What Is "Great Sex" For You?

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You are a sweet lady and I always wish the best sex for you.
Crossy

My idea of great sex:

I like it when both partners are equally generous when giving pleasure, being able to relax and enjoy something is just as important as making the effort to give your partner the pleasure they desire.

I like to be surprised by something different or new, it's fun when both partners are creative.

Energy and endurance is important for bringing your partner to orgasm and continuing to give multiple orgasms if desired.

Just enough moaning so that I'm not deafened helps to turn on my mind.

Communication is important, especially body language, to increase the passion, for example I love it when a girl looks into my eyes and smiles when she is giving head.

Variety is important, limits are passion killers.

Ending only when we are both exhausted is a sign that we've had great sex.

mmmmmmmmmm dongalong, you said it!

I love it when I have the freedom to take the time i want to really explore a man and move from body part to body part ... when he tells me he's loving it, oohing and ahhhing, his grunting or swearing -- all of it really turns me on and makes want to keep on pleasing and teasing... teehee... until he just can't take it anymore and throws me over and spreads my legs and goes to town on my pussy... fondling my butt cheeks, groping my breasts, pinching my nipples, sucking my labia and clit wayyyyy up into his mouth, then driving his fingers deep into my pussy ... oh ... somebody pinch me cuz I'm going over the edge just thinking about it. Damn!

God... i can't even get to the good sex part... lol ... that's another hour later.

When either I or the wife whimpers in joy after it is over...I tend to get multiple orgasms and she can prolong them...

Hi bc_chica:

<<<<sucking my labia and clit wayyyyy up into his mouth...>>>

Oh, yeah, add that to my initial post, above. I wish men would do more with the pussy... There are so many variations on touching a woman's pussy, including licking, sucking, nibbling, rubbing, squeezing, pinching, slapping. The difference between a "good" and an "excellent" lover IMO is the man's love, care and attention to his woman's pussy. A woman who truly enjoys sex, making love knows the difference!

bc_chica, please tell us about an hour later... I know what you mean, but I'm home alone and need a bit of a thrill tonight. I've spent six, even seven hours along with a very passionate friend and it's the best sex I've had in a long time, if ever!

Maybe it's my age, combined with my abundant enthusiasm and zeal for sex (in response to a period of depression and "no sex") that's giving me a "good" sex feeling I'm currently enjoying. Plus add to that a guy who is equally passionate, enthusiastic and exceptionally adept that makes it "great," rather than just "good."

At this point in my life as a separated going through divorce woman in her 40s, I can't imagine ever settling for a new man who is anything less than "good."

:biggrin1: Once you've had it "great..." It's hard to settle even accept anything less; don't you agree?

FlowerChick

I worship women and a woman's body. I love to touch and play with every part. I love for my hands to rome everywhere. I love to be gentle and touch.
Breasts are wonderful I could play there all day.. touching, kissing , tasting, caressing, bouncing, compimenting.
But the pussy is the best of all. I love to look, touch, love in as many ways as possible, Gentle hands playing. Hungry lips sucking. Extended tongue tasting.. I love the clit. I love the soft pussy lips. I love the nice hair the enhances the female pubs. My fingers love to explore inside gently playing and massaging every corner. I love it when the side of my hand massages the length of that hidden valley. Having done all that I love the feel of my manly hardness massaging that juicy channel of love.
To feel my skin pulled back as I enter into her and her wetness covering my manhood can never be praised enough.
I long to combine my body with hers and stay forever. I love to open my mouth and swallow that tasty dessert. Her sounds please me, her movements thrill me, her jerking is wonderful.
And I thank the woman who gives me that thrill when we are together.

It seems to me many of us really enjoy extended sessions where there's plenty of time, lots of touching, and pleasing one another. All of it as described by the commenters above IMO have described what may really be pure ecstacy for them.

As an aside , that euphoric feeling we get as women doesn't happen everytime for me, but when it does I can feel a rush of chemicals through my brain, feels like a lightheaded "dizzy" feeling has suddenly come upon me. I wonder if that's the oxytocin that is being released. (See my blog post on The Love Hormone").

Please continue to comment, share your experiences. Have a great day!

:biggrin1: FlowerChick