Your guy with another guy.

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  1. Oliver_Clothesoff

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    Just curious. Would it turn you on to see your husband/boyfriend with another guy? Not a "You turned me gay" kind of thing but a "One time, we were experimenting" thing. Would you rather walk in on them unexpectedly or have them put on a show for you?
     
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    Discovering my partner is having sex with anyone behind my back when we've agreed upon a monogamous relationship is NEVER a turn on, no matter who that person is or what they're doing.

    However, I would enjoy a threesome and seeing TheBF with another man, which he's never done because he's straight.
     
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    No, I don't think so. He's expressed to me that he'd like to see me with another woman but I'm too selfish to see him with anyone else. I want him to myself.

    If I walked in on him with another guy I'd probably raise an eyebrow in surprise but I don't think I'd be mad as long as it wasn't like a permanent thing and only experimental and he explained it as such and it pretty much never happened again.

    Otherwise, those images of him with another man do nothing for me from a turn on point. I'd rather just have him to myself.
     
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    If I walked in on a boyfriend with another person male or female we would be over, immediately no talking needed.

    HOWEVER, if he was interested in experimenting I could definitely watch and be totally turned on by it... atleast I think I would be since I find guy/ guy stuff can be really hot.
     
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    Mine would never go for it. But I would love to see him with another man. I have to agree with the other ladies, however. Ours is a monogamous relationship. My walking in on him having sex with anyone without clearing it with me first might just cost him half of everything.
     
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    Puts a new spin on the expression I'd give my left nut to...

    :tongue:
     
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    I think 2 guys together is hot but I would want to be in on it from the beginning
     
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    In a word ......no!
     
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    I know he's had offers but no, I wouldn't want it to happen. I know of one experience he's had but that was some time in the past and he claims it was passive.

    He is mine and I'm very, very stingy.
     
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    I'm honestly not sure that I'd like it much. When it comes to porn, I can enjoy some guy on guy action, but watching my man be with ANYONE else, regardless of gender, isn't very arousing at all...
     
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    ^^this.

    i'm hugely turned off by the idea of seeing a male lover with another guy. i don't dig gay porn either.

    it just ain't my bag, baby.
     
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    ^^^ this. Also, ^^^ this.
     
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