Curious how many of you have had a threesome?

It means they are playing Russian Roulette. Safe and safer sex are useless. Luck runs out. Someone has to be getting the 25 million+ new STD's each year in the US. Sex is great but it's not worth getting any STD including HIV.

What are you talking about? Safer sex with men and women has kept me disease free for almost 20 years of intercourse.

The people playing Russian Roulette are those who have unprotected sex (be they male or female) simply because they think their partner is monogamous.

Knowledge (Acurrate information) is power.
 
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Well besides the whole stats thing I don't understand why when somebody posts something Andy has to come in and tell the person basically they're dumb for doing what they do. I posted on here to answer the question that was posed to me and not to get a lecture on what I should be doing and how easy it is to get condoms and how when Andy was growing up they were behind the counter. I don't understand why you would be telling me all this when nowhere in my post I mentioned not using condoms so I would appreciate it if you kept your opinion about what people do to yourself, nobody is forcing you to do anything so don't do it but dont lecture those that do. With all that said let's get back on topic, so many threads end up off topic for no reason :rolleyes:

I never said anyone was dumb. I don't call names like others have done to me. I just cannot figure out how we (the US) are one of the most educated countries in the world, but we are failing miserably when it comes to sex. We have known for 25 years about AIDS. We have one of the highest STD rates of any country. We have access to newspapers, the internet, and television. There's something wrong with this picture. I read about people hooking up, having threesomes, foursomes, and open relationships with the excuse that they are practicing safe or safer sex. Monogamy is our only weapon. I wish we all chose to use it.
 
Twenty-Five Years of HIV/AIDS --- United States, 1981--2006

Despite these successes, several challenges remain. HIV/AIDS continues to be a leading cause of illness and death in the United States. An estimated 252,000--312,000 HIV-infected persons in the United States are unaware of their HIV infection (2). Not only are they at high risk for transmitting HIV to others, but they are much less likely to take advantage of effective medical treatments.

Certain subpopulations remain at increased risk. MSM account for approximately 45% of newly reported HIV/AIDS diagnoses and nearly 54% of cumulative AIDS diagnoses (10,11). A recent survey indicated that in several large U.S. cities, approximately one in four MSM surveyed in social venues is infected with HIV, and nearly 50% of MSM are unaware of their HIV infections (12).

Moreover, young MSM were least likely to know they were infected, and MSM from racial/ethnic minority populations consistently demonstrated higher prevalence than white MSM. AnnualHIV incidence among MSM is high, ranging from 1.2% to 8.0% (12). Racial and ethnic minority communities also are disproportionately affected by HIV/AIDS (13).

During 2001--2004, in 35 areas with HIV reporting, 51% of all new HIV/AIDS diagnoses were among blacks, who account for approximately 13% of the U.S. population (14). Of these, 11% (12,650) of HIV/AIDS diagnoses in men were in black men who were infected through heterosexual contact, and 54% (23,820) of HIV/AIDS diagnoses in women were in black women infected through heterosexual contact. Today, women account for approximately one quarter of all new HIV/AIDS diagnoses and, in 2002, HIV infection was the leading cause of death for black women aged 25--34 years
 
What are you talking about? Safer sex with men and women has kept me disease free for almost 20 years of intercourse.

The people playing Russian Roulette are those who have unprotected sex (be they male or female) simply because they think their partner is monogamous.

Knowledge (Acurrate information) is power.


Lex, you are lucky. That's all I can say. Condoms fail for pregnancy and they fail for HIV and STD's. The only safe sex is monogamy. I'm sorry you and others have chosen to live your life this way. Personally, it's nice to have sex and not have to worry the next day about what I may have gotten. Yes, knowledge is power, but so is peace of mind. Again, It's hard for me to believe that people are still not monogamous after having seen what the swinging 60's and 70's left us with.
 
I would caution anyone from getting information about diseases and illnesses from sites that are not from the Center for Disease Control or other Health/Medical cites.

I especially caution people from getting 3rd-hand information from bigots and their promoted discriminatory websites.

And look, he was only off by 10 million!! That's counting the 2006 GOP way, I tell ya!


Sorry. I thought I read somewhere that is was 25 million. Okay, if it's 15 million, so be it. That's still a lot of disease.
 
Can I make a suggestion, as this is something very close to my heart on several levels.

Due to the nature of this forum, being that people come here to post real concerns, real problems and look for specific advice sometimes as a last resort as all else has failed. That we (you, whoever) makes a thread, all on its own, about STD's, their causes, spread and stats and keep it out of threads started or joined by those (including new members) who might actually be seeking serious help/advice about the main topic at hand.

My concern here is simple. Imagine you've not been here before, you've taken all the mainstream options to get the advice and guidance you need yet have been left feeling more confused and even worse than when you started. You stumble upon this site and browse a little to make sure your question fits in and is likely to generate some kind of usful help. Yet upon browsing your faced with threads containing posts about STD's, bi-sexuals not being real yet at the same time being the cause of AIDS as well as the many other highly offensive and damn right rude and uninformed comments and false truths. Your not going to post, your going to run a mile in fear of the response your likely to get.

When these posts are made, the topic goes off topic, lets not forget the reason behind so many of these threads, advice. Posts like mentioned above serve no purpose to the OP, they merely serve to drive good people with serious problems away, which if I'm correct and pls correct me if I'm wrong, are the people this site was created for.

I've been reading that this site began as a joke, and can see why it garnered that rep, and how it's broken out of it. It happens to come along at a time where I'm re-evaluating my sexuality late in life, and the site is serving to be quite a boost for me. Your quote, K, has nailed it (and gives me warm fuzzies :biggrin1: )

A generalization here, but everything I've seen so far on the site correlates to facts/figures presented to me by my local GBLT health organization, which I joined at age 35 (I'm 39 now), as I need/ed support coming out of a closeted lifestyle (which I thought at one time might kill me, as andy's defective, antiquated thinking purports).

Monogamy is our only weapon. I wish we all chose to use it.
Keep wishing, andy. Your posts still reek of "the gay plague will kills us all", when in reality it's not so easily defined. You're a troll with a agenda and as a paying member it's pissing me off.

Threesome = 2 MMM occasions here and they were great and none of us died from The Gay Cancer :rolleyes:
 
Ok back on topic then

people should have more 3somes. You've no idea how difficult its been lately, can't find a single guy who's happy being around another guy or woman who's happy with a guy being there. Its depressing :(


Depressing. I think that's awesome. People are maybe coming around. :smile:
 
Lex, you are lucky. That's all I can say. Condoms fail for pregnancy and they fail for HIV and STD's. The only safe sex is monogamy. I'm sorry you and others have chosen to live your life this way. Personally, it's nice to have sex and not have to worry the next day about what I may have gotten. Yes, knowledge is power, but so is peace of mind. Again, It's hard for me to believe that people are still not monogamous after having seen what the swinging 60's and 70's left us with.

The thread is for people who are genuinely interested in the subject. If 3somes are not your cup of tea then keep off the thread instead of going on like a broken record. Are you some kind of Fundie preacher?
 
The thread is for people who are genuinely interested in the subject. If 3somes are not your cup of tea then keep off the thread instead of going on like a broken record. Are you some kind of Fundie preacher?

I say we flip him over :eek: :rolleyes: :wink: :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
 
Monogamy is our only weapon. I wish we all chose to use it.
And this quote, old sage, needs to be addressed again when the divorce rate in the US is something like 50%. You, buddy, are in the minority here. Which doesn't entitle you to complain about, either.

I say we flip him over :eek: :rolleyes: :wink: :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:

LOL... good one, BC85 but no thanks. Not when the other party is obviously some kind of fundamentalist plant. If he had some pics of his big dong on here, a minimal amount of slack would be due - but that glaring omission exposes his purpose for being here.
 
Lex, you are lucky. That's all I can say. Condoms fail for pregnancy and they fail for HIV and STD's.
Condoms break from them not fitting properly and from using improper lubrication. I am not lucky. I am educated and act with the knowledge I have. Am I lucky that I drive safely and have never had an accident? Am I lucky that I wear gloves and don't get frostbite. Am I luck that I went to college and grad school and got a good job? Or am I educated and prepared?

Lucky is having unsafe sex and being STD free. That does not describe what I have done.
The only safe sex is monogamy.
Wrong.

The only safe sex is masturbation. The only thing 1000% guranteed to not transmit STDs is abstinence.

I'm sorry you and others have chosen to live your life this way.

So now you make judgments about how people "live their lives"? You're quite the piece of work. I am sad (as an educator) that you choose to read and propagate faulty data to justify your shaky argument. I would rather be called a knowledgable whore than an ignorant, close-minded bigot.

Personally, it's nice to have sex and not have to worry the next day about what I may have gotten. Yes, knowledge is power, but so is peace of mind. Again, It's hard for me to believe that people are still not monogamous after having seen what the swinging 60's and 70's left us with.

Who said I worried after sex? If I know that I can get HIV from contact with semen in my anus and/or on open wounds and neither happens--why should I worry? My understanding of real facts gives me a peace of mind that i s upported as I get tested and re-tested. I treat EVERYONE as if they are HIV+ -- male or female.
 
who is andy, what is he doing here...why is he ranting about hiv/aids on a 3sum thread...why doesn't he just go play by himself...it seems to me he does not play well with others nor does he want to...
 
who is andy, what is he doing here...why is he ranting about hiv/aids on a 3sum thread...why doesn't he just go play by himself...it seems to me he does not play well with others nor does he want to...


Funny, that's what his first grade report card said, too "Doesn't work and play well with others...":rolleyes:
 
After reading this I can understand why the US has over 25 million new STD's every year. More than 25 million people worldwide have died of AIDS since the early 1980's. Close to 40 million people are now living with HIV worldwide. Some people just don't get it. If we were all monogamous we wouldn't be in this awful, tragic mess.

Well you should also remember a great deal of women have gotten aids from shared needles. Not all of it was sex with a bi or gay man. Also a lot of straight males have gotten aids this way. Yes it originally goes back to someone having sex with one who had aids but not everyone got aids through sex.
 
Gee I thought this was a forum that I could post and not be judged.
Yeah I get your aids data. Do you get that sex is a primal urge and sometimes reason is compromised? Wait. Don't answer that.
Just start your own thread next time.
Jake
 
When i was a teen I had a friend who was a girl who would suck off me and her cousin.
We would touch each other but it never went beyond oral.

Later in life I was the hangout house for a few friends and while having sex with one girl one of my friends sorta joined in. He started to rub our legs and asses and holding my cock as i thrust into her.

Being bi I was turned on alot, And after she orgasmed I pulled out and sat up and shoved my cock into his mouth.
She was sort of freaking out being she didn't know i was Bi and she jumped off the bed and stood around the corner and got dressed.
While he worked my cock over i could see her watching and i told her to help him out and she told me no.

but about 3 mins later i felt another hand touch my leg and saw her resting her head on my leg as he sucked.

After a bit more of holding back so she could watch I started cumming and sprayed both of thier faces with cum.

She cleaned up and left.. she didn't come over for a week or so, I thought I scared her off , but she came over and we continued our afternoon sex antics with just us.
 
I've been having MMF three-ways since I was 16. My older brother and I have shared girlfriends (when they were cool with it) or just picked girls up at college parties. It's surprising how many girls are into it. I think every guy should tag a girl with a bud at some point, it's a great bonding experience :smile:

Haven't been lucky enough to have an MFF, though... that'd just be amazing.

EDIT: And guys, don't come here and tell us what we should or should not be doing. Even if you think it's a bad decision, it's still our choice to make, not yours.