When I was in my early twenties, I enjoyed a few flings with "cougars" (three to be exact)although at the time, the phrase hadn't caught on yet. My roomate used to call one very attractive married woman in her late thirties who lived in our apartment building and who I'd occaisionally have a mid afternoon fuck with "Mrs. Robinson." Although that nomination does possess a certain charm. What I liked about the older women who I'd hook up with was that they all knew the art of lovemaking--to this day the very best head that I have ever had came from one of these ladies. The other thing was that by not being 19 year old co-eds, all of these cougars managed to take all of me inside of their pussies down to the root, with a great deal of pleasure. More than a few of the girls my own age had trouble with that, at least at first. Beyond that, they weren't interested in finding a boy to marry, or even looking at me as a potential "boyfriend" as was often the case with girls who I'd know from college, but just somebody to fuck them senseless, which I was more than happy to do.
Now that I too am in my "middle age" these women are more the norm for whom I wind up bedding. And I've found that most all of the cougars who I've come across will make an exception to screwing just young studs when there's a man of their own age who comes across as being worthy of their amorous attentions.
What gets me though are middle aged freinds of mine who criticize women for being cougars when they would jump at the chance to get fucked by some perky little twenty year old. I hear it all the time and it just drives me up the wall.