It's amazing how stress and insecurity can make things more difficult, especially to keep your cock nice and hard for your lady.
I'm loving my new girl and our relationship together. Now, my ex destroyed my sexual confidence with what she did and said about me (for one thing what man wants to hear "is it in yet?" when he's thrusting away) so I'm still being built up, slowly. However, I noticed a box of Trojan Magnums in my girlfriends bathroom medicine chest. So clearly she's used to some bigger boys. Makes me feel a bit inadequate. Even if I know I shouldn't, the crap is still in the back of my mind. How do I deal with this?
The other thing is that she loves to give head, and I love enjoying it! But it's hard for me to come from it (or at all) unless there's the right stimulation. She will torment my knob with sucking on it and lots of other wonderful things that make me moan and I love every second of it but it doesn't make me come. So what do I do to keep her confidence up? She comes easy so I can make her come when I want but she works and works and I don't "produce" for her. That, combined with other shit in my life (won't go into detail on this site) is a stressful toll and I don't want it to ruin her enjoyment of pleasuring me. What do I do?
I'm loving my new girl and our relationship together. Now, my ex destroyed my sexual confidence with what she did and said about me (for one thing what man wants to hear "is it in yet?" when he's thrusting away) so I'm still being built up, slowly. However, I noticed a box of Trojan Magnums in my girlfriends bathroom medicine chest. So clearly she's used to some bigger boys. Makes me feel a bit inadequate. Even if I know I shouldn't, the crap is still in the back of my mind. How do I deal with this?
The other thing is that she loves to give head, and I love enjoying it! But it's hard for me to come from it (or at all) unless there's the right stimulation. She will torment my knob with sucking on it and lots of other wonderful things that make me moan and I love every second of it but it doesn't make me come. So what do I do to keep her confidence up? She comes easy so I can make her come when I want but she works and works and I don't "produce" for her. That, combined with other shit in my life (won't go into detail on this site) is a stressful toll and I don't want it to ruin her enjoyment of pleasuring me. What do I do?
