WHY!?!?!
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Ms.Teacher
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I've gotten quite a few messages like that and it is annoying.
If I'm going to rate a pic, I don't want to be told to do it. I've received umpteen messages saying something like, "check out my pics and rate me."
And I've also received countless requests to view cams. One guy wanted me to watch his cam, and when I told him I wasn't interested in viewing cams, he insisted. I told him "no" again, and he said something like, "just watch it for a minute so you can see how big I am" lol
B_Think_Kink
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Don't think you're special in any way shape or form, we all get them.. it's a part of being here. You don't like it, then turn off your private message option, or learn to use the ignore feature.
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No it's not obvious - what's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this?
Or conversely, what's a girl like you doing in a nice place like this?
Seriously though.
What are you, new?
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What is it that makes you think that being a moderator negates my right to an opinion or the expression of it?
I was derisive because I think this thread is an attention ploy. I mean, it's been what? a week since the last "why did this guy contact me?" thread. Hardly a new theme. And from what you've relayed of the PM he wasn't rude or harassing about it so you're not even getting the shit end of these PMs either.
In a way I am doing my job as moderator here by trying to discourage the practice of starting a new thread by each member every time they open an unsolicited PM. That would flood the boards with garbage in a hurry wouldn't it?
You felt the need to start a sympathy thread because you recieved a polite, complimentary possibly even literate (what a treat!) request to rate a guys penis. So I ask again. What are you, new?
WHY!?!?!
Why did this guy send you a PM asking to rate his dick?
Possibly for the same reason that every other woman gets them; because the option to send PMs is there.
Or hey, maybe it's because he saw your thread inviting people to ask you "anything".
Did you reply in a "size queen" thread? One of your reponses may have promted your PM'er. Or, perhaps, they don't want to bother with an admitted size-queen who may not find them up to snuff.
(As for the ratings request with no pics...maybe they got taken down?)
Not entirely. You may be here to admire big cocks, or you may be here to meet them. (Or you habitually join any old damned message board, or you're deparate for attention, or...)
I'm frequently compelled to ask women why they've joined because I want to know about the women who would join dick sites; it's not typical of ANY woman I know. (Or if it is, they hide it well)
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LMAO!
Who can complete this quote from it's original usage?
On the contrary. I get it and PMs like it all the time. As do most of the other women on the site.
We just don't feel the need to flap our arms about it.
You got a polite PM? Oh, dear god, not that!
Mandee is peeved because none of you support her opinion. And why should you? You are a human being, you have an opinion, and it may run contrary to hers. Does that make you more right than her? Less right? I don't know, I didn't start this thread. It just means you gave it some thought and wrote that thought down. If she takes it personal as an attack, she needs to get some more maturity. Or, find another penis sex site. Maybe they are more gentlemanly there.
B_Think_Kink
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AHH careful, don't throw logistics into a message board you might hurt her or something..
Attention whore, I knew it.. just like every other post made...
No support from me man sorry.
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i used to get those types of PMs every 12 minutes under my old name. I have to admit since i don't chat much on this name or post much even, i don't get them anymore.
I know once i say that i will get a myriad of PMs about it now. None the less, Mandee probably got a few of them in a short duration of time and felt like posting about it because she was frustrated.
It does indeed get frustrating but i think its worse for the guys taking the time to write the PMs and hunt down the females to send them to- because we never respond and they are zapped as soon as we read their subject line.
I think some men are fascinated with size queens for various reasons: Possibly they are into the small penis humiliation and the bigger you like them the smaller they seem to you. Maybe they want to get inside the mind of a size queen in order to find one in real life. Or maybe they are feeling rejected being an average size and want to know how the women here feel about his penis size.
I am insulted to be called a size queen because i feel its a category that i'm always thrown into by people who don't know me just because i'm here. We are all here for different reasons. I just happened to be searching for medical information about complications regarding a large penis. I stayed because the coffee was good.
Damn im wordy today.
I know once i say that i will get a myriad of PMs about it now. None the less, Mandee probably got a few of them in a short duration of time and felt like posting about it because she was frustrated.
It does indeed get frustrating but i think its worse for the guys taking the time to write the PMs and hunt down the females to send them to- because we never respond and they are zapped as soon as we read their subject line.
I think some men are fascinated with size queens for various reasons: Possibly they are into the small penis humiliation and the bigger you like them the smaller they seem to you. Maybe they want to get inside the mind of a size queen in order to find one in real life. Or maybe they are feeling rejected being an average size and want to know how the women here feel about his penis size.
I am insulted to be called a size queen because i feel its a category that i'm always thrown into by people who don't know me just because i'm here. We are all here for different reasons. I just happened to be searching for medical information about complications regarding a large penis. I stayed because the coffee was good.
Damn im wordy today.
D_Kaye Throttlebottom
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:rofl:
Yeah...me too!
I mean, I don't participate...I sware. I just watch... take pictures and people watch. :yeah:
... uhm ... yeah... that's it! ... wait...stop looking at me! :scratchchin:
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Mandee - I know it's annoying, but you're on a Big penis board...and most forums, that aren't even as overt about DICK as this board, most women get slammed with requests for sex on any board. So this forum isn't unlike any other.
Accept that and learn to use delete or ignore. Otherwise you end up making a rant on a thread that you'll regret later. We all have.
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Mandee, I am sorry to see that lately you have been having a hard time coping with this board. Sometimes it can get to the best of us. I do hope you take time to rest a bit. Just as one of MR's post stated 'rest does the body good'.
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