"Daddy" Issues

[DC_DEEP]

Likewise a submissive guy, or the one being fucked was a bitch.

Hence you have daddys their bitches. ie Who's your daddy and who's my bitch.

Am I the only one who finds it ironic that it would be pup who brings up the subject of bitches?:tongue:

 

[Rugbypup]

lol, DC? where is your avatar?

 

[DC_DEEP]

lol, DC? where is your avatar?

<g> the same place as my gallery, and profile information. Gone. Just gone. They had outlived their usefulness; I saw no need to leave them up.

 

[Hippie Hollow Girl]

I remember feeling the same as you Stacy when I was in my twenties.....but as I have aged seems like the way I think has changed too. Or maybe it is just me. But in the right situation (like in role playing and such) I could forsee getting into the Daddy role playing during sex. A Daddy to me is someone that takes care of my every want and need (like my husband does) I think the taboo has something to do with excitment of it.

In real life I do have a parental Dad that I am very close to.....And he has always been very overprotective of me. But I am able to seperate real life from fantasy. I have never thought of my dad in a sexual way.....but I have fantasized about other people's dad's.

 

[Rugbypup]

<g> the same place as my gallery, and profile information. Gone. Just gone. They had outlived their usefulness; I saw no need to leave them up.

I'm sorry to hear that DC.

 

[thoreau]

I hope that's a typo, and not a Freudian slip...

oops!


my mistake I meant to say virile.


Thanks DC.

 

[BiItalianBro]

The term is a wood killer for me. Its hard to get busy when I am laughing.

 

[Hugh Mann]

Why do you guys get so turned on by being called "Daddy" in bed?

I don't...it's thoroughly disgusting. Not many things would ruin the mood faster than that...

 

[D_Ollyvalle Treegirth]

wow I guess I'm really in the minority here....well I dunno why, but I friggin love being called Daddy in bed. (am a gay man). I guess I have no deep explanation of it....just know I didnt always feel that way, it's only been in the past 5 yrs or so (has to do with age?) and mainly when I'm with a younger guy. it just makes me feel super-hot, masculine, and in control. It's sure not literally any kind of incestuous thing ..... Just "daddy" in a generic sense as it's used by the gay community (older, dominant guy).

 

[somethingradical]

I love a big muscled man telling me to call him Daddy! But it has to be a big man....a skinny guy (which I like also) can't request that bc the sex ends there

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

I don't think it's all that common, stacy. If you've had more than one, maybe you are finding your men in the wrong place!:biggrin1:

yeah that could be true. or maybe i'm just getting a batch of all the guys turned on by being called "Daddy." who knows?

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

I remember feeling the same as you Stacy when I was in my twenties.....but as I have aged seems like the way I think has changed too. Or maybe it is just me. But in the right situation (like in role playing and such) I could forsee getting into the Daddy role playing during sex. A Daddy to me is someone that takes care of my every want and need (like my husband does) I think the taboo has something to do with excitment of it.

In real life I do have a parental Dad that I am very close to.....And he has always been very overprotective of me. But I am able to seperate real life from fantasy. I have never thought of my dad in a sexual way.....but I have fantasized about other people's dad's.

oh i've fantasized about other peoples' dads plenty of times, lol. and i see where you're coming from about the role playing during sex, meaning a person who takes care of an individual's needs. i'm guessing that's where the term "Sugar Daddy" came about as well.

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

wow I guess I'm really in the minority here....well I dunno why, but I friggin love being called Daddy in bed. (am a gay man). I guess I have no deep explanation of it....just know I didnt always feel that way, it's only been in the past 5 yrs or so (has to do with age?) and mainly when I'm with a younger guy. it just makes me feel super-hot, masculine, and in control. It's sure not literally any kind of incestuous thing ..... Just "daddy" in a generic sense as it's used by the gay community (older, dominant guy).

it's great to have a gay man's perspective on this!! it also brings me to a new question that i've been pondering: is the "Daddy" term used differently or the same from the hetero community than the gay community?

 

[B_Bette]

Fuck me, big daddy. Do you like my hair in pigtails, daddy? What about my shoes? I put on mommy's shoes, they're too big for me. I raided mommy's makeup, too. I love my new red lipstick, papa! :biggrin1:

 

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

Why do men always insist that women (and I guess some gay men as well) call them "Daddy" in bed? I think I'm the only person who doesn't find the whole "Daddy" name-calling to be a turn on. In fact, I personally feel it's absolutely disgusting! Maybe most men are not aware of this, but half of all grown women still call their fathers by Daddy. The reasoning is simple: we're always going to be Daddy's little girl. In my opinion, I don't think associating the name you call your father and your lover should not be intertwined. So men, spill the beans... I want honest answers. Why do you guys get so turned on by being called "Daddy" in bed?

Fortunately it's never happened to me. I think I'd have to ask my partner *not* to do that.

I agree. I'm pretty open, but anything involving kids -- even in fantasy -- is out of bounds to me.

So it is / would be a total turnoff.

I've definitely said things like "attagirl" or "good girl". But never wanted or had "daddy" come up, fortunately.

 

[Remoes]

Personally I love it when my girlfriend calls me daddy. She loves to. She really gets into it. She's 22 and she looks really young. I love when she wears pigtails too. I have wondered whether this makes me a pedophile or not... but I gotta say, I just don't find kids attractive. I think its just the whole taboo of it and how kinky it is, its such a god damned turn on.

 

[B_Demention]

I've never heard of anyone doing this seriously. I've always thought it was in jest, like "who's your daddy, bitch" followed by an ass-slap. I can't imagine any guy really enjoys being called that when he's fucking his woman. Some people watch too much tv.

 

[andysmith]

not only has it happened recently, but it's happened a lot in my dating history. but i always express how i feel about saying "Daddy" in bed, and the guys generally don't get mad about it.

Ive never requested it every lad i know hasnt requested it.

Since you keep getting men who do it, you must actually like that type of man

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

Ive never requested it every lad i know hasnt requested it.

Since you keep getting men who do it, you must actually like that type of man

my father is the last thing i need to be reminded of while i'm having sex. just because i've come across men who get turned on by the "daddy" label, doesn't justify that it's a pattern or something that i look for.

 

[B_Hung Jon]

I thought the term daddy was prison slang for an alpha straight guy (on the outside) but was top only when inside.

Likewise a submissive guy, or the one being fucked was a bitch.

Hence you have daddys their bitches. ie Who's your daddy and who's my bitch.

I think the term has more to do with dominance and status than someone being a peado.

I could be wrong.

This sounds right to me too. It's a power thing for some guys, and I imagine reversely for some women. Sometimes my g/f calls me "big boy". It could be referring to the size of my penis but she also uses it as a form of affection.