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There's one of two things going on:
Either the OP is a really boring chatter or the guy he is talking to is really boring based on the responses he is sharing with him (us).
Some people just don't have a knack for being good conversationalists on the internet. Some are good on the internet but not in certain types of conversations they are uncomfortable with. There are many things that could be going on here.
I blow people off all the time if they are boring me in the first few seconds. It takes a lot to keep someone engaged in conversation in the fast food world we live in. If someone is boring in the first 8 to 15 seconds in the conversation they have lost me entirely pretty much.
I can't really help it. I've been talking on the internet with people for 16 years now. Whether or not they are chatting with other people isn't offensive. If they are boring the hell out of me I sure hope they are chatting with others so they don't keep going "Hey, how are you?" over and over with a "Where'd ya go?" thrown in between for good measure.
Either the OP is a really boring chatter or the guy he is talking to is really boring based on the responses he is sharing with him (us).
Some people just don't have a knack for being good conversationalists on the internet. Some are good on the internet but not in certain types of conversations they are uncomfortable with. There are many things that could be going on here.
I blow people off all the time if they are boring me in the first few seconds. It takes a lot to keep someone engaged in conversation in the fast food world we live in. If someone is boring in the first 8 to 15 seconds in the conversation they have lost me entirely pretty much.
I can't really help it. I've been talking on the internet with people for 16 years now. Whether or not they are chatting with other people isn't offensive. If they are boring the hell out of me I sure hope they are chatting with others so they don't keep going "Hey, how are you?" over and over with a "Where'd ya go?" thrown in between for good measure.