Frequency of sex for couples

[hvdude]

25 years, but the sex wasn't ever that important. (Honestly) we stopped having sex years ago. We both j/o and are fine with it.

 

[Notaes]

After 30 years we still have sex 4to5times a week

After 33 yrs we still fuck 4-5 times week! Great Sex!!!

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

We've lived together 12 years, been married 2-1/2. Barring illness or a big issue we pretty much always have had sex at least once a week, usually twice, and here and there have some really busy weeks. And we both touch, rub, grab every night at bedtime and when we wake. Just having each other there is a comfort. Right now she is on a week-long business trip...we had some great sex before she left, and hope to repeat it when she returns.

 

[familyman44]

we been married 31 years and still have sex atleast 4 to 5 times a week also as we love to play .

 

[Bunny35]

We have been together 13 years, and sex has dwindled to nothing. Its very frustrating and breeds suspicion. I often think about playing away, but haven't yet.

 

[libralover4u2]

My wife and I were married for 23 years and we had sex at least once a day, more on the weekends. She was a very hot, gorgeous Asian gal when we met and stayed that way, even after three children. We always started with lots of foreplay and loving, and I made sure she had at least one orgasm every time we had sex. Looking back on it, I think that helped keep sex enjoyable for her. And as for me, she could French kiss me and I was hard.

 

[jimmyjohn2018]

We have been together 13 years, and sex has dwindled to nothing. Its very frustrating and breeds suspicion. I often think about playing away, but haven't yet.

Talk about it. Been here and we talked about it, and then I had a real talk about it. I explained in detail how much it hurt me when she would turn me down, over and over. I talked honestly about my wandering thoughts. In the end it was the best thing I ever did. I had to really open up (and I am not like that at all) but I think that is what really made her realize that it was sex or the marriage.

I guess if she would not have responded very positively we probably would both be single now.

 

[insert_8]

. . . I had to really open up (and I am not like that at all) but I think that is what really made her realize that it was sex or the marriage.

I guess if she would not have responded very positively we probably would both be single now.

I was quite fortunate to marry a girl who understood that concept from the start. We were both wedding-night virgins, but she had seen several failed marriages in her extended family due to sexual problems. She assured me, quite early in our relationship, that her husband would never lack for sex. (As you might guess, that was a rather uncomfortable conversation to have with a girl I was just starting to date!)

Through 45 years she has met those goals - though, as best I can tell, she gets a lot of pleasure from doing so.

 

[Abagnale12]

My wife and I have sex anywhere from 3-15 times a week. Average is probably like 7. Some days are zero, some are 4, so it depends.

 

[Tripod228mm]

Married between 15-19 years (being ambiguous on purpose, sorry). Sex every night. Each Sunday and Saturday mornings, and some lunchtime quickies if we are both home for work that day. So. 9-12 times per week. It's all quality sex, too, not just quantity. The only catch is that I have to do all the work, even when she asks to have sex. But it's worth it, I guess.

 

[ohiorod]

Talk about it. Been here and we talked about it, and then I had a real talk about it. I explained in detail how much it hurt me when she would turn me down, over and over. I talked honestly about my wandering thoughts. In the end it was the best thing I ever did. I had to really open up (and I am not like that at all) but I think that is what really made her realize that it was sex or the marriage.

I guess if she would not have responded very positively we probably would both be single now.

It is amazing though that the idea of communication is sometimes never thought about when someone has unfulfilled needs. I guess sometimes it is easier to just wander or build up anger than to have a frank conversation with someone that you are in a relationship with!

 

[Nosuportneeded]

After seeing the same woman for 5ish years and living together for almost two, it’s about 2-3 times a week. Maybe more. After 5 days I’m a real shit about it. I really try to be cool and wish I could be cooler. All I know is that I’m really lucky and could doing without. What can I say? It’s my favorite thing and she’s my favorite one to do it with

 

[sixthsense]

We have been together 13 years, and sex has dwindled to nothing. Its very frustrating and breeds suspicion. I often think about playing away, but haven't yet.

Similar boat. Together for 16+ years and lucky if it’s once a quarter. I take care of my own needs ~daily.

I was so close to playing, but ultimately stopped before anything started. Will need to have to put it all out there like jimmyjohn2018 at some point soon.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

The last 2 years of my marriage. Nothing. Been married 22 years. Separated now.

 

[diver6]

The last 2 years of my marriage. Nothing. Been married 22 years. Separated now.

What was wrong with that guy, I’d been all over you daily!

 

[Notaes]

After 21 years together, 19 married, sex is gone. Haven’t had sex with my wife in 16 months. Prior 5 years was once a month at best. She’s hit early menopause (she’s 43, I’m 50) and says she has zero desire. Add on her chronic pain and anxiety which she refuses to see a medical doc for (she only takes natural supplements recommended by our chiro) and I’m a completely frustrated spouse. When we did have sex she was totally into it, came often and enjoyed it, I like to remember the first five years together when it was multiple times a week and sweat dripping passion.

I have a sister n law that tells her 48 yr old husband she has no desire. As I told him, that can be remedied with a patch! With my brother n law it’s just an excuse no to have sex because she doesn’t want too. It’s something all the time with her.

 

[Billybrown1]

It is amazing though that the idea of communication is sometimes never thought about when someone has unfulfilled needs. I guess sometimes it is easier to just wander or build up anger than to have a frank conversation with someone that you are in a relationship with!

Absolutely. Communication is key! Those hard conversations do lead to a happier (more sex) life. Especially when things slow down after years of being together. Talking and exploring fetishes together brings sex back, better sex.

 

[masonjames]

Was married 50 years in April. We have sex about once every two weeks. When she wants it. I would have sex a lot more often but have learned over the years that id she don't want it then it isn't worth having. When she's ready the sex if hot as hell!

 

[stephen1169]

My wife and I were married for 23 years and we had sex at least once a day, more on the weekends. She was a very hot, gorgeous Asian gal when we met and stayed that way, even after three children. We always started with lots of foreplay and loving, and I made sure she had at least one orgasm every time we had sex. Looking back on it, I think that helped keep sex enjoyable for her. And as for me, she could French kiss me and I was hard.

married to viet lady for 48 years she is the best fuck I have ever had at 68 will still fuck and a lot of oral sex with toys

 

[919507]

1-2 a week, sometimes jobs get in the way but when we do it’s still very hot and we talk and communicate well.