When with a partner who's needs do you think about first? Are you more concerned with getting your orgasm or giving them one? And if you cum first are you still interesting in them getting theirs, even if you have to resort oral?
You or Them?
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When I was in college, or was drunk, then me me me.. any orgasms she had was merely coincidental.
you learn how much foreplay matters and getting her warmed up as you get older.. now its about 50/50. if you're doing it right, even if you decide to focus on yourself, they'll still get something out of it :biggrin1:
you learn how much foreplay matters and getting her warmed up as you get older.. now its about 50/50. if you're doing it right, even if you decide to focus on yourself, they'll still get something out of it :biggrin1:
I think about my own needs. But my need is to have a guy fuck me until he cums. Wait, I'm confused.
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I've done it all these ways: me only, him only, and both of us. Ideally, the last is most preferable, but different needs and situations don't always lend themselves to that "happy ending". Sometimes time or actual horniness are factors. After cumming first, I always try to please them, too, because I have had many "tricks" who came first and left me high and dry (or is it "wet"?).
It may be a no brainier for you, but i promise that not all guys think like you :no:
