Big dick bottom problems

[Toyboxd]

I’ve always been pretty firmly a bottom, with an above average dick. I love to play the submissive role but sometimes get into situations where my “top” after talking a lot of shit about topping me suddenly wants to flip the minute I pull my dick out (and I get it. Big dick is mesmerizing ) And I’d like to think I’m not a size queen but it can be disappointing only running into guys smaller than me. Sometimes I want the big dick top fantasy too! Anybody relate?

 

[PutItInHere691]

I never base a guy on size we all as men need attention no matter what ..

but I been 70 bottom 30 percent top because I enjoy doing things to please the man or men I am with..if I am with a bottom that has not intension of topping then I’d suck his dick off a lot to make him satisfied.. .. or one thing I’ve noticed about a few bottoms.. they like to be in 69.. on top letting the one on bottom suck his dick then work it into him fucking the guys mouth n throat and shoot his load down that throat .. I’ve had few guys do that and it’s awesome feeling their dick throbbing in my mouth n back of my throat ..

But people think. We as other people we all enjoy the same thing .. some top some bottom

some rim ass some won’t

some into bondage pain n blood.. like me.. and some aren’t..

it’s just up to each of us to find that person into same things as we are and be happy with it..

Some guys will keep trying to talk you into it just to see if they can sucker you into it.. if don’t wanna do it .. don’t… it’s your body

 

[rockhardbttm]

I'm also a bottom and I'm bigger than 90% of the guys I meet. And I've had plenty of people surprised by what Im packing when we get naked. In the beginning I would get people wanting to flip. So I found out pretty early on you just got find people who are squarely in the top realm and don't want to get fucked regardless of your size. If they mostly versatile but you still want to hook up you should be very clear before meeting you have no intention of topping.

 

[PutItInHere691]

it happens all the time---they see your dick and think --why arent you a top---ive read articles written by pornstars that were strictly bottoms that they would either be told its their job to do what they want--end up quitting--or get paid lots of money to do it--

there are certain times and certain things going on to make me top or bottom--if i am drinking or smoking pot or on drugs i am a bottom for surecant say how that started but its some of the best times i had

 

[EquusAZ]

As primarilly a top, I get it. My husband is longer than I am, and almost all tops he meets want to bottom for him, it's super frustrating for him. However, we're both vers, and I absolutely adore topping other hung guys, or guys longer / bigger than me. There's definitely something hot about a hung guy who'll bottom for me.

 

[elchippe]

HA

I’ve always been pretty firmly a bottom, with an above average dick. I love to play the submissive role but sometimes get into situations where my “top” after talking a lot of shit about topping me suddenly wants to flip the minute I pull my dick out (and I get it. Big dick is mesmerizing ) And I’d like to think I’m not a size queen but it can be disappointing only running into guys smaller than me. Sometimes I want the big dick top fantasy too! Anybody relate?

I'm almost always are the much taller one with the much bigger dick but a "submissive" one with a bigger dick than mine has to be an interesting experience, especially if I'm still the taller one.

 

[BBCKing78]

I’ve always been pretty firmly a bottom, with an above average dick. I love to play the submissive role but sometimes get into situations where my “top” after talking a lot of shit about topping me suddenly wants to flip the minute I pull my dick out (and I get it. Big dick is mesmerizing ) And I’d like to think I’m not a size queen but it can be disappointing only running into guys smaller than me. Sometimes I want the big dick top fantasy too! Anybody relate?

I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me....I always say guys come for the ass and stay for the dick

 

[Toyboxd]

Like clockwork

 

[Fishsqueezee69]

I think being top or bottom is about who you are and the trust you have in the person etc. For me, penis size doesn't matter.

On one hand, I prefer ppl who are versatile, on the other hand I married a total btm so you know, you do what you need to do.

I say if it's the first time and the person sees your cock and want to flip, then they are not even vers top. They are vers bottoms and they wanted to pass as tops lol

 

[HungFan]

I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me....I always say guys come for the ass and stay for the dick

I’d stay for yours! Where were you when I was living in Orlando!? DAMN!

 

[BBCKing78]

I’d stay for yours! Where were you when I was living in Orlando!? DAMN!

Awwww, you're too kind. Thank you

 

[SeanJack214]

I’ve always been pretty firmly a bottom, with an above average dick. I love to play the submissive role but sometimes get into situations where my “top” after talking a lot of shit about topping me suddenly wants to flip the minute I pull my dick out (and I get it. Big dick is mesmerizing ) And I’d like to think I’m not a size queen but it can be disappointing only running into guys smaller than me. Sometimes I want the big dick top fantasy too! Anybody relate?

I hear this a lot but can’t relate. Lol. I’m a top. I LOVE big dick bottoms but don’t want it in my ass. let me play wit it and see it flop on my stomach when you riding me. Lol. Men are hardwired to literally size each other up—so to speak. Dicks are visible symbols of virility, so there’s a sense of submission and reverence that comes over dudes when they see a big dick. A dude can be fat and outta shape but if the dick is big and other dudes happen to know, big dude is king. It’s just like in the animal kingdom. Lol. All that said, you’re gonna always have this issue until u find a top like me who is hopefully bigger or at least the same size as u.

I’m in Fort Worth, Texas tho…fyi.

 

[MonkeyMan78]

Similar to above: am a top but love tbe sight of a big dick swinging between a guys legs or slapping against my stomach as we fuck.
Had an ex who was big enough for me suck on as he rode me. Have got hard now at the thought of it ....
Only speak for myself, but bigger the bottom's dick, more am thinking 'No way would I even think of taking that!' but just makes me want to fuck them harder.

 

[FanOfMrMagoo]

I think being top or bottom is about who you are and the trust you have in the person etc. For me, penis size doesn't matter.

On one hand, I prefer ppl who are versatile, on the other hand I married a total btm so you know, you do what you need to do.

I say if it's the first time and the person sees your cock and want to flip, then they are not even vers top. They are vers bottoms and they wanted to pass as tops lol

Me, I'm great, but most of the time when I see someone else's dick I want to flip. Unlike the others, I just want to fuck my partner first and see him return the favor if he can still fuck.

 

[FanOfMrMagoo]

I think I might be the only guy here who when he sees a big cock wants to take it.
For me if the guy is a top or a versa top and can ask me to bottom for him, I'll fuck him harder. I'll be a good sub with his dick in my mouth and then I'll fuck him as he deserves.
Unfortunately, all the time I meet another top and we're about to fuck, either he gives up before i fuck him or he refuses to fuck me back

 

[Fishsqueezee69]

Me, I'm great, but most of the time when I see someone else's dick I want to flip. Unlike the others, I just want to fuck my partner first and see him return the favor if he can still fuck.

I get you. I wouldn't say I want to flip every time I see my partners dick but I do want to flip whenever I see a dick I like...

I think what's funny and goes back to the OPs point is that I can be with someone who has a smaller dick, and it doesn't matter. Like you, after a while, I want him to return the favor and I crave that dick as much as someone who is a size queen craves a big cock. I get real cock hungry. Lol

 

[BBCKing78]

Like clockwork

Frfr

 

[thongboy]

I'm also a bottom and I'm bigger than 90% of the guys I meet. And I've had plenty of people surprised by what Im packing when we get naked. In the beginning I would get people wanting to flip. So I found out pretty early on you just got find people who are squarely in the top realm and don't want to get fucked regardless of your size. If they mostly versatile but you still want to hook up you should be very clear before meeting you have no intention of topping.

I'm definitely vers, but one lesson instilled in me by my liberal parents is that when it comes to sex, you never force your partner to do anything he or she doesn't really want to do. I have a bottom buddy with an awesome cock, snd I'd love him to flip sometime, but I know he won't and I respect him for his decision.
Sex can be all about you if you masturbate but but not otherwise — never have an inflated notion of yourself when someone else is involved

 

[dr40136]

This happens to me, I am mostly top with my boyfriend but I’m obsessed with his big dick and sometimes fantasize of it being inside. It’s very similar to my dick and I love the thought of being able to feel a dick the size of mine. He’s topped me a couple times and I love it, he must like it too since he came quite fast inside. But when I insinuate that I want it, he reminds me that he’s bottom and he would only top me just to please me and it’s not his thing. So then I just don’t ask for it and have the frustration of not being able to feel him inside.

I wish he could be more versatile so I could feel him more often, also getting filled up and feeling him pulsating inside is a huge turn on

 

[PutItInHere691]

When I am with someone.. whether I love him or if it’s just sexual.. I pretty much do anything to satisfy him and he does the same for me.. not all of them but some do..

You may do stuff that don’t like but it’s about both being satisfied .. ( or 3 or 5 or what number guys around) .. is what it supposed to be about