Craigslist

[Phil Ayesho]

Well, Phil, on average, most people first have sex with other people that they have yet to have any deep bond with. It is part of exploring where it might go.

You make it out to sound like anyone using CraigsList to meet people are total unconscious sluts... In the last ten years, I met a total of six men from it, and only had totally safe sex, (mutual masturbation) with one... And, it was really fun!

Well… that's a lot different picture than you painted in your post about having THREE hookups in ONE Trip. ( even tho only one resulted in any sexual activity… you were seeking potential sexual activity in each case )


In point of fact, I find modern "hookup" culture… the notion of having casual sex with people you have only just met… or with people with whom you have no actual interest… is pretty much a desperate and slutty kind of human disconnect from what makes sex truly great.

I think its an outgrowth of people spending far too much time in isolation communicating thru texts, vines, tweets, and the like… rather than actual face to face interaction.

People are engaging in sex with other people as if they were playing a video game on their iPhone. Like getting a dick in you is a gold coin worth 600 points… and then its on your way to the next challenge.



But then, I already admitted that I am an old timer who was raised with a different idea of the role of sexual intimacy in human interactions…

I admit I may be hopelessly out of date… and that sex is on its way to becoming a voyeuristic self indulgence in which sexual partners play no more role in your life than the barrista at your local coffee bar.

Seems like a world of folks who are amateurs at evoking the real passions in each others' bodies that only comes of long experience and deep emotional connection… but then, folks seem to be happy eating fast food, too.

 

[ActionBuddy]

I can't argue with any thing you said, Phil. You sound like a genuine, observant, caring man... Hopeful those qualities will never never be "old fashioned", for the majority.

By the way, that road trip was 5 weeks long. And, I am very sexually motivated and adventurous person. But one, who having lost more friends and acquaintances to AIDS than I can even count, a very sexually cautious one. I have almost zero interest in penetrative sex, and certainly not without protection.

A/B

 

[mattsrod7]

If your gay and into old or fat men then cl is heaven for you
If you are into women prepare for an onslaught of hideous cave beasts looking for prince charming in a bmw with a 10 inch cock and a seven figure salary or Legitimate I fuck you for money prostitutes

I think that about sums it up perfectly

 

[BigRoc705]

"Hideous cave beasts" lol. That's all I've seen in the Alabama section.

 

[jojimmy]

I've had nothing but good luck on Craigslist. Both women and men. I am very careful and selective on who I play with but haven't had a problem finding good looking women and nice cocks.

 

[Trevor]

Yes, I mostly post to the "strictly platonic" section Usually post looking for a guy to go boating or to the beach with me. I usually say something like "my friends who were supposed to go with me all bailed or something like that". lol

I don't say anything about sex in the ad, but once we get together mutual masturbation or frot usually happens and many times sex.

One of the hottest fucking times I ever had with a guy happened when I went to buy a surfboard a guy had advertised on craigslist. He was hot and we chatted for a long time outside his apartment and then he invited me in for a beer. We got to chatting and one thing led to another and we ended up making out on his couch. He suggested we move to his bedroom and I ended up bottoming for him and he was one of the best fucks I have ever had.

I had absolutely no idea I was gonna get laid that night I just went over there to buy a surfboard. Afterwards I found my self wondering "did that really fucking happen to me to was it just a dream?" Unfortunately the reason the surfboard was for sale (for a great price) was because he was moving to Colorado in two days so I never saw him again.

 

[hpdd1420]

I've never had a truly bad CL experience. Many have been fun and recurring, some have been definite one time meet ups due to the fact I was too horny to ignore signs that the guy wouldn't be my type. A few times I should've told the guy I wasn't feeling it but I'm too much of a pushover to say "no thanks". Still, haven't met anyone creepy or threatening.

I think I've had more luck replying to other guy's ads than by posting my own. If I post looking for a hairy dude I'll get the smoothest guys responding. If I ask for a fit guy under 40, I get 60 year olds with beer bellys. Nothing against them, but I wish they'd read my ad before replying!! Its also surprising how many people reply with their normal email addresses. CL may block the actual email but it'll still show your display name. It only takes a minute to look you up on Facebook. That handy little tip has helped me weed out some maybes for sure!

I honestly think I enjoy the anticipation of meeting and getting naked more than the actual sex part. I just worry I'll push my luck too far one day and run into trouble.

 

[itravel]

I honestly think I enjoy the anticipation of meeting and getting naked more than the actual sex part.

I agree. I've found out that I enjoy that more than the sex. It's more about two guys just hanging out.

 

[Stl_Smoke]

Lots of good times on Craigslist:

• Fit guy, early 30s in Minneapolis who totally loved sucking my dick. Became somewhat regular when I was in town for business over a two year span, and I even came to town once just to visit him. We were naked most of the weekend.
• Hot college student in Peoria who practically begged to blow me. Met me naked at his house, showed off his extremely hot bod, and then dropped to his knees and didn't stop until his mouth was full of my cum.
• Married guy with a hot body in St Louis, couldn't wait to be pounded. Came to my room, started blowing me, then pushed me on my back and started to ride me until he blew all over my chest.
• Young, tall EMT with jet black hair that stopped by hotel room to suck my dick while on break.
• Beefy young guy in Birmingham with the best set of legs I've ever seen who said he stopped by just for a quick blowjob but then decided he wanted to try 69 - it was amazing being between his sturdy calves and thighs.

What made it appealing to some guys, I think, is that I made it clear I was traveling for work and staying at a hotel. No strings, complete discretion. Just come over, drop your pants, and leave.

I always made sure I was able to check out the guy by meeting in the lobby beforehand, so we wouldn't waste each other's time if there was no connection. There were a couple times when guys that clearly didn't match their photo showed up, and in each case I didn't meet the guy, and sent a note saying I wasn't interested.

 

[MP15]

After two postings, and narrowing down the offers -- I had a first success. Had the guy park across the street (rather than at my house), we talked a bit, and went inside. Took a brief shower together, and 69'd on the bed. He was taking blood pressure medication, so it kept him from getting it up and cumming.

He was really nice though, and his scruffy face felt awesome on my cock. Not a bad first success.

 

[auto90403]

I've used CL for about 15 years now, mainly on business trips. Before I married, I sought men, women, couples, and male groups. My experiences were generally pretty good, especially in the early days. Now CL seems to attract many more freaks and fakes than I remember.

You learn to weed out the non-serious replies. And better, you learn not to answer obviously fake ads. I really like MM fun when there's a woman present and participating. CL's wm4m features lots of men who want to chat about their wives getting some strange. Or men who want to taste my cock before I meet the wife. Which is to say, there's either no wife or she doesn't know he's into cock. Still, I've meet some fun couples. But I no longer expect that if I'm spending the night in downtown Omaha, say, and want to play with a married couple, I can place/answer an ad the day before I arrive and expect a good result.

m4m is still the best/easiest for hooking up. Amazing how many second- and third-tier cities -- Fort Wayne, Mobile, Corpus Christi -- are filled with men looking to suck cock who say they only get to play with business travelers from NY, DC, SF.

w4m, at least for me, is nothing but hookers, fatties and crazies. And gay pic collectors. Yeah, if I make the effort, I could find a woman down for some NSA sex. Just don't have the time or interest to bother.

 

[Seattledon]

I've had a lot f luck on Craigslist but lately too many collectors and flakes

 

[JockVamp]

My experiences have been overall positive. Only one hideous troll beast really threw me for a loop. But it was as much my fault for being lazy and failing to enter in a number of specifics I generally always use. Sometimes I just shake my head in dismay when I see the exact same guys posting ISO 18 yo HUNG 9+ twinks with 8 pack abs ONLY. And believe me I see the same handfull every day. I've got two words for you all. Pipe dream. Y'all need to grow up.

 

[notN2pussy]

Have met some nice guys, that ended up being friends a few times, some oh shits, but not bad, just have to talk a bit and get to know as best you can I guess.

 

[qwerty_dan]

its very hit or miss, with the same time wasters as all the other websites, but I have meet up some great people over the last 18 months, and was fun.
If you are still emailing each other after 5 times and the questions are repeating - give up

 

[TallNHguy]

This sounds about right . . . .

If your gay and into old or fat men then cl is heaven for you
If you are into women prepare for an onslaught of hideous cave beasts looking for prince charming in a bmw with a 10 inch cock and a seven figure salary or Legitimate I fuck you for money prostitutes

 

[Born_2_Worship]

I've been successful finding tops on it, you have to weed through a lot at times though.

 

[MisterSlave]

I am a gay leatherman, ok. . and CL scares the fuck out of me. . for real. I tried it 3, maybe 4 times with guys . .and each hook up was worse than the one before. I avoid it like caution sign. To each their own. . its just not for me. I like a different kind of FREAK.

 

[40InchBooty]

I'd say craigslist is heaven for gay men, you have pages and pages of ads for men wanting sex and only a handful from (mostly overweight) women.

 

[jdoe86]

The last hook up I had from Craigs List was actually a good one. This guy was advertising to suck cock, bigger the better. I sent him a pic and he responded with a cell number and an address. I text back I would be over in 10 minutes (he was only about 4 miles from me). He was a little older than me but in great shape. I stripped and he was on his knees deep throating me and just going crazy over my cock. I think he sucked me for about an hour either with me standing or laying on his bed. I swung him around so I could finger his ass while he sucked me. I asked if he wanted to fuck and he was doggy and ass way up in the air. I didn't even slow down putting it in, I just pushed it to my balls and fucked his with long slow strokes. I spent 3 hours there shooting a load down his throat. Before I left I pulled my cock back out and he sucked me right at his front door. I slapped his face with it and walked out. I plan on fucking him again on my next day off.