The love and sex life of an Englishman.

At one time, I believed that most men met the stereotypical, cheating personality type with more interest in sleeping around than settling down. As time has gone by though, I see that women are just as guilty as men. I have met several women who I felt I loved and wanted to settle down with. These women turned out to be only interested in sex. They didn't want anything more, and why should they? However, I find it worth noting that both sexes can be hurt easily by the opposite sex. As obvious as this seems, it is easy to forget when dealing with matters of the heart. ManofThunder, signing out.

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Men want more than a piece of ass? When did this all happen? Hmm.... I can't honestly remember the last time a guy was interested in my brain or anything else other than my tits and a place to put his dick.
 
Audre'sAunt;bt27823 said:
Men want more than a piece of ass? When did this all happen? Hmm.... I can't honestly remember the last time a guy was interested in my brain or anything else other than my tits and a place to put his dick.

AA, you talk like that's a bad thing ...
 
MoT... it certainly feels true, doesn't it? But I think it's important to keep hope that someday, someone will want the whole package... not just THE package... but all of you.
 
I agree with Manofthunder, if i just want sex, i just hire an protitute, there are moments where i just wanna cuddle with a girl, nothing sexual, and feel that someone loves me
 
Unfortunately men do not corner the market on being sexual opportunists. Thankfully, not all people are like that. I agree with LaFemme, someone will want all of you and not just part of you. Perhaps this is karma's way of weeding out the women that are undeserving of your heart. You certainly wouldn't want to be paired up with someone so superficial and selfish. It would be so much easier if people were just up front about what they wanted...it would make relationships so much easier.
 
I second the statements above, ManofThunder please do not become jaded due to a few negative experiences.

Speaking for myself I can honestly say that there are women out there that desire a bonded, monogamous relationship. I have never cheated, nor would I ever consider doing so because I have to answer to my inner conscience. This is not to say that I wouldn’t enjoy a 3-way with 2 men but that would not be cheating because my man would be a participant.

The only time I ever entered a relationship for sex only was when I was still exploring my sexuality and decided to take a walk on the wild side when a man offered me an experience like no other. I was without a partner at the time so it was not cheating. Also, there was a clear understanding right from the beginning, before anything happened that sex was all either partner desired and even then after months together it became much more. I am someone who gets emotionally involved and am not afraid of loving with all of my heart, although it has caused more than a few heartbreaks in my lifetime. But with each I learn more about myself and am thankful for the experience of knowing and loving the other person. I believe that people pass through our lives for a purpose and even though it may be brief at times they leave an impression and in doing so they change our lives ever so slightly, and maybe that’s what we needed to happen…
 
I find its when we are not looking for more then fun in our lives.... that more shows right up!

MoT I agree women cheat just as much as men. All of us gets hurt at some point we just have to look harder the next time and recognize it before we get hurt.
 

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