Any straight guys try bottoming

yes but if a women does not like G spot stimulation do you stop fucking women.. NO so why stop trying bottoming just because of little discomfort.
Well, first, PIV sex rarely provides the type of G-spot stimulation that would cause discomfort. And changing positions will often relieve it if the guy is rubbing her the wrong way.

Second, and I can't emphasize this enough: sex is supposed to be enjoyable. For both/all involved. If your partner says she is uncomfortable, and reasonable adjustments don't turn discomfort to pleasure, YOU STOP. Besides differences in prostate sensitivity, pain or discomfort from any internal body part means STOP. If the rectal tissues are the cause, instead of the prostate, continued rubbing/pounding can result in serious problems you won't discuss at party's.
 
I don't see what the big deal is. A str8 guy will let his gif or wife stick a dildo up his ass but not another dude? It's the same fuckin thing. Idk maybe it's just me, but what the hell? Yeah I've let another guy top me. Yeah I enjoyed it. Yes he hit my prostate on every thrust. Shot a huge load and never touched my dick. It felt pretty good. Yep I love to have my prostate massaged. You can't get a good prostate massage unless you're willing to let someone stick their finger in your ass unless they're using a prostate massager. I don't get it. What is str8, Bi, gay? Only labels that some schmuck came up with. Sex is sex right? Variety is the spice of life.
 
Have I ever tried it? Have I ever tried it?! I try it all the time! Of course! I'm straight, right? You know, "heterosexual"? That means I like bottoming for men as often as possible.
 
I don't see what the big deal is. A str8 guy will let his gif or wife stick a dildo up his ass but not another dude? It's the same fuckin thing. Idk maybe it's just me, but what the hell? Yeah I've let another guy top me. Yeah I enjoyed it. Yes he hit my prostate on every thrust. Shot a huge load and never touched my dick. It felt pretty good. Yep I love to have my prostate massaged. You can't get a good prostate massage unless you're willing to let someone stick their finger in your ass unless they're using a prostate massager. I don't get it. What is str8, Bi, gay? Only labels that some schmuck came up with. Sex is sex right? Variety is the spice of life.
And this is the reason why I want to experience it at least once.
 
I have had several Straight guys as TOPS!!
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Me too.
 
Wouldn't say no if my wife wanted to peg me but I think the first time a human dick goes in there I'd like it to be a pretty trans girl. Then I can return the favor.
 
Never did it before but I like to try bottoming, any guys here interested in breaking me in?
I’m with you dude, I’m looking to get broke in as well.
 
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I don't see what the big deal is. A str8 guy will let his gif or wife stick a dildo up his ass but not another dude? It's the same fuckin thing. Idk maybe it's just me, but what the hell? Yeah I've let another guy top me. Yeah I enjoyed it. Yes he hit my prostate on every thrust. Shot a huge load and never touched my dick. It felt pretty good. Yep I love to have my prostate massaged. You can't get a good prostate massage unless you're willing to let someone stick their finger in your ass unless they're using a prostate massager. I don't get it. What is str8, Bi, gay? Only labels that some schmuck came up with. Sex is sex right? Variety is the spice of life.

As a gay guy, I would feel very awkward, not seek out, find it a jarring turn off to receive a blow job from a woman. I wouldn’t want to fuck a woman anally or in the pussy either.

Sex is sex, but it’s not as simple as that either.

I think (and I stress that this is my opinion as a gay man and if other straight men here have a different take on it, I’m genuinely interested and open to hearing about it since I don’t have first hand knowledge) straight guys who do enjoy sexual acts with other men, whether it be using a male cocksucker or being fucked sucking another guy’s cock may, on some level, have an element of hyper sexuality in that their need or desire for sex is so strong that as long as they are getting some it overrides their own sexuality...or perhaps have submissive or dominant sexual kinks that they have a need to fulfil, but don’t quite understand the underlying kink and have never introspectively questioned it and so haven’t/don’t/never will ascribe bisexuality on themselves or alter their self perception of themselves as anything but straight.

Anyway, not saying that they have to or should re-examine if they are straight or not, it’s just my two cents.

But the argument of sex is just sex kind of doesn’t hold true in reverse for me.

Now, if an attractive, fit, muscular sexy, straight man crossed my path and I liked him and he wanted a quickie blow job or was desperate to suck me or get me to fuck him, I wouldn’t question it too deeply...haha. I’d probably just do it. One shouldn’t look gift-horses in the mouth.

But theory and practical application of the matter are two very different things.
 
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I confess I've never bottomed. I pretty much only seek out guys who are bottoms or versatile. I like sex with guys but don't think I would find bottoming pleasurable. I've not pursued a couple of guys who were interested because of their preferred sexual position. One guy told me I was selfish, maybe he's right, I just like to think I know what I like.

I'm sure I "know" some straight guys who have tried it or maybe actually enjoy it. That's not a conversation that's ever come up between us and I doubt it will. One long term couple (around 18 years) I'm friends with told me once they both enjoyed the variety of being versatile and that I would probably feel the same way if I ever gave it a shot. Not sure about that but I will never say never.
 
I'm one of the straight (but very curious) guys that's enjoyed being fucked by my wife for years now. I love it filling my ass. It's like the most amazing inside-out massage one has ever had! But seriously - it might be time for a real cock... (I take a 9" x 2" cock just fine).
 
I have, which I guess makes me Bi vs. straight. I was “around” 18 when it occured. I was scared, confused then felt wonderment. The man was about 5-6” and took things very slow, the only thing I didn’t like was he asked to lay across his naked lap and he spanked me once...sorry that’s not me. After that I laid on the bed and he crawled between my legs, opened his mouth and sucked in my balls, one then both then tongued his way to my frenulem and transitioned to a full blown deep throat for ~4-5 minutes. I had to tell him to stop because if I came I wouldn’t want to do anything else (you guys know the feeling). So he stopped and I got on all fours, a virgin ass in the air waiting, he tongued me and OH MY GOD I never knew a feeling like that and still haven’t. He asked if I was ready, I was, he slowly fingered me (again, what a feeling!) he placed his dick at the entrance to virgin hole, mine,then started to push...me being a knuckle head I moved forward as he pushed, quickly I figured his dick wouldn’t go any where let alone into me this way so I pushed back and his head slowly, gently popped in. He “poked” like this for a while, just his head... not pulling out & not pushing in further, this probably lasted 3-5 minutes untill he asked if I was comfortable...with a whisper I said Yes and he pushed in further, me pushing back, he further me back he further....and he was in...””balls deep” as I’ve learned its called. God did this feel good, like nothing before, not my first blow job, my GF’s virginity, back seat screwing...this mans dick in my ass felt well wonderful. We actually fucked! Fast, Slow then Fast, Slow...Stop, Move Around in me then Slow, Fast this went on for I don’t know...10 minutes or so. Then the ultimate (at least in my singuler expierience) he reached around under my stomach, grabbed my raging hard on and started giving me a hand job, this went on for another 3-4 minutes until he asked if I wanted him to come in me...silly me, i never thought of that. I think he noted my apprehension because he started to really screw my ass, sped up my handjob until I think he felt my insides start to twitch and contract so he plunged maybe 4 more times until I started to come, he pulled out and I felt his manly warmth flow down my cheeks, crack and back. I was no longer a virgin, just as I took a womans a man took mine. I called him once when I got back from collage we again got naked on his bed but alas, I had way too much to drink and even though he wanted me to enter him I failed so we stopped. I haven’t seen him since nor been with another man. Now at 57 I want to do this again but differently, an afternoon in a hotel room where we shower, caress, suck, be sucked, feel and touch those special areas, tongue a slit (never blown someone but I have real good ideas), finger and be fingered be fucked then fuck then shower and we start it over again. Since I’m in the western suburbs of Chicago, the 4-5th largest city in the nation I hope I find someone soon. I’m leaking right now and I’ll have to take care of that.....while remembering that June of 41 years ago.
 
As a gay guy, I would feel very awkward, not seek out, find it a jarring turn off to receive a blow job from a woman. I wouldn’t want to fuck a woman anally or in the pussy either.

Sex is sex, but it’s not as simple as that either.

I think (and I stress that this is my opinion as a gay man and if other straight men here have a different take on it, I’m genuinely interested and open to hearing about it since I don’t have first hand knowledge) straight guys who do enjoy sexual acts with other men, whether it be using a male cocksucker or being fucked sucking another guy’s cock may, on some level, have an element of hyper sexuality in that their need or desire for sex is so strong that as long as they are getting some it overrides their own sexuality...or perhaps have submissive or dominant sexual kinks that they have a need to fulfil, but don’t quite understand the underlying kink and have never introspectively questioned it and so haven’t/don’t/never will ascribe bisexuality on themselves or alter their self perception of themselves as anything but straight.

Anyway, not saying that they have to or should re-examine if they are straight or not, it’s just my two cents.

But the argument of sex is just sex kind of doesn’t hold true in reverse for me.

Now, if an attractive, fit, muscular sexy, straight man crossed my path and I liked him and he wanted a quickie blow job or was desperate to suck me or get me to fuck him, I wouldn’t question it too deeply...haha. I’d probably just do it. One shouldn’t look gift-horses in the mouth.

But theory and practical application of the matter are two very different things.


You should at least try sex with a woman once at least just to see how it is. Maybe head or all out intercourse. Even if you aren't attracted to or don't like women just to see what it's like.
Me personally, I'm not attracted to men as a whole.

I do find that a man who takes care of himself, works out and has a muscular physique very sexy, as opposed to Jonny beer gut who never has taken care of himself.

The same with the women. Some are just naturally beautiful without make up on some with. And those who take care of themselves, and those who've let themselves go.

I'll add that there is nothing that I've ever felt on my cock that ever felt as good as a woman having orgasms. It's undescribable.

With me unless there is love involved it's just sex. Being in love with someone and having sex with them is another level of intimacy.

Picking a chic/dude up in a bar? It ain't love were just fuckin! Meeting a need that each of us have. So in that since it is just sex is sex. We're not in it for the long haul we're as the cliche goes, two ships passing in the night. Just hooking up to get a nut. Probably won't hook with each other again unless the sex is really good.
 
You should at least try sex with a woman once at least just to see how it is. Maybe head or all out intercourse. Even if you aren't attracted to or don't like women just to see what it's like.
Me personally, I'm not attracted to men as a whole.

I'm sure your advice was intended as friendly. But the fact is, I'm 100% gay. I don't need to fuck a woman to know I don't want to fuck a woman. Women, for me have ALWAYS and without except been 0 out of 10 for me. That's kind of what is meant by being 100% gay.

The idea of having sex with a woman is a non-starter, if not actively unpleasant for me. I think this is why 100% straight guys who are genuinely 100% straight get tired of gay men flirting with them on this website...because there are quite a lot of gay guys who are still 1% or 10% straight, so they assume all straight men must feel the mirror image in return.

Believe me, the don't. There's literally no point, no reason, and nothing sensical about your suggestion - even though its intention was benevolent and good-natured
 
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