Dating bi guys(as a guy)?

[pengucat]

"As a matter of fact, I don't know a single bi guy who prefers a man's ass over a woman's pussy. That's not taking anything away from hooking up with guys, it just seems to be empiracle." comment from TheUnihorn. if there's no sense of superiority with women then explain this, and explain why i see so many bi guys talk about how fucking a guy isn't as good as fucking a woman

You’re extrapolating an awful lot from one person’s reply. There are bi people who have a preference for their own sex, too, yknow.

 

[1050059]

except that's exactly what it's doing, it's saying that gay fucking is inferior. oh and btw there is bi guys that prefer guys asses/fucking guys to pussy. and no it's not


not really. there is bi guys that prefer guys in every way and like ass better, it's a matter of opinion. not "empirical"

Okay buddy, you're triggered, we get it. Newsflash, the organ designed to be fucked feels better.

 

[852838]

I probably would date a bi guy. Most of the guys I've slept with have been with women before but I think they all identified as gay when our paths crossed. Bi dudes take a lot of garbage from some straight and gay people. I do think most eventually settle down with one or the other.

 

[LDNdude]

Uh, I am one of those guys who says that. As a matter of fact, I don't know a single bi guy who prefers a man's ass over a woman's pussy. That's not taking anything away from hooking up with guys, it just seems to be empiracle.

To answer the original question, if I decided to date a guy (which I probably would not), we would absolutely have to work something out where I can still have sex with women. It's just nature.

You have a good body and some sort of interest in both sexes...but you self-declare (on your lpsg profile at least) to be 80% straight, 20% gay, so you’ve answered your own question in that you like sex with both but very much find sex with women to be your favourite.

Not empirical proof, just your opinion - one that I know to be a fairly baseless opinion and nothing more. All the bisexual guys I know very much prefer men to women anyway.

Anyway, you’re hot. I would love to suck your dick on the down low regularly if I could. I know that gay guys definitely do suck better than all women. But I’m basing that on all the “empirical” evidence I have

 

[silvertriumph2]

To me, vaginal and anal are different in many ways....and I find it difficult to compare them.
Bananas and apples are both good, but very different...but can I say I like one over the other
or that they are alike other than they are fruits?

I love vaginal intercourse with a woman, but when t comes to anal, I prefer a man. I have
never had good anal with a woman...not really sure why, except that men seem to enjoy it
a lot more which to me is a big plus and gets me more excited and I enjoy it more.
Plus, men are tighter and I love that feeling.

 

[deano-uk]

yeah but i'd definetly want to, a lot. and as someone who would like to me a sub bottom and my bf to be a dom top i wouldn't want him to be thinking to himself "not as good as pussy", know what i mean?

We’ll meet a gay guy then, but whose to say he’s not thinking about some other guy’s fit arse. If you have the connect with someone maybe / hopefully fall in love, and the sex is good, he probably won’t want anyone, male or female. It seems more about your insecurities perhaps . Good luck fella

 

[englad]

This is such a weird insecurity to have. I can't imagine it every crossing my mind if I were in a relationship with a bi guy. Without sounding like an arrogant bastard, if we click, I'm 100 % certain in my own charms (physical, sexual and emotional) that any other people (regardless of sex) are not going to cut the mustard. Just like his charms would mean other men wouldn't cut the mustard for me.

 

[Bigredlobster]

That to me seems to be a generalisation, everyone's different. I've always been an ass man but only recently realised it doesn't matter if it's a guy or girl's. Yet I've never really contemplated anal with a girl but wouldn't mind trying with a guy although first and foremost I'd rather suck his cock! It's almost like an additional unnecessary hangup that you don't need to put yourself through. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but it's unlikely to be the case universally.

 

[SoaringSpirit]

Is there any point in gay men dating bi guys? on account of the fact that it seems most bi guys consider gay fucking to be inferior to fucking vagina, I was just thinking that with that in mind, you'll never be able to please him fully sexually and he'll always be thinking about how much he likes vagina better than your ass, and you'll always be thinking about the fact that he thinks fucking you isn't as good as fucking a woman. what are your thoughts on this?

My opinion & its just that ...my s.o. & I are bi...is that it's not considered " inferior" its just different, the sensation etc...its a personal preference, more so than simply sexual....some just are into the sex guy to guy, yet prefer the relationship with a woman...I never heard my guy say it was inferior. Its like me being with another woman....the feel,touch, sensations would be totally different than the way he touches me. In no way shape or for it it better or worse, just different.
But we all have our attractions & who we want to be with. No matter what I do, can I even if I pegged him...have the same feel as a guy ? No...some bi guys are simply attracted to cock....period. Other's they are more attracted to men. Its all GOOD.

I get so hot & wet watching 2 or more guys..

 

[SoaringSpirit]

Sex with someone you really care about in a relationship is much different than hookups. The connection you have becomes a big part of the act, and if the other guy really cares about you, I doubt the "better" physical sensation of a vagina would be enough to make him want to give you up.

Agreed !

 

[SoaringSpirit]

But as MysticGreen stated, its more about the connection....that it what makes it what it is....the sex is our icing on the

 

[SoaringSpirit]

yes it does. that's literally exactly what it means



no i'm not. the post isn't about cheating or the stereotype of bi people not commiting. it's about wether or not there's any point in dating a bi guy if he finds gay fucking inferior

Find another bi guy who dosent find it so

 

[SoaringSpirit]

As a Bi guy I enjoy being the bottom most of the time with the studs!! View attachment 1069697

Bill this is HOT !!!

 

[englad]

My opinion & its just that ...my s.o. & I are bi...is that it's not considered " inferior" its just different, the sensation etc...its a personal preference, more so than simply sexual....some just are into the sex guy to guy, yet prefer the relationship with a woman...I never heard my guy say it was inferior. Its like me being with another woman....the feel,touch, sensations would be totally different than the way he touches me. In no way shape or for it it better or worse, just different.
But we all have our attractions & who we want to be with. No matter what I do, can I even if I pegged him...have the same feel as a guy ? No...some bi guys are simply attracted to cock....period. Other's they are more attracted to men. Its all GOOD.

I get so hot & wet watching 2 or more guys..

Primary focus of the attraction is cock, certainly can be. SOLE attraction to the cock with zero attraction to the rest of the man, that sounds an awful lot like straight with a penis fetish. To label that as bi, sounds like an accidental defence of the purity of heterosexuality. This sexologist explains it well in my opinion:

Why Even Straight Men Can Be Into Cuckold And Have A Penis Fetish

 

[SoaringSpirit]

Primary focus of the attraction is cock, certainly can be. SOLE attraction to the cock with zero attraction to the rest of the man, that sounds an awful lot like straight with a penis fetish. To label that as bi, sounds like an accidental defence of the purity of heterosexuality. This sexologist explains it well in my opinion:

Why Even Straight Men Can Be Into Cuckold And Have A Penis Fetish

I wasn't labeling.. I was quoting ppl no ppl...great article -

 

[deleted140118]

Dating and having a relationship is about more than just fucking. If I’m with a great guy I don’t miss a vagina and if I’m with a great girl I don’t miss a penis.

Love this reply!!! I’m with a guy right now but I’m bi. I have to explain that being bi isn’t about fucking. I’m attracted to guys and girls, but for the right guy or girl, I don’t need or see anyone else.

 

[gayyay1997]

Agreed !

yeah but the fact he thinks fucking me isn't as good as fucking a woman would be a garbage feeling

 

[gayyay1997]

Love this reply!!! I’m with a guy right now but I’m bi. I have to explain that being bi isn’t about fucking. I’m attracted to guys and girls, but for the right guy or girl, I don’t need or see anyone else.

why are you with a guy if you're 70% into women and only 30% into men though?

 

[Submissivebottom]

Is there any point in gay men dating bi guys? on account of the fact that it seems most bi guys consider gay fucking to be inferior to fucking vagina, I was just thinking that with that in mind, you'll never be able to please him fully sexually and he'll always be thinking about how much he likes vagina better than your ass, and you'll always be thinking about the fact that he thinks fucking you isn't as good as fucking a woman. what are your thoughts on this?

I would date a bi guy as long as he's top

 

[1241586]

This may help a few people on here.