Already endowed but wanting to be bigger?

I go bra-less at home all the time because bras are so damn painful and uncomfortable. But I couldn't possibly do it in public. My boobs are too big and downward pointing.

I've spent most of my adult life in sports bras because they are the only ones that are convenient to buy that also go up to a large size. My last bra however, was/is a minimiser. The shop assistant recommended it when they were all out of sports bras. They'd only just started stocking them in very large sizes. And it's a brilliant bra! It makes my boobs feel squished, but takes a lot of the weight off the shoulders.

As a side note: I shouldn't really be wearing standard-made bras. They're way too small. But I'm so not going to go to the effort of travelling to a specialist bra place, then paying >$80 plus petrol for a bra that I may not even end up liking!


I gotta visit you in Austrailia sometime....All the women i ever see around me have little ones.. Id love to see your big downwardly pointing boobs in person!!!
 
I thought I had responded in this thread before, but I guess not.

Yes, I would love to be two cup sizes smaller. A C would be wonderful, I think. I was a C in high school, and I could take part in sports then. I'm a G now and dream of being smaller. I think one day it will become medically necessary. We live next door to a chiropractor and he agrees that my frame cannot adequately support my bosom without ill-effects down the road. Already checked into insurance and it's a journey through a labyrinth to get approved.

As for my husband, he has confided in me many, many, many times that he wishes he were smaller as well. I am dead serious, and so is he. He's not gargantuan, but he is what I would call over-endowed for his frame. I sometimes think he's had more trouble with his size than I have.

So the generalization is those who have much want more is completely false. And don't judge me until you've walked a mile in my bra, but if you think you're getting in my bra get your sick mind out of the gutter.
 
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I knew I'd get some flak!:cool:

Seriously though, your boobs aren't that big - I know most main stores in the UK & figleaves.com- gorgeous perhaps.:biggrin1:

The girls I'm talking about were at least twice your size, & yes they were staggeringly perky, buoyant, & real, because they had a really thick band with which to support the weight. They never took their bras off except for showering & shagging.

I only wish I had pictures to prove it. I could give ones myspace page where you can clearly see them, but that would reveal my lugubrious identity & past.

Point being - if your bra straps cut into the skin, & you're not doing some form of manual work or exercise - you're wearing the wrong bra, have it adjusted incorrecty, or it's a piece of crap!

They aren't designed to cut in - & nowadays there are so many variants on large sizes. Maybe you should volunteer to be a test model for bra makers - at least then you could bawl out the men who engineer the structual support. Perhaps the technology isn't increasing as quicky as bosom size?

Maybe you're choosing fashion over comfort - though there a huge number of bigger size girls out there
40 per cent of Australian women wear a bra with a cup size DD or bigger | News.com.au

There's a whole other arguement from feminists that says that women don't need to wear bras at all, & that seems to be backed by some medical research, though I can't say that I believe it.

My GF's are a 36G, so not massive, & hers used to dig in & give her back pain before she changed the size & straps.

Before I'm bawled out, let me assure you that I've taken off an ungodly number of bras - & of course would want a woman to feel comfortable, or better yet sexy, in what she wears. It's just I've literally seen so many women in the wrong size (stooped, running over, bulging under, sore etc), I had to take an interest, especially when they started talking about unnecessary risky surgery.


Princess Tasha - wow. I can't even see the scars:smile:.

Back to the OP - Ive never met any woman with a D cup or more, who actually wanted bigger boobs, but all of them would like them to be or remain perkier.

And yes, all guys would like their cock to be a little bit bigger, or at least hard on demand, legendary staying power, a knot of veins for the G spot, sensational throbbing orgasms, & half a pint of cum.

We all want the impossible!


I can:rolleyes:


....and besides,i'm hardly likely to take pics of the underside of my boobs to show the scars off,i do have some dignity you know.
 
I don't get why you can go from 34c to 32d or 30e or whatever. Why is it that you can make the band smaller, but use a bigger cup? Or make the band bigger and use a smaller cup? Is that right? I don't understand that.

It's all in the way we inflate them. A lot of women go through life under inflated, and it's really bad on her bras. They will wear out on the sides. But with proper inflation they wear much longer. If you're overinflated they wear out in the front and the straps become weak. But it does make you popular!

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I had a reduction at 17. My back is permanently messed up for life. The scars I could do without, but I really don't have a say in that department. I had to have 3 surgeries total because of an asshole of a surgeon. Plus he made me much smaller than what I asked for. By the time I decided to sue, statute of limitations had run out. I complained and cried about how small they were and he had the nerve to suggest implants. I was appalled considering how much he had to work with. Now I kinda wish I had them done. I don't want to be that much bigger, I just want to feel sexy again. I guess in a way of making these scars justifiable. Having the weight off my back was reason enough but still. Whenever a guy asks to see them or asks how big they are I just say "well they used to be huge, but..." They have been nothing but a problem for me. I can now never breastfeed as well (if I have kids). I can't imagine how I would be today if I never had the reduction though. I'd probably be in a wheelchair because of my back.
 
I had a reduction at 17. My back is permanently messed up for life. The scars I could do without, but I really don't have a say in that department. I had to have 3 surgeries total because of an asshole of a surgeon. Plus he made me much smaller than what I asked for. By the time I decided to sue, statute of limitations had run out. I complained and cried about how small they were and he had the nerve to suggest implants. I was appalled considering how much he had to work with. Now I kinda wish I had them done. I don't want to be that much bigger, I just want to feel sexy again. I guess in a way of making these scars justifiable. Having the weight off my back was reason enough but still. Whenever a guy asks to see them or asks how big they are I just say "well they used to be huge, but..." They have been nothing but a problem for me. I can now never breastfeed as well (if I have kids). I can't imagine how I would be today if I never had the reduction though. I'd probably be in a wheelchair because of my back.

Oh Darling, I feel so badly for you. You've kind of scared me straight, though. I really, really want a reduction, but I'm so afraid of having it done poorly or not done correctly. I'm not afraid of pain (heaven knows I've lived with it this long), but I don't think I could do scars.
 
Oh Darling, I feel so badly for you. You've kind of scared me straight, though. I really, really want a reduction, but I'm so afraid of having it done poorly or not done correctly. I'm not afraid of pain (heaven knows I've lived with it this long), but I don't think I could do scars.

You know what though....if I had to weigh the options of still having them and being in a wheelchair or having gone through so much BS and having scars...I'd have the surgery. My scars aren't hideous, but they are noticible. I guess they don't have to cut as much as they used to these days. Who knows. But if you hurt...I would say do it. I have known others who love the results. Plus I lost 34 lbs after I had that weight off my chest! I lost 6 lbs of boob too lol. However, I went of to college and gained it back. You'd be surprised how much more freedom you have.
 
I had a reduction at 17. My back is permanently messed up for life. The scars I could do without, but I really don't have a say in that department. I had to have 3 surgeries total because of an asshole of a surgeon. Plus he made me much smaller than what I asked for. By the time I decided to sue, statute of limitations had run out. I complained and cried about how small they were and he had the nerve to suggest implants. I was appalled considering how much he had to work with. Now I kinda wish I had them done. I don't want to be that much bigger, I just want to feel sexy again. I guess in a way of making these scars justifiable. Having the weight off my back was reason enough but still. Whenever a guy asks to see them or asks how big they are I just say "well they used to be huge, but..." They have been nothing but a problem for me. I can now never breastfeed as well (if I have kids). I can't imagine how I would be today if I never had the reduction though. I'd probably be in a wheelchair because of my back.

Sounds like a horror story!
What about alternatives? Surely weight training to gain massive amounts of strength through the core, back and over all body would do wonders for posture and getting your body to cope. Not to mention that it would also reduce the size of the breasts.
 
Sounds like a horror story!
What about alternatives? Surely weight training to gain massive amounts of strength through the core, back and over all body would do wonders for posture and getting your body to cope. Not to mention that it would also reduce the size of the breasts.


Strengthening your core is very important. If you can do it, more power to ya....DO IT! I need to strengthen my core, but it's a catch 22. The pain is so bad that it hurts too much to do anything, but I need to do it so it won't hurt as much. *sigh* I've had everything done except surgery. The only thing that worked was Vioxx (which they pulled off the market for killing people). I felt no pain and was able to workout and lost a lot of weight. I could go on with all of the other procedures, injections, pills, and routines I've been through though.

Get this....after my reduction and he made me too small...he said....you ready for this?!!? If I lose weight, they will look bigger.

Ummmmmmmmmmmmm................

As any woman on here knows, the breasts are fatty tissue and usually the first place a woman loses weight. I swear I feel like I was operated on by some back alley cartoon. :rolleyes:
 
I'm just stunned that you got the surgery at 17,i was told it wouldnt even be considered until i was at least 18.Then,i had to pay to go privately when i was just 22 as i was still not deemed as priority even though my cup size was JJ......how much soddin bigger did they want me grow???? I look liked a caricature......size 8/10 skirt and a size 18 top (UK sizes).

The scars are not pretty but then again neither is a constant headache due to the stress that the weight of my boobs gave on my neck thus causing the headaches.My shoulders looked like they had been gouged with an apple corer..........and if that wasnt bad enough the granny bra's were the ultimate in nastiness! :p
 
You know what though....if I had to weigh the options of still having them and being in a wheelchair or having gone through so much BS and having scars...I'd have the surgery. My scars aren't hideous, but they are noticible. I guess they don't have to cut as much as they used to these days. Who knows. But if you hurt...I would say do it. I have known others who love the results. Plus I lost 34 lbs after I had that weight off my chest! I lost 6 lbs of boob too lol. However, I went of to college and gained it back. You'd be surprised how much more freedom you have.

I would love to have that freedom! Right now, it's getting worse. My straps have actually hit a nerve, I believe. My whole left arm gets numb in the evening. At first it was the cost that was keeping me from doing anything. Now it's just the reality of it, the surgery, recovery and all not to mention the results. I don't want to lose my shape, but I sure would like to lose my size!

I cannot imagine going into a shop and buying a swimsuit. That's just one of my goals!
 
I would love to have that freedom! Right now, it's getting worse. My straps have actually hit a nerve, I believe. My whole left arm gets numb in the evening. At first it was the cost that was keeping me from doing anything. Now it's just the reality of it, the surgery, recovery and all not to mention the results. I don't want to lose my shape, but I sure would like to lose my size!

I cannot imagine going into a shop and buying a swimsuit. That's just one of my goals!

My arms go numb as well:frown1: But I have to wear a bra, what choice do we have?
 
I would love to have that freedom! Right now, it's getting worse. My straps have actually hit a nerve, I believe. My whole left arm gets numb in the evening. At first it was the cost that was keeping me from doing anything. Now it's just the reality of it, the surgery, recovery and all not to mention the results. I don't want to lose my shape, but I sure would like to lose my size!

I cannot imagine going into a shop and buying a swimsuit. That's just one of my goals!


Wait until you come to England to see your family,there are shops here that you can do just that!:smile:
 
Well since I had 3 breast surgeries....yeah it is uncomfortable for recovery...but honestly, it's not THAT bad in my opinion. Also, go get professionally fitted for a bra. They do it for free in most department stores.
 
My arms go numb as well:frown1: But I have to wear a bra, what choice do we have?

I remember watching doctor oz one day, and they were talking about bras, and how the support should be gained from the lower strap that goes around the back, not over the shoulder.

i dont know the science of bras, but look up the video, it helped a top heavy ex of mine a lot.
 
I remember watching doctor oz one day, and they were talking about bras, and how the support should be gained from the lower strap that goes around the back, not over the shoulder.

i dont know the science of bras, but look up the video, it helped a top heavy ex of mine a lot.

Yeah, thanks I shall look for it. My bras fit properly now that I found some places to order them from. But the straps still bother me, not like on the ones that I was wearing with the band being to big, but they still bother me. *shrug* not much to be done about it!!!
 
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