All I'm saying is, is that I wish women would be more open to talking about it, as it is a reality, when it occurs. And it can be a mood killer for both parties and that I think can be overcome by discussion and checking in with your partner. In general, I think communication is good, call me crazy.
Clearly THEY are equally, if not more so embarrassed by it in my experience, I just wish there could be a conversation about it to check in with both parties. And again, it's odd to me that women want to talk about everything EXCEPT what goes on in the bedroom. there is noticeable disconnect there. I'm sure they have no problem bringing it up with their coterie of girlfriends at brunch the next morning... safely discussing amongst their girlfriends how guys "don't get it" how "weird guys are about blood" and why they can't just "get over it".
Women should hopefully try to understand that men don't typically deal with blood in the genital region, so when I look down in a state of bliss and discover that my cock looks like a CSI crime scene (joke), It's a little bit of a mood changer. And maybe a conversation with the woman about what's going on and checking in, would be helpful.
And yes, I'm always checking in with my partner before and during, to be sure she's okay, that nothing hurts, that nothing is to deep, that no position is too uncomfortable. And it's often met with confused looks of bewilderment.
Yes, I made a joke in the forum HERE, not in person in bed, bonehead. Your conclusions and assumptions are fascinatingly off topic. I'm trying to lighten the mood IN THE FORUM as I make my point. I'm sorry you are without a sense of humor. I'll be sure to bracket with parentheses (jokes) for the simian minded.
It's the fact that you're worrying about your mood and yourself instead of wondering if she's alright. Also the whole making a "joke" about the girls not wanting to talk for once doesn't instill the feeling that you care about the issue for her, and instead are only thinking yourself. In addition you're most likely kind of a douche especially to girls if you're going to make a sexist remark while asking for girl's advice or insight.