Can't "100% str8" guys be just a little gay?

[D_Coyne Toss]

I am 100% straight, and this means that I am sexually and sentimentally attracted only by women.

I have never felt any attraction for a guy, unless you consider attraction gettin a glance at a guy's penis in the locker room just to see how we compare (again, in this cases, no sex or love involved).

Regarding male beauty, i can see if a guy is good looking, obviously, but my first reaction, if not indifference is : "Why don't I look like him?"

 

[JoeNeckbone]

I STILL DON'T GET IT. Am I missing something here ? WHATEVER SOMEONE BELIEVES THEY ARE.. THEY ARE. Whatever they believe you are ..you are..in their minds and perceived reality.
Are you 100% STRAIght if you ever inserted a phallic object in your ass while masturbating? iF YOU moved that object in a fucking motion? iF THE OBJECT WAS LUBED? If the object was strapped on to a woman you were bent over in front of? iF YOU felt very good when you came with the object in your ass? iF A WOMAN FINGERED YOUR ASSHOLE while she sucked your cock?If you fingered your asshole while wanking? if your tasted your own come? sWALLOWED IT? if you fuck a woman in the ass when her pussy was available to you? iF TWO MEN FUCK A Woman and their cocks touch are they 100% STRAIGHT after that? iF YOU tongue KISS A WOMAN WHO HAS YOUR COME all over her mouth and lips..are you 100% STRAIGHT? if you are ass raped by a man are you still 100% STRAIGHT?If a woman makes you her bitch are you 100% STRAIGHT?

oR ARE YOU 100% straight if your asshole is an exit only orifice?

 

[ledroit]

Several guys on this site classify themselves as 100% str8.

I think this involves a trick, since no single individual can ever classify himself. Scientists can classify a species or a group out of a fairly large population, but all we can ever do as individuals is identify ourselves. When I identify myself, I don't say who I am not--or who I might be or have been--I say only who I am and want to be.

But I also like being ethical, which is why, when I found out I only really fell in love with guys, not girls, that I identified as 100% gay. It doesn't mean I am not attracted to women (I am) or don't find them sexy (I do) or haven't slept with them (I have). It means that when push comes to shove, I will be loyal to guys rather than girls. I think it's dishonest to the girl to pretend otherwise, and I could not be a man if I pretended to have loyalties where I don't.

Identifying ourselves is a way of indicating what we are willing or likely to do. I had a straight guy jerk me off today at the gym. I don't think he was lying, I think he really is straight. He was horny, and wanted to see what it felt like. I was horny, and wanted to see what he felt like. I think we both left happier than when we came in--but I don't think our identities changed. We are still guys.

 

[ledroit]

Everyone knows that you are 100% man, so you don't have to talk about what repulses you. How could something truly repulse you if you haven't tried it at least a couple of times?

Zygo, this is a great post. It reminds me of my nephew Jed, who is a machinist at a big John Deere plant in Waterloo IA. He is straight, with 5 kids, Iowa born and bred, but has some homophobic guys in his work group--and loves me, his gay uncle. One of them was getting pretty worked up about gays & marriage recently. So Jed says, "Well, at least I know I'm not gay." The other guy says, "What do you mean by that?" Jed says, "I tried it. Didn't like it."

The other guys on the crew HOWLED. And my nephew became famous on the spot.

 

[D_Beauparte Plungerwand]

God i'm fed up with these threads from gay guys trying to gayify straightmen, you've made your choice, we've made ours, just leave it at that.

 

[zygomatica]

Such comments are not inflammatory, and they are not the last-ditch defense of someone's sexuality that you make it out to be. Likewise, the argument of knowledge without experience has absolutely no basis in reality. Sexual feeling is not the same as trying out a new food. Frankly, I find this simplification of human sexuality to be inflammatory. How can you pretend to know the mind of someone else, especially when it comes to them defining something as complex as their own sexuality? Even in this post, you have grossly misclassified someone such as myself. In my definition of my sexuality (of which you really have no clue), 100% straight and 100% 'man' are in no way synonymous. I don't even know what '100% man' means. Furthermore I think you glossed over the context of this thread. Saying that the thought of having sex with men physically repulses me was intended to give the original poster some insight into what one of the '100% straight' people may be thinking. I hope this adequately addressed the above pretension.

when i used "100% man" i was only referring to this site, where individuals have the option of identifying themselves as such. i did not phrase this perfectly, obviously. :smile: what i mean is that if someone is advertising themselves as such, they don't need to reinforce the way they define their sexuality by making any other comments about what is gross, sexy, etc.

i'm sorry if you felt personally attacked by my choice of words. however, i simply don't agree with what seems like your sentiment that most people are in touch with their sexuality to a point where they can define it accurately (and when i mean accurately, i mean the relative way it is defined here through only %, not all of the actual behaviors, feelings, etc. that truly matter). i am new here but it is obvious to me that many people here are a part of the minority of the human population who actually have attempted to be honest with themselves about various sexual issues.

i think people who are adamant about broadcasting their heterosexuality ought to lighten up a bit at times--it's sort of like white privilege in America--sometimes you need to just take a deep breath and relax. you're not the show, and there's no need to be defensive.

and, for those who commented on my post but didn't take the time to put it into context, look at how i categorize myself. i am not a gay apologist.

 

[D_alex8]

God i'm fed up with these threads from gay guys trying to gayify straightmen, you've made your choice, we've made ours, just leave it at that.

I don't think anyone has made a choice. Damn, if only sexuality were that simple.

 

[phantom73]

Why does everything around here have to be about math!:tongue:

 

[Jovial]

When I first signed up I thought that if I put 1% or 10% gay that it would be an invitation to gay men to contact me. I suppose I could just ignore them if that happened. Anyway, I put 100% straight figuring I could always change it in the future if I wanted. I really wanted to put 50% straight, 0% gay because so many women turn me off.

Also, I don't enjoy looking at penises, although, since being on this site, I am curious to see pictures of other men's penises, just to compare. I actually don't enjoy watching heterosexual intercourse porn. The guys in those videos are creepy to me. I do enjoy lesbian porn more. I will watch blowjobs by women--the less of the man that's visible the better though.

I just don't like other men very much, and I don't think about doing anything sexual with them. I'm not so closed minded to think I'll always feel this way. Maybe in 10 years or something I'll feel differently, but for now I'll say I'm 100% straight.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Gay revulsion directed toward women is part of the "gay" persona. Straight male revulsion toward gay male behavior is part of the "straight" persona.

We wear our masks of socially acceptable sexuality well.

 

[ledroit]

When I first signed up I thought that if I put 1% or 10% gay that it would be an invitation to gay men to contact me. for now I'll say I'm 100% straight.

good point, and good post. Identifying yourself (not classifying yourself) is about what you want or don't want. I like being clear about that. I don't care whether other guys are straight, gay or bi--whether we are playing sports or in the showers. If they want to jerk off with me, I still don't care. What matters among guys, I think, is being straight with each other about what we like, don't like; what we want and don't want. That is what being a man is all about. The rest doesn't matter.

 

[Lex]

God i'm fed up with these threads from gay guys trying to gayify straightmen, you've made your choice, we've made ours, just leave it at that.

You verify your cock on a site dedicated to dick and then accuse people of trying to "gayify" you and others (whatever THAT means)? What's gayer than this site? Also, you are HERE. Get over yourself. Please go back to looking at dick pics in the gallery, straight man. Thanks.

 

[art]

God i'm fed up with these threads from gay guys trying to gayify straightmen, you've made your choice, we've made ours, just leave it at that.

I view these posts (and threads) more as an attempt to understand others, (in light of their own experiences, really the only way any of us can even get close to understand another)rather than to justify themselves.

Maybe that's just me.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

--the less of the man that's visible the better though.

I share your misogyny or maybe misanthropy sometimes. But, you've got a cute bum. The more of the man I see the better.

 

[rhino_horn]

You verify your cock on a site dedicated to dick and then accuse people of trying to "gayify" you and others (whatever THAT means)? What's gayer than this site? Also, you are HERE. Get over yourself. Please go back to looking at dick pics in the gallery, straight man. Thanks.

you go girl.:smile:

 

[emu]

For example, aren't you sometimes tempted to glance at other guys' naked penises in a locker room or while standing at a urinal?

here's a thought...

since when does looking at another dude's penis or "comparing" make you gay...?


now if you get turned on and hard by seeing the other dude's penis or naked body or whatever and you have thoughts of wanting to suck the penis while in the context of a romtantic relationship and setting, then guess what, you're gay.

otherwise who gives a fuck. you're a guy, of course you're going to appreciate another dude's big ol shlong, especially if it's a good looking dude you admire and respect and want to see plow the shit out of some tight hot chic's pussy.

it's called envy and empathy. if you don't have what the dude has, you envy the fucker, if you do have what the dude has, it's empathy. same as looking at a friends harley or car....just because you like looking at your freind's car doesn't mean you own it or even want it....

so how does checkin out another dude's dick mean you want sex with with the dude or want to pick out curtains while you hold hands....?

just a thought.

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[raj]

As someone who considers himself 100% str8, I don't see the connection between copping a peek at some guy at the guy or admiring a guys good looks. To me being gay or str8 means you have an emotional connection with either the same or opposite sex. personally, I have no interest in a sexual or emotional relationship (though I wonder what I or you would call a relationship between best friends which I consider emotional in a different way) with a man, but heck, like every man, I'm curious to find out how I stack up against the other guy. My taking a peek at the gym isn't sexual, it's just me being curious. I don't actively search to look, if it's there...I'll look. As for admiring another guys good look, it more jealousy that makes my admire him. I say to myself that his good looks makes it easy for him to get laid from the ladies, while us average looking guys have to work at it. Heck, I'll even admit that if I see a good looking guy, I wonder if he has the package to go along with the looks. I would probably laugh if I would find out the Mr. Buff has a weeeee dick. But does thinking this make me gay. I think not!
I wouldn't confuse the two.
Men will always be curious and competative with other men!

 

[Lex]

you go girl.:smile:

Seeing this line of questioning as anything other than questioning is preposterous.

Thanks, art, for getting it.

Since when did someone's curiosity about a construct equate to trying to brainwash masses of people?

*eyeroll*

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Regarding male beauty, i can see if a guy is good looking, obviously, but my first reaction, if not indifference is: "Why don't I look like him?"

it's called envy and empathy. if you don't have what the dude has, you envy the fucker, if you do have what the dude has, it's empathy.

So what if you are good looking like him or have a big dick like him, or both? BIGdkluver says we have empathy. Does that change the way we feel toward other men? Do we identify with them more? Like them more? Want to be around them more?

Why do we usually choose friends based somewhat on looks? The good looking guys usually run around with other good looking guys, etc. Sometimes good looking guys are uncomfortable around other good looking guys. (competition?) And sometimes good looking guys are more comfortable around other good looking guys. (affinity?)

There's gotta be some reason we choose our friends. Isn't part of it attraction? I read somewhere that in any relationship based on mutual affection sexuality will surface. Is that why guys sometimes go through these strange cycles of neglect, abandonment and revival in their friendships?

 

[D_Beauparte Plungerwand]

You verify your cock on a site dedicated to dick and then accuse people of trying to "gayify" you and others (whatever THAT means)? What's gayer than this site? Also, you are HERE. Get over yourself. Please go back to looking at dick pics in the gallery, straight man. Thanks.

I haven't verified my cock, only posted pics of me. I came on here as it is called a support group and I needed some advice so that my girlfriend and I could have more comfortable sex. How about you get your facts before spout your trash? As a straight man on this site sometimes I actually feel discriminated against for being that way, I now know how many of you in the gay community may feel because so I do. Thankyou for opening my eyes upto it, but I don't thankyou for making me feel like it.