Well a little update; I talked with Max on AIM last night and he asked me if I felt awkward with him spending so much time with him. I told him that I didn't want to cause problems with his boyfriend and that I think he's a great friend and I like to spend time with him, but I don't want it to rattle his relationship because of me. He understands and agrees with me, said we'll talk about it on Wednesday after he gets back from New Orleans (they went on a trip to NO for the weekend).
On another note, my straight best friend I fell in love with in High school (who I'll name Dan, again for respectful discretion) ended up chatting with me on the phone last night. I haven't talked to him in almost 6 months, so we ended up getting some food and catching up on what's been going on with our lives. Apparently his girlfriend hates me because Dan told her that I'm gay, although I barely know her at all, she just knows I was good friends wit him. Her reasoning is that I'm going to hit on him (ironic, since I did in high school along with accusing him of being gay and that almost ruined our friendship, but we overcame that) and she doesn't want me near him. So as soon as he picked me up and I got in his truck last night, he told me "if anyone asks, you're <insert other friend's name here>".
I guess Dan's a bit like me in the sense that he wants to maintain healthy relationships in all directions without any sign of problems. Our continued friendship is also a secret from his parents, as the fact that I'm gay and what happened between us utters greet disapproval and hate. He tries very hard to keep our friendship alive without pissing off the rest of the people who are close to him, which is admirable and in some ways kinda weird, but I only say that because I don't know why he does it after the events between us.