Patience always wins the day.
Bullshit. Patience has a mixed track record: sometimes wins, sometimes doesn't. To generalize like this is ridiculous.
The next time you are making out, unbutton your pants and say something like, "Wow, look what you're doing to me, mind if I get a little more comfortable?" Or maybe buy her some lingerie and put in a note or card asking her to please model it for you.
Those sound to me like great ideasif you want to furnish her with material for the next time that she finds herself in a bitching session with her girl friends.
stop trying to get in her pants just dont even try to get in
she will be like what the hell why doesnt he want to fuck me anymore and then she will let u have sex with her
For all I know, this could work. It has probably worked at least once in the history of dating. But I would not count on it to get you anywhere. It could be a recipe for just getting strung along indefinitely.
Sometimes a woman likes a guy, likes having him as an admirer, likes him physically to some degree, but just doesn't take him seriously as a possible lover. As long as no one more interesting comes into her view, she may date him for as long as he is willing to accept his limited role. If the woman is clever and good at evasion (or is given to self-deception), you may even find it impossible to get a straight answer out of her as to where you stand with her. I have no way of knowing if the woman you are dating, Scott, is like this; I only know that some women are, and I think that, rather than putting your trust in patience and persistence, you should bear in mind the possibility that your girl is leading you a dance.