Since contributing to this thread back in 2019, I hired an intern to work for me after he graduated. He is also gay, which resulted in a few problems for me. I hired him due to his good work ethics and his productivity. He was with a friend, as a guest, at my gym one day and I ended up being ready for a shower when he walked into the locker room. He stood and talked with me as I stood there with a towel around my neck. I didn’t want to suddenly cover up, so I just acted normal, but I did eventually cut our conversation off after about the third time that I caught him down aglancing at my ample package. About a few weeks later, he was getting too comfortable with me , dropping gay innuendo and at one point, joking that he wasn’t intimidated by me til he saw me in the locker room. I had to set him down and have a conversation about proper workplace conversations and that I understood that it was his first job. I have since tried to mentor him and even socialized with him occasionally, but he has learned to tone down the gay stuff and I think it has helped him to earn respect of his co workers. From my experience some guys don’t know how to handle the male nudity encounters. I had a similar problem with a friend once who after seeing me nude at the gym was always making jokes or references to my dick when in the presence of others. I finally told him to cool it because it was getting annoying, but I did it in a private conversation.
