I have a question. My wife has told me about a guy she slept with before me that had a very small cock. She said they could not really do it because he was so small he kept falling out. Has anyone else ever experienced this? She also has never told me about sleeping with him till this week 20 yrs later. She also had his name on her ankle till she had it removed. Why do you think she kept this from me?
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Yes, I've had sex with a person who had a micropenis, so some positions wouldn't work. He would slip out.
I have no fucking clue why your wife would get anyone's name tattooed or why she kept something from you. I would never get anyone's name tattooed and I don't keep shit from my partner. He knows everything. We're brutal honesty kind of people. You could, gee, I don't know, ask your wife. She's the only one that can answer that for you.
I have no fucking clue why your wife would get anyone's name tattooed or why she kept something from you. I would never get anyone's name tattooed and I don't keep shit from my partner. He knows everything. We're brutal honesty kind of people. You could, gee, I don't know, ask your wife. She's the only one that can answer that for you.
Thanks for the reply. I have asked her, but she just gets mad at me and says it was the past. Kibda shitty answer if you ask me. Not sure why she can not tell me the truth about it. I have told her everything about me and if she ask me anything I would have no problem answering.
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I have only encountered one micropenis my whole life, sex wasn't an option because there was no shaft.
I can't really answer the tattoo thing. You'd probably best ask her. Usually people get names tattooed when it's a loved one so I guess she must have loved him, or she was very young and didn't think it through.
I can't really answer the tattoo thing. You'd probably best ask her. Usually people get names tattooed when it's a loved one so I guess she must have loved him, or she was very young and didn't think it through.
She got the tattoo removed, right?
Why she got the tattoo? Young and stupid. If I wasn't riddled with OCD about ink I would have all kind of ink I regret. I grew up in the body community and stick to a think about it for six months to a year before getting it done. If you still like it, do it. I bet she gave about as much time thinking about getting that tattoo as it took her to get to the parlor.
Why she won't talk about it with you? How did you react to the news of her experience with a micro-penis? If you perved out or weirded out about it she might not be comfortable discussing the issue with you. AND this was over 20 years ago. She's over it. The information is new to you but old hat, and dealt with, for her. Why do you care so much about a guy she had sex with like two decades plus ago? One she's clearly left behind with very little thought and has been with you for the majority of her adult life?
Also.. being forthcoming with all the details in your life is not a requirement in a relationship. Just because you would answer any question, which you can't honestly say until you have been asked everything, doesn't mean she owes you tit for tat. You've found a topic/time in her life she is not comfortable talking about with you. Be a grown-up about it and let it go.
Why she got the tattoo? Young and stupid. If I wasn't riddled with OCD about ink I would have all kind of ink I regret. I grew up in the body community and stick to a think about it for six months to a year before getting it done. If you still like it, do it. I bet she gave about as much time thinking about getting that tattoo as it took her to get to the parlor.
Why she won't talk about it with you? How did you react to the news of her experience with a micro-penis? If you perved out or weirded out about it she might not be comfortable discussing the issue with you. AND this was over 20 years ago. She's over it. The information is new to you but old hat, and dealt with, for her. Why do you care so much about a guy she had sex with like two decades plus ago? One she's clearly left behind with very little thought and has been with you for the majority of her adult life?
Also.. being forthcoming with all the details in your life is not a requirement in a relationship. Just because you would answer any question, which you can't honestly say until you have been asked everything, doesn't mean she owes you tit for tat. You've found a topic/time in her life she is not comfortable talking about with you. Be a grown-up about it and let it go.
Why did she keep it from you? Probably because she knew you'd obsess over it and badger her.
We talked last night and I said just tell me the truth about everything. She did most was what she told me before. The tattoo was just her and friends sitting around and three of them did it. Crazy kid stuff. The guy she just told me about she said it just didnt work he could not keep it in and he came without her touching it. The one thing she told me that she lied about to me years ago was a one night thing with a guy she had sex with had a fatter cock then me. She had always told me I was her biggest. I am 8.5x6.5” so he must have been pretty fat. This bothers me. Not sure why after so many years she told me this and lied about it.
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No one knows. But, it's what you've done. So, you tell us. Why would you do that?
Be careful of what you ask for or demand in your case.
Your insecurity is pretty fucking ugly and from the tone of what your posting boarder line abusive.
If I were her I'd be planning an exit strategy.
Your insecurity is pretty fucking ugly and from the tone of what your posting boarder line abusive.
If I were her I'd be planning an exit strategy.
How am I insecure? And how the fuck is it abuse? She can leave anytime she likes and she knows that. No need to plan an exit. She knows I will carry on with my life if she ever decides to leave. Life goes on. No one should be that hung up in one person. How many guys u know that are 8.5x6.5 and insecure. Not this one
Just my $0.02 but that you keep bringing up your size to the half inch seems a little less than confident/secure. To me.
I don't care about rounding up or down, but you keep bringing up your size, and seem really fixated on the sizes of past sexual partners your wife was intimate with. That doesn't seem confident or secure to me, no matter how the measuring is done. Can't and won't speak for anyone else, though.
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reason I posted was because I wanted some insight on why she would have lied to me so long ago just to bring it up now. I dont understand. Was just seeing if anyone else dealt with anything like this. As for dick size I couldnt care a less. We go to nude resorts all the time and she sees all kinds of dicks. Im not insecure at all just didnt get it.
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