usually do that. LPSG is a place where open discussion of a sexual origin and topic is supported, incouraged, and intended.

Or, you could take it this way: If your cock doesn't have support, then it flops down into your legs or on top of your balls.

Make your pick!