I am wanting to go out to the sex club wearing a butt plug tail. I am a little nervous about how to wear it safely and wonder how long to keep it in. Should I put it on at home first- I am concerned that the drive over would be unnecessarily awkward sitting on my tail. I am open to discussing this as I am getting ready for this weekend. I really don’t want to hurt my anus. I found that pulling the plug out can be the worst and leave me in pain for a while after wondering if I did damage.