Yes, but why wait 25 yrs to say that. Was asked 25yrs ago and left that one detail out. Why say it now?
Another thread to continue your lament about YOUR perception that somehow your wife was wrong in answering your persistent sexual questions. Once again laying bare your deep insecurities about your wife's sexual past; about the size of your penis.
You've stated that you pressured her to talk about her past lovers; it's not like she said one day all of a sudden: Hey, guess what? Before I met you, I fucked a guy with a penis smaller than you and, oh, I fucked a guy with a penis bigger than you. YOU pressured HER. Careful what you ask for!
The women I know are with their spouses because of so much more than their penis. You need to come to grips with this fact alone. Or continue down the road you are on and continue pushing away your wife. Cuz that's what you are doing. You've stated yourself her reluctance to talk about her past lovers she had before she was with you. Yet you insisted, she told you, and now look where you are...insecure as fuck!
And that's exactly where YOU need to leave it. In the past. Cuz, it's obvious from your numerous threads and postings that she knew answering your questions about past-lover penis sizes would cause problems. As I said in another thread you started, your wife is very intuitive. She knew you were not secure enough to handle the truth. Your insecurity is on display front-and-center every time you post the same story, regardless of the thread title.
I predict if you continue down this road with your wife that YOU will cause further problems in your relationship. That may not be able to be overcome.
You need to do some serious introspection. About the fact that your wife is YOUR wife. She is with YOU. She loves YOU. All of YOU. That's why she's with YOU. Not the guy with the smaller/larger penis than you. She's with YOU. For 25 fucking years. Sheesh.
Let it go. Find a way to deal with it in a positive way and work to resolve it. Before it's too late.
You have any sex before you met your wife? Were they prettier? Or younger? Did they have bigger boobs than your wife? Or whatever? How's she feel about that? Or does she not ask? Or not care? Because YOU are with HER? See how ridiculous this sounds?
I do have a question: What is it you are insecure about? The fact that your wife fucked other dudes before she met you? Or that she fucked a dude a little larger dicked than you?
Seriously dude, you need to get some professional counseling. And not on a big-dick internet site. You are torturing yourself about something you cannot change. The past.
And that's where it belongs--in the past. Let it go. Your future happiness with your wife, is in a large part now, up to you. I wish you well and that you find a way to deal with this.