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Thankfully I was able to find a wank buddy. He’s bi but realized a long time ago that he’d probably not go back to women as the sex is more consistently better with men. He’s very understanding of my situation and is good at being patient in what I want to do. He’s opened my mind to more things with trust. But most of all we do actually see the world similarly. Humor etc. but it was just lucky. Made contact through Tumblr coz his comments impressed me.Great comment ! I'd also like to point out the fact the secrecy around the topic. A lot of us keep this as a deep secret because of the fear of society or simply because we don't want that side of us to define who we are and how we are perceived. So it becomes nearly impossible to find someone in your circle (or anyone that exactly fits with your age group, background, interest), someone that will understand and relate with you and fulfill that need without the headaches, fear, guilt and anxiety, a real buddy. The urges might drive you to experiment through NSA hookup, which mostly will leave you unsatisfied or even more ashamed (not to mention the risks). Why can't I find that person in real life