"Daddy" Issues

[invisibleman]

What about some guys calling certain women "Mommies"?

I think that "Daddy" and "Mommy" can be words of endearment. But I can understand those who take offense at those words because no one wants to think sexual thoughts about their parents.

But I consider daddies to be older guys who are still sexy.
Mommies are older women who are still sexy.

 

[B_quietguy]

Eww! I would never want to be called Daddy, or anything like that. If a women said, that I'd be too weirded out. Never crossed my mind - and good thing at thing since I would not want to lose my mood during sex.

Sorry you had a negative experience with some guy asking you that. Perhaps you could ask him why he wants that? And then express why you feel uncomfortable with his request that you call him "Daddy". Or if it aint worth it to you to ask, just politely break up and look elsewhere.

 

[MagicTongue]

I would never call a guy Daddy... But I have "Daddy" issues of a whole other sort. My "Daddy" was never around and didn't even acknowledge me as his daughter.

 

[Honey123]

Fuck me, big daddy. Do you like my hair in pigtails, daddy? What about my shoes? I put on mommy's shoes, they're too big for me. I raided mommy's makeup, too. I love my new red lipstick, papa! :biggrin1:

Well.... this is exactly the kind of thoughts that come to my mind when I hear something like "Who's your daddy", it's a total turn off for me. It's not something I could ever be able to role play or anything because my mother divorced my father when he started coming after my sister and me (luckily she listened to me before anything really bad happened but it still messed me up). Good thing nobody has ever said it to me because that would probably be the end of the relationship, right there, right then.

 

[laffitte]

I was once having sex with this older woman and she strarted this "ooh daddy " business.

I can tell you it put me off all together. Lost my rhythm and hardness.

Did not like it all.

 

[B_lilylabia]

I was once having sex with this older woman and she strarted this "ooh daddy " business.

I can tell you it put me off all together. Lost my rhythm and hardness.

Did not like it all.

Hi Lafitte,

Didn't you want to laugh?

I'm not sure I quite understand the whole "role-play" thing anyway. My man calls me "mistress" sometimes when he wants me to be dominant and I really struggle to keep a straight face!

Lily:biggrin1:

 

[laffitte]

Lily

Did I want to laugh? I must too intense. At that stage of proceedings the last thing I wanted to do was laugh.

I meant business. I was really giving it to her. Takes a lot of concentration and effort!

 

[Flashy]

the whole daddy thing has never been of any interest to me...

it sounds totally stupid...would never want to be called it and would never asked to be called it in bed etc.

in fact, i agree, the whole "who's your daddy" cheer was completely annoying and idiotic.

 

[pavement]

Fortunately it's never happened to me. I think I'd have to ask my partner *not* to do that.

I agree. I'm pretty open, but anything involving kids -- even in fantasy -- is out of bounds to me.

So it is / would be a total turnoff.

I've definitely said things like "attagirl" or "good girl". But never wanted or had "daddy" come up, fortunately.

Who loves you video

 

[D_Kaye Throttlebottom]

It is strange, it's never happened to me and I would have the same revulsion to it.

"Who's your daddy" was kind of like a slang for bravado, but never in the sack.

 

[Rubber_JonnyN]

I think it's more of a S&M (Slave&Master) thing. Seeing as your real Daddy is like a master of you and you're to do as he says, thus you being the slave.