TinyPrincess,
“Honestly, I doubt if 1 in 100 even meet a 6”+”
Actually, that way over estimates it. A study combining most of the published studies gave the mean erect circumference as 11.66 cm with a std dev of 1.1. Cutting through the statistical calculations, the probability of 6” is 0.0567%, or 5.6 in 10,000, or 1 in 1,785. The probability of 6.5” is WAY less: .0000000031%, or 3 in 10,000000, or 1 in 3.3 million. 1in 100 men would be 5.6” Of course the number of men that you have sex with would determine the odds that you would meet one of the 1 in 100 or the 1 in 1785; the more, the higher the odds.
Why, you ask, have I looked at this in such detail? Well, I am between 6.5 and 6.7 in the middle, and 7.25+ at the base, and about 6.75 in length depending on the erection. (BTW, that study said there is close to a near identical relationship between erect length and circumference—the latter being .89 of length. So, I am consistent with that.)
It has been a curse.
Much of our 40+ year marriage has been severely starved of sex, because it has caused her so much pain.
We had no concept of relative size, as we have been monogamous. She went to doctors alone, and they made no assumptions about size, and looked for years at everything from scaring from endometriosis, to a too tight episiotomy, fibroids, prolapse, vaginisimus, you name it. Nothing helped permanently. Finally, late in several repeated looks at vaginisimus, a pelvic floor physical therapist was talking about dilators with me present and I pointed out that the largest she was giving us was no where near the girth I was. Her answer was to go to a sex store and buy a dildo that size after reaching the largest dilator. It was not real easy to find one that size. That got me into researching exactly how far out I was. That research brought home the reality that I was not “normal” and discovering that is what got me to LPSG, emphasis on the “SUPPORT”, seeking help. I have been looking in Women’s Issues to see if I could find any women who have dealt with this problem successfully.
Unfortunately, she did end up having prolapse surgery. After that, the pain was even worse. After several years, another pelvic PT advised that the vaginal attachment used in that surgery had created point partway up the vagina that was pinched and scarred. She said that a thinner penis might be able to slide past it, but there is no way that I can fit past that. Basically, our intercourse life is over.
So, I originally came to LPSG seeking help, not to brag. Such size is not always a blessing. I envy the husbands/bf’s of you size queens. I wish I WERE exaggerating my size, then I would not be here because we would be busy having sex.
