Attraction to Gay men.

[parsonstreet]

Some women love gay men and not just find them entertaining but physically and romantically attractive. What do you do if you are attracted to a man and find out or know he's gay?

I have had females attracted to me and I feel guilty because I am unavailable because I'm gay but see the attraction as a compliment. But I'm a sensitive person and I don't like rejection myself.

Ironically most of the people I have got on well with are girls when I was a child and girls now I am an adult so we could have great relationship if the sexual component was their. Where as some straight men are pure misogynists and straight male porn calls women sluts and other derogatory things and just like objects and conations aggression.

 

[Acquar]

You can't be available to every person who feels attraction to you.

I've been attracted to some gay men and, of course, I didn't do anything about it. Anyway, I'd be happy to build a friendship regardless of attraction (but I admit I'm almost asexual or demi so it's not an issue for me).

 

[TinyPrincess]

I've been physically attracted to a gay man once (still is btw) but I was never sexually attracted to him - even before I knew his sexuality. So can't say...