dating advice

So a few days ago I joined a discord server for gay guys (specifically those who goon) which is extremely embarrassing and thats why im asking for advice here and not from a close friend. This all happened over 3 days too so its even more embarrassing for me DAY 1 Anyways in this server i met a...

I have always had conflicting thoughts about who I am or what I'm into. I have definitely gotten off more to men. When I think about dating or marriage, it's always women in my mind. I don't see a face or a smile anymore, but, it's always a woman. I have all these ridiculous romantic fantasies...

So I'm a gay guy currently 26, later this year turning 27 and I've never been in a serious committed relationship. This tends to shock people when I tell them, specially the types who tend to have a new relationship every few months. I grew up in a more rural setting on a small town so during...

I’m having really rotten luck finding any hung guys in my area. I don’t live in a rural area, I live about 40 minutes outside of Philadelphia, so there is plenty around here. I just feel like people don’t really flirt or date or even interact with a stranger like they used to. Most people...

It all started during my second year at university. I had just joined a campus dance crew, something I was both nervous and excited about. I hadn’t really danced seriously in a while, but I was drawn to the idea of pushing myself and being around passionate people again. I was assigned to a...

About two years ago this new guy (Lets call him Bob) started working at my job. I start talking to him mainly just to be friendly. I quickly learn we share many hobbies, the same world views, humor, etc. After about three months, I decide to ask him out. Which I would normally never ask someone...

Hi all, Long time lurker, first time poster. I've only just recently accepted my own sexuality (am a bottom), and am curious to start seeking out relationshipa (among other things) with other guys. However, there is one individual that lives nearby who I occasionally spot when I'm on my way...

Hi everyone! I've been meaning to put myself out there soon and start dating. But my initial response when I would find a guy is that I will catch feelings immediately and consider whatever first encounter a possible relationship. Now I'm trying to break the habit and I've received some advice...

So currently I have a coworker who is incredibly cute, but also incredibly kind to me. We very rarely overlap in terms of actual work, so we can talk to each other about what's going on with our individual jobs without it being a conflict of interest. It's been almost a year since we met now...

I'm mostly if not exclusively a top. The problem is that I'm also most of the time attracted only to other tops. I like to be side with them, but I think I want to top another top even if that means to flip flop. Maybe it's bad, but just thinking about opening for the first time a top ass...

So I’ve been messaging this guy from school that I used to have a crush on and now he is even hotter and I want to shoot my shot, problem is, I don’t know if he is gay or not. Can I get some help?

A lot of female friends of mine use dating sites and women’s magazines for dating tips. But my feeling is men do so to a much lesser extent but still do. so my question is - if you want advice about dating or sex, where do you go as a man?

So, I’m so fed up with the online dating app. Short info about me: ASIAN, average built (not muscular yet, but no longer fat), 5’8”. I’m on this dating site (and app) Romeo. I’m struggling finding “a friend”. I’m genuinely looking for friends (of course a relationship would be great but it’s...

Heyy Guys, huhu I need some advice, preferably the has the experience here about gaysex. So here it goes, i have a long-distance boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we do online sex through videocall since he lived across the globe. Basically, I'm certified virgin bottom and has 0%...

I met this guy through dirtyroulette site last year, I was very horny that time and can't stop the call of nature lol. So I went this site to try see guys and to j*rk off. He's older than me about 8 yrs gap, his buff like he used to go to gym before but he stop it that's why he kinda look bulk...

Since discovering my bisexuality, I've found that in my experience girls, that identify as heterosexual wouldn't consider a bisexual man as a partner. This is both from personal involvement and from the opinions of several straight female friends I have asked. A couple reasons I heard repeated...

I’ve been out of the dating game for about 3 years. I’m 34. I have a bit of a crush on one of the sales associates at my local gym. Long story short, after not timing myself in the sauna about a month ago, I fainted once I reached my locker. Luckily the lockers and my Towel somewhat broke my...