they're out there. i've sucked thousands of cocks over the years, and the really big ones are rare, but they do exist, much to the delight of queers like me! you won't believe this, but i used to suck a young black man with a thick 16 inch cock. also, i had a straight friend while i was working in a hospital whose soft cock hung below his knee caps. it was very thin, when soft, and averaged 18 inches long, soft! i saw it erect a few times when he was getting bathed in bed. when he was on his back and hard, the head rested under his chin! he was in the hospital for over a year after a car accident, and i never did get to suck that cock! the female nurses used to get it though, especially on the night shift. they named his dick john-john, for some reason, and used to draw the curtains around his bed and take turns riding that big white snake. ahh! good times!