Craigslist

[visorkols]

I like to do mfm (DP and stuff) so maybe that had something to do with it, a certain segment of listings. Most of them were couples, often it was just the husband fishing, but the good ones were there. This is the reality of life now you will have to filter through from now until eternity lol

Yea I think its either m4mw or m4m that cl is only good for as its very rare to find a female most is just spam.

Ive met a few couples but a lot of them dont go through with it, only had 3 couples who went through with it. Sadly the one I liked the most broke up a few weeks after we met up, not sure what happened but that was that lol. I really like another couple also but they only did it 1-2 times a year so it was a major bummer, the other couple were too big a risk as it felt like they had no screening & would let anyone come over.

So yea if youre looking for a couple you will find it in minutes. If its a female, forget about it. If its a couple then it will take a while to find someone legit who looks avg(most of them are bbw) & wont flake out.

 

[ya_dig_it]

If you're a single dude, CL sucks. Gay men and women, its amazing. I go thru the lesbians ads the women look amazing. The straight women are well...yea.

I have had some luck with CL for banging. One girl wasn't the best looking but she was soooo DTF. BJ and swallowed within the first 10 minutes at my place. Proceeded to bang her. She wanted to sleep over for some reason. I was like, no, you are going home, I don't care if its 4am, I don't want to wake up with you.

However, I've actually more luck on the relationship side. I've meet some decent gals on there. Definitely gonna filter thru the bullshit.

 

[_E_]

CL scares me.

 

[cozmo]

CL used to be cool and I have had a few really good hook ups from there with some nice looking women over the years. Men will reply to M4W ads though and that annoys me. Lately, it has gotten to the point that you get 10:1 spam responses. I use a system to weed through the fakes, but haven't had success in a while. Currently talking to a cuck couple that answered one of my ads and gonna work that for a minute.

 

[itravel]

Here in DC, I tend to see more a fair amount of viable ads. I've met with three guys and had good experiences with each. We do tend to see a fair amount of people who are in town for work and just looking for a quick blow.

Had one guy that was looking for something more traditional than the typical CL experience and we ended up spending 2 hours together. Needless to say, the release was huge for both of us.

 

[ActionBuddy]

If your gay and into old or fat men then cl is heaven for you
If you are into women prepare for an onslaught of hideous cave beasts looking for prince charming in a bmw with a 10 inch cock and a seven figure salary or Legitimate I fuck you for money prostitutes

With your judgmental attitude, Gecko4lif, it sounds to me like YOU are the last man anyone would want to meet up with from Craigslist.

I used CL, along with an email address, on my last road trip, and although I didn't find "Prince Charming", I wasn't expecting to.

After exchanging messages and pics, and phone numbers, I met up with four guys on that trip. None of them ended up being sexual experiences, (I wasn't attracted to them), but with three of them, we actually found that we had a lot to talk about, and had good meals together, and then I enjoyed seeing their towns with them.

The fourth, a 22 year old college student, turned out to be an obnoxious, petty twit, so I politely said goodbye as soon as I finished my coffee.

But, all in all, it was a good experience. I wasn't afraid, because we met in public places... That is a key thing!

I'm still trying to get up my nerve to put it out there, locally on CL, because I would really like to find some JO buddies that are into what I am into, but that scares me way more than meeting a stranger in a cafe in Boseman Montana... I don't want to be judged, gossiped about, or shit in my own nest.

A/B

 

[london_bi]

I've had some awesome fun off of craigslist.

Here's a pic of one of the best nights

http://www.lpsg.com/members/london_...riends/558977-me-and-another-guy-fucking.html

 

[halcyondays]

I've had decent luck with CL, but I'm in a city with a huge university population. Strategy differs: I reply to ads posted in M4M who want to hook up, but post an ad in M4F and let the ladies come to me. I don't waste time with those who email/text back and forth endlessly. If someone's not up for meeting that day or the next, I drop it. I never leave an ad up for more than a day or two and I've never posted a pic of my cock. What I write in my ad is more effective than cock pics.

I agree with earlier posters that it's much easier to find gay/bi men than women, and that F4M ads are almost all spammers.

 

[ActionBuddy]

... Strategy differs: I reply to ads posted in M4M who want to hook up, but post an ad in M4F and let the ladies come to me...

Dude, I don't "get" you with this... Are you seeking a man or a woman?

Not like it's really any of my business, but that is confusing!

A/b

 

[halcyondays]

Dude, I don't "get" you with this... Are you seeking a man or a woman?

Not like it's really any of my business, but that is confusing!

A/b

A man when I want a man, a woman when I want a woman.

Sorry for the confusion.

 

[Gecko4lif]

With your judgmental attitude, Gecko4lif, it sounds to me like YOU are the last man anyone would want to meet up with from Craigslist.

I used CL, along with an email address, on my last road trip, and although I didn't find "Prince Charming", I wasn't expecting to.

After exchanging messages and pics, and phone numbers, I met up with four guys on that trip. None of them ended up being sexual experiences, (I wasn't attracted to them), but with three of them, we actually found that we had a lot to talk about, and had good meals together, and then I enjoyed seeing their towns with them.

The fourth, a 22 year old college student, turned out to be an obnoxious, petty twit, so I politely said goodbye as soon as I finished my coffee.

But, all in all, it was a good experience. I wasn't afraid, because we met in public places... That is a key thing!

I'm still trying to get up my nerve to put it out there, locally on CL, because I would really like to find some JO buddies that are into what I am into, but that scares me way more than meeting a stranger in a cafe in Boseman Montana... I don't want to be judged, gossiped about, or shit in my own nest.

A/B

Bask in the jaded cynicism, BASK IN IT I SAY!

 

[goldenf]

I had great encounters through CL. One was a young guy which was a one off but very nice all the same.

Another I met a few weeks ago who could turn out to be a regular. Overall it can be very hit and miss but yeah, it can be great too.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

This all sounds like such empty, shallow, and meaningless sex…

Added to the danger of swimming in a public sewer of multi-partner disease vectors.

ActionBuddy sounds like the traveling salesman for a company that manufactures STD drugs.

hmmm… My advice… if you are going on CL to try and hook up… wear a wetsuit.

 

[ActionBuddy]

Bask in the jaded cynicism, BASK IN IT I SAY!

Dear Gecko, if you actually read my post, I doubt you know the meaning of the word "cynicism".

This all sounds like such empty, shallow, and meaningless sex… Added to the danger of swimming in a public sewer of multi-partner disease vectors.

ActionBuddy sounds like the traveling salesman for a company that manufactures STD drugs...

That sounds like a really good job to have, in this day and age, Phil... But, calm down...

I get horny on long road trips, and was only looking for JO buddies where I visited, (in your mind, "empty, shallow, meaningless sex."), and, being quite well educated about STDs, of course I would only have "safe sex", meaning using condoms, and lots of lube, if it went beyond that.

Recreational mutual masturbation is not about finding a true love, but it isn't just "empty, shallow, meaningless sex", either... It's also about camaraderie, and it's just plain fun!...

Can you live with the fact that many men enjoy that, and aren't necessarily looking for something "deeper" at the time they are playing the field?

A/B

 

[Gecko4lif]

Dear Gecko, if you actually read my post, I doubt you know the meaning of the word "cynicism".

Going for the condescension gambit huh? Really? How quaint

 

[tattedup1]

I had the best fuck experience. Danny kept me wanting more but he eventually cut me off. I just placef one foe exhibitionists to visit me at my job. Gonna hook u tomorrow. Ill keep u updated.

 

[ActionBuddy]

Going for the condescension gambit huh? Really? How quaint

As did you.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

Dear Gecko, if you actually read my post, I doubt you know the meaning of the word "cynicism".



That sounds like a really good job to have, in this day and age, Phil... But, calm down...

I get horny on long road trips, and was only looking for JO buddies where I visited, (in your mind, "empty, shallow, meaningless sex."), and, being quite well educated about STDs, of course I would only have "safe sex", meaning using condoms, and lots of lube, if it went beyond that.

Recreational mutual masturbation is not about finding a true love, but it isn't just "empty, shallow, meaningless sex", either... It's also about camaraderie, and it's just plain fun!...

Can you live with the fact that many men enjoy that, and aren't necessarily looking for something "deeper" at the time they are playing the field?

A/B

Well… I don't have to live with it. I just don't get the appeal.
I have been into all kinds of kinky, wild and unusual sexual experiences… but they all featured some kind of intimate and loving bond with the other person.

It would be difficult for me to have any kind of sexual encounter with someone I did not know pretty well. I don't see the "camaraderie" of jerking off with a stranger you share no history with and whom you will never see again.

But that's just me.


And, while I appreciate your concern and care over STDs… i would point out that the casual hookup culture of craigslist trysts is replete with people who certainly aren't all that careful… strictly in terms of numbers and risk.

The highest risk of STD transition is among people who have sex with several different people concurrently. That is, in communities where most folks are committed in one relationship and have only occasional affairs separated by years… STD transmission is relatively low.

But in communities where folks have regular partners… and regularly enjoy 1 or 2 or more other partners… the number of infection vectors multiplies exponentially.

Its not just 3 times the risk to have sex with 3 people… its 3 times 3, times 3… or 5… or however many other partners each other person tends to average. Its how a disease can spread like wildfire thru a population. Like much of subsaharan africa.

Guess I am just old fashioned. I don't want to jerk off in front of strangers any more than I want to jerk off in a public park.
To me there is just something inherently sad about sexual expression with folks who don't know you, and whom you don't know.

 

[ActionBuddy]

Well, Phil, on average, most people first have sex with other people that they have yet to have any deep bond with. It is part of exploring where it might go.

You make it out to sound like anyone using CraigsList to meet people are total unconscious sluts... In the last ten years, I met a total of six men from it, and only had totally safe sex, (mutual masturbation) with one... And, it was really fun!

 

[PyroAndHisFineCock]

Grindr? At least it's semi-safe.