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Going to try dating girls again

So from my previous posts I went in detail describing my mostly sex romps with other men I've met out here. I've decided to start looking for a gf. You know fooling around with guys is always fun and exciting, their isn't the tenderness you get with being with a woman. Sexually for the most part guys turn me on, but I do have this attraction to women that is emotional and the physical. That's why I started to be more active in my interaction with women. I also went on a dating site, much to my embarassment but have started chating with this girl. ?Going to go meet her for coffee, also have this newly single girl I was pursing before I found out she had a bf. Going for drinks tomorrow.

Me in the dating scene, man what am I getting myself in to?......

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D
You should maybe post this in a thread to get more input. I think blogs for some reason don't attract as much input.

I wouldn't discuss your attraction to guys with any new gf at this point.
 
v32bone
I'm a poly guy that dates mostly women and I tend to put it out there that I am attracted to guys as well shortly after I get to know a woman. But it depends on how it feels with that woman. Most women I find myself dating already know I'm poly and if they don't I explain that sometime on the first date. If they handle that well, I may get around to disclosing my interest in men. If it looks like it's going to be a brief fling and/or they are obviously less than very oepn sexually then I don't bother. I'm tested and safe and they really have nothing to worry about at that point. At this point most of the women I date are either bi or poly so they are fine with my preferences.
 
D
Women like to know they can compete for a man's attention. Or rather people like to know they can satisfy their partners in way they need. If you say there is a side of you that they may not be able to satisfy that can be unsettling for many. It suggests the relationship may never be stable. And maybe they aren't looking for a stable relationship, it just depends on where they are in life.
 
D
I think it is great that you are putting yourself out there! I too find women more emotionally available and physically tender than men but that is based solely on my past experience and I am sure that there are men out there who could satisfy in those respects as well. At least, I hope so. Variety is always good so good for you!
 
B
Not to be too negative about your experience with guys but in reality they have the same capacity for emotional availability as girls. Also they can be as tender as any woman. The difference is maybe you haven't met guys who are as open. It's harder to do if you're doing the one night hook-up thing. A person is not going to be emotionally available if they don't know you.
 
lokican
Hey guys thanks for the advice. First I usually tell girls I've dated that I'm bi after they get to know me. I always believe in being honest with people, but don't want to be seen solely by my sexual orientation.

As for finding the right guy, I would be open to it if I did fall in love with a guy. I've only loved one person before and it was women. I dont see myself falling in love with a guy, but it could happen.
 

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