Cheated On My Bf With A Black Guy

[cherryboom66]

He’s sexualizing and objectifying Black men just as much as you're sexualizing and objectifying men in general for their dicks.
If the color shouldn’t matter why should the size?

can you not put size queens and racists together please. From, the world

 

[Rodeo21]

Sweetie, that’s not just it. You do realize that you’re explicitly sexualizing or objectifying black men, right? I mean, I loooove big cocks too but te color? You shouldn’t care. That’s not something you should be mentioning like it’s normal.

I mean how? Im a white gay guy and I like big black dick? Whats wrong about that?

 

[cherryboom66]

I mean how? Im a white gay guy and I like big black dick? Whats wrong about that?

Perhaps the degrading sexualisation. Referencing an entire race as... what was it. Big black dick.

 

[slowburner]

I mean how? Im a white gay guy and I like big black dick? Whats wrong about that?

Sounds like you enjoy the cock and not the person attached to it. Would you be in a real relationship with a black man? And would a big white cock be satisfying? I assume your bf doesn't have one.

 

[Rodeo21]

Sounds like you enjoy the cock and not the person attached to it. Would you be in a real relationship with a black man? And would a big white cock be satisfying? I assume your bf doesn't have one.

I have never dated any black guys

Sounds like you enjoy the cock and not the person attached to it. Would you be in a real relationship with a black man? And would a big white cock be satisfying? I assume your bf doesn't have one.

He doesn't. And can't say that I have ever been in a relationship with a black guy. They have all been white guys

 

[longstroke7]

Can we not start 2021 without causal racism? What a sad, pathetic existence.

As a Black person, I thank you for saying this.

 

[durhamblkstar]

As a Black person, I thank you for saying this.

Agreed. I am a black male and if the first thing that comes to mind is that we all got BBC then that is not good. We are more than a phallus. We have other things that make and shape us. Dicks comes in different shapes and sizes and black men do not hold the empire to the biggest ones.

Black and white men are the same.

 

[slowburner]

Agreed. I am a black male and if the first thing that comes to mind is that we all got BBC then that is not good. We are more than a phallus. We have other things that make and shape us. Dicks comes in different shapes and sizes and black men do not hold the empire to the biggest ones. View attachment 27621961 Black and white men are the same.

The post said "We are more than a phallus", but includes a pic of one with it. Kind of negates the point

 

[Rodeo21]

Agreed. I am a black male and if the first thing that comes to mind is that we all got BBC then that is not good. We are more than a phallus. We have other things that make and shape us. Dicks comes in different shapes and sizes and black men do not hold the empire to the biggest ones. View attachment 27621961 Black and white men are the same.

Well the guys around where I'm at. All the black guys have had way bigger dicks then the white guys. I've been with alot of both. More so hung black dicks like the picture you posted tho. Every relationship I've been in has been with white guy tho. And yes I am a top most of the time. No one ever really knew I was gay. Still most dont.

 

[durhamblkstar]

The post said "We are more than a phallus", but includes a pic of one with it. Kind of negates the point

I think I am average

 

[51arledge]

Well the guys around where I'm at. All the black guys have had way bigger dicks then the white guys. I've been with alot of both. More so hung black dicks like the picture you posted tho. Every relationship I've been in has been with white guy tho. And yes I am a top most of the time. No one ever really knew I was gay. Still most dont.

So, not only do you objectify black men as being just vehicles to carry around those BBCs, but you also don't care to get to know any black men so as to get to know them a real honest-to-goodness humans with feelings, thoughts, interests, families, hopes, etc.
But maybe it's the other way around?Because you can only see their penises, they realize that it would be futile to look for a real human being inside your empty shell of desire and bad attitudes.

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

I think I am average

Man, if that falls under “average” then I’ve had some super polite past partners...

 

[durhamblkstar]

Black male sexual prowess has been "objectified" all the way back in slavery times when some white would keep black penises in jars as trophies. Also when they were sold at the market square, many whites just liked the power they had over black bodies - male and female.

 

[durhamblkstar]

Man, if that falls under “average” then I’ve had some super polite past partners...

My lady friends have said the same and say I am probably seeing myself differently since my wife barely wants it.

 

[Rodeo21]

So, not only do you objectify black men as being just vehicles to carry around those BBCs, but you also don't care to get to know any black men so as to get to know them a real honest-to-goodness humans with feelings, thoughts, interests, families, hopes, etc.
But maybe it's the other way around?Because you can only see their penises, they realize that it would be futile to look for a real human being inside your empty shell of desire and bad attitudes.

I mean I never said that. And trust me the ones who have fucked me im sure do not give a shit if I used them or even if there just using me.

So, not only do you objectify black men as being just vehicles to carry around those BBCs, but you also don't care to get to know any black men so as to get to know them a real honest-to-goodness humans with feelings, thoughts, interests, families, hopes, etc.
But maybe it's the other way around?Because you can only see their penises, they realize that it would be futile to look for a real human being inside your empty shell of desire and bad attitudes.

I never said that. And trust me, the certain black guys who have fucked me do not care if they were being used or even if they were using me I wouldn't care either. I've just always had a thing for bbc. But just always ended up with white guys. Really thats it.

 

[cherryboom66]

I mean I never said that. And trust me the ones who have fucked me im sure do not give a shit if I used them or even if there just using me.


I never said that. And trust me, the certain black guys who have fucked me do not care if they were being used or even if they were using me I wouldn't care either. I've just always had a thing for bbc. But just always ended up with white guys. Really thats it.

Why are you not *reading*...what is being presented to you.

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

My lady friends have said the same and say I am probably seeing myself differently since my wife barely wants it.

Yeah, that’s definitely the case. Never been called tiny, but I’m definitely not packing something like that.

 

[deleted1846971]

Pardon my logic; but how did you know he had a 10 inch penis, before you had sex with him ? What if he dropped his pants and was an average 5.75 inches Would you have decided not to press your advantage on a person, you classify as drunk ?

I’m sorry, but your logic is not pardoned. It is hereby accepted.

 

[SamMann75]

I think I am average

Average for a black man, lol

 

[MisterB]

The thread title begins with "Cheated on my Bf..." And then it continues with the qualifier "With a Black Guy".

So many questions:

Does the color or how big the penis was somehow mitigate the cheating?

Or it's not really cheating cuz my BF is a white guy and I cheated with a [non-white] guy?

Or it's not really cheating cuz my BF is a guy with a regular size penis and this one was huge?

What does he tell his BF if BF catches a STD and has been faithful to the cheating BF?

What does he tell his BF if he gives BF Covid19?

I see no reference to an open relationship. He states when specifically asked that he has no plans of telling his boyfriend he cheated on him while BF was at his parents.

So this begs the next question: Why is this thread even a thing?

Cuz cheating sure seems to be a shit-thing to do. At any time, but especially right now with Covid-19. That's what I'll especially not understand. Cheating is one issue. But potentially passing on Covid to the BF? Yikes!

Not that I condone cheating at all. I don't. I think cheaters are scum. But hey, if this guy got his nut and is happy and can live with himself...

But this thread tells me Dude's having second thoughts about having cheated on his unknowing BF and came here for validation of cheating on unsuspecting BF.

I for one will not be one to validate that despicable behavior. Cheating is cheating. Whether it's with the same or opposite sex. Or a person of a different ethnicity. Or a person with a big dick.

I think I've figured out who the big dick here really is...