me and my girl friend are thinking of having anal sex for the first time, and with me having an 8 incher , offer some advice on what to do and what not to do.
Originally posted by tinkerbell@Nov 18 2004, 05:53 PM
I suppose with guys there is the prostate factor, but as a woman I haven't been able to relate to the thrill of anal sex. I have tried it a couple of times, it wasn't unpleasant, but for me really can't compare to the feeling of regular vaginal sex. Is there a "submissive" component involved? I'm definitely more dominant and may explain my lack of interest.
I guess i'm missing out.
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Originally posted by Sweet Caroline@Jan 4 2005, 11:37 PM
1) Definitely have her clean up first
2) Lot's of lubrication, and not just when you first start
3) Work up to it slowly, lot's of foreplay (a nice orgasme wouldn't hurt) and start with something smaller.
4) LISTEN TO HER!! If she say's it hurts, stop. If she tells you to slow down, slow down. In other words, LISTEN TO HER!!
5) In my case, I like to have a glass of wine or two first. Great muscle relaxant.
Did I mention Listen to her???
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Originally posted by Hung Muscle@Dec 19 2004, 01:54 PM
From the mouths of babes...
Our ambassador from Iceland raises one of the most important issues for me. I love to fuck but hate it when it ends up (pardon the pun) smelling like I'm shoveling out a barn. Preparation is job one for a good bottom and will make the experience so much better for everyone.
Plus, I find that cleaning out helps relax me when I'm the one on the receiving end.
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Even if you do take the "proper" precautions your dick will smell afterwards. I've only done it without a condom though.Originally posted by NineInchCock_160IQ@Jan 4 2005, 11:38 PM
Anyway about the cleanliness issue... judging from the posts it seems like some people here haven't even considered it but I hope that's not the majority. That's just asking for some kind of nasty infection. I usually like to wash up before any kind of sex anyway (sometimes I like it dirty but being clean is better if you're going to be spending a lot of time or doing anything with your mouth). If you're going to try anal play, take a bath with your partner beforehand. Get the water hot and very sudsy. Gently massage her anus to relax the muscles somewhat, and with two very soapy and thus well-lubricated fingers, insert gently into the rectum and swivel around like you're cleaning out the inside of a tall wine glass. Stool is not stored in your rectum, it's in your colon and intestines, so the only stuff that would be in there is leftovers from the last time you had a bowel movement. Cleaning it out is easy and afterwards no mess and no foul odors to spoil the fun. Plus if your ass is nice and clean your partner might be more open to giving you a rim job and those are nice.
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