DC_DEEP Banned

[B_Monster]

Under dc deeps handle it says "Senior Member" not temp ban or banned????

 

[dreamer20]

DC was banned in error and subsequently his membership was restored.

Under dc deeps handle it says "Senior Member" not temp ban or banned????

I banned DC_DEEP after I thought I'd dotted all the i's and crossed all the t's but I later found that I was in error.

DC_ had, at the urging of Freddie53, stopped posting so that the pie fight he was embroiled in would end.

My action was wrong. I have PM'd DC_ with my apology and his membership has been restored.

 

[B_Monster]

Thanks Dreamer

 

[Not_Punny]

That's used to not allow people to cause flame wars with their various ID's. Seems quite simple: Post one ideas as A, then post as B, disagreeing vehemently.

And drag others into it.

But why not???

What is so wrong about that?

Is it any more wrong to pose-and-defend an idea than to pose-and-depose that same idea?

Is a flame war any more mentally destructive than the intellectual rigor mortis that sets in after reading a hundred boring threads about locker room towel ettitquette? (Personally, I rather enjoyed Snoozan's posting about lesbians in the locker room.)

Why do we keep pretending that this online fantasy world has to pretend to match reality??

 

[Rugbypup]

*Snuffles Punny.*

 

[Not_Punny]

*Snuffles Punny.*

*rubs pup on tummy *

 

[Xcuze]

But why not???

What is so wrong about that?

Is it any more wrong to pose-and-defend an idea than to pose-and-depose that same idea?

Is a flame war any more mentally destructive than the intellectual rigor mortis that sets in after reading a hundred boring threads about locker room towel ettitquette? (Personally, I rather enjoyed Snoozan's posting about lesbians in the locker room.)

Why do we keep pretending that this online fantasy world has to pretend to match reality??

Well said, I agree. There's no reality round here thats for sure.

 

[SteveHd]

My question would be that if Snoozan/WoB wanted to return, would her ban be lifted by the mods? After all, she left in protest, not knowing that the event that prompted her protest was a moderator's error.

That's an interesting hypothetical question. If I were a mod I'd consider reversing it given the circumstances; can't say if I would or wouldn't.

I don't think she'd want to return anyway. I'd guess she's quite disgusted with the ban/reversal mess.

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To those who didn't recognize WoB as Snoozan: you had good reasons not to recognize her. I have to say she was rather different as WoB: harsher and meaner by a notable degree. Somewhat like an alter ego. I found out via her (belated) "intro" thread.

 

[ZOS23xy]

But why not???

What is so wrong about that?

Is it any more wrong to pose-and-defend an idea than to pose-and-depose that same idea?

Is a flame war any more mentally destructive than the intellectual rigor mortis that sets in after reading a hundred boring threads about locker room towel ettitquette? (Personally, I rather enjoyed Snoozan's posting about lesbians in the locker room.)

Why do we keep pretending that this online fantasy world has to pretend to match reality??

I would think we need some grounding, and and some rules and manners and this is one way of doing it: by having sets of rules. It would be kind of unkind to set up another account and bash people whom I would defend as another name. If you really want to argue with yourself you can always make a sock puppet and tell it "make love to me" and have it say "no!".

That kind of thinking and behavior is unproductive.

A moderator called me to task for calling the now banned member a certain word, for which I acknowledge and for which I feel no sorrow or shame. He was a troll and wouldn't stop being a troll and the moderators didn't deal with him early enough.

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[Mem]

My question would be that if Snoozan/WoB wanted to return, would her ban be lifted by the mods? After all, she left in protest, not knowing that the event that prompted her protest was a moderator's error.

Seems to me that if the admin team wants to smooth the ripples caused by DC_DEEP's ban-in-error, they should also restore anyone who was upset enough to leave over it.

I agree. If DCDeep was not banned it error to begin with she would not have posted with her old account.

Even is she is not coming back they should offer her WoB account back to her.

They (mods and Admins) should also disable old accounts (or change the passwords) so that members can not do what she did.

 

[B_Think_Kink]

uhm. No they didn't. He jumped to a lot of conclusions about someone that did not disagree with them. He's an ass. Good riddance. It's his choice to leave. He can gossip and stir the pot on another site. Fucknut.

Yet another totally wrong judgment call...

I forgot to add that you are probably biased as he called you a stupid cunt. I've not seen DC take many to task on here but I've never disagreed with him when he has.

I agree, esp with what he called her. Her last post warrants it.

 

[dolf250]

The few times that I do pop in I have noticed a trend towards victimization. Perhaps it should not surprise me- all of society is a victim. Gay? A victim. Black? Another victim. White? Well, now you are a victim of affirmative action. A man? A victim. A woman? You guessed it. Give me my damned rights. Everybody needs to respect how I feel and what I say. I matter! Really, this thread has had more victims in it that I care to count.

In many ways,some of you have got yourselves to blame,for making lpsg your own personal home away from home.
When you feel one of yr beloved kin has been wronged, you come out with Guns blazing in support.
Nothing wrong with that...but
When there is a 19 year old genuinely asking a reasonable question
My GF says her x had a bigger cock than me' (or something similar) where were all these 1000 or more posters who could have given him advice and support
Only one person with significant posts was there
Were many of you avoiding his Question.possibly preferring to interact,as many of you have so become accustomed to....

You seem to be upset that instead of being here only to offer support people have found and made friends and no longer spend 100% of their time (yes, or even 20% of it) offering support. However, only 2% of the posts actually require serious comments of any type. Interestingly, most of the friendships that formed here crystallized because of the support that has been offered.


I find it hard to respond when we are coming at this from two completely different worlds. Mine where if somebody offers advice I am surprised and grateful and yours which seems to be a world of entitlement where everybody should be here to offer support. I am going to use Lex as an example (I hope he does not mind.) Lex has shared, on more than one occasion, deeply personal experiences that undoubtedly helped many people on this board who read it. I suppose that he could relay the same stories over and over again for everybody who may benefit from hearing them but that makes no sense. To expect that people answer the same questions over and over and that they offer support to everybody is to live in an utopia that has never existed- here or elsewhere.


I have not been around much at all and do not know what thread you are worked up about the person not getting the personal one on one counseling that they are entitled to but from your description of “her ex had a bigger cock than me” I can tell you that it sounds VERY familiar. There have likely been 100 – 200 threads based on that theme over the years. A search will yield the information that they need to deal with the problem. If more personal attention is required then either typing why it is needed or seeking advice from a sex columnist may be in order.

Maybe we need a "Who gives a flying fuck" thread... There's nearly 300,000 members here last time I looked.

Perhaps, but that is over the 5 years the board has been up. You have 100 000 who still pop in. You have 5000 actively posting members. 2000 regular posters. 500 who have been around for quite awhile and have offered more advice and insight that the rest combined. And, perhaps, 50 people who I would say are intelligent and humourous enough to be on my “must read” list. Most have been gone for a year or better and the exodus continues...


If your join date is correct then I suspect that you have missed the best of what this site had to offer. If your join date and your post count is correct then I suspect that you have contributed to the intestinal byproducts that litter the site.

Manly, some of us had nasty experiences with these people too.

Once again, poor you. Yet another victim.

 

[Xcuze]

dolf250

I aint no victim. I fight my battles head on. Dont take lines out of context. I made my point, that line was simply to explain where my point was coming from. Nothing more, nothing less. As for your other points about me...cant even be bothered responding. Yaaawn, that'll do.

Im not replying to any response. Just wanted to correct your ignorance about me.

 

[naughty]

I agree. If DCDeep was not banned it error to begin with she would not have posted with her old account.

Even is she is not coming back they should offer her WoB account back to her.

They (mods and Admins) should also disable old accounts (or change the passwords) so that members can not do what she did.

One small issue. She broke TOS in order to be banned. Peace.

 

[Mem]

One small issue. She broke TOS in order to be banned. Peace.

But only because a Mod made a mistake in banning DCDeep, otherwise she would still be a member.

 

[SteveHd]

mem, it appears you're stating an assumption. Has WoB explicitly stated such?

 

[rbkwp]

dolf250

Well people are saying my writings are hard to read/understand
I have acknowledged that,and am trying very hard to improve such.
That responce, was primarily expressing myself from a previous thread where i as a new' person felt a little unhappy re a post. I dont wish to take it back'
I have since also learnt i was at fault,partially maybe..and apologized, also attempting to correct several things pointed out to me....including the post you have mentioned
also including the fact that ignorantly suggested to some degree/that i would ever post only twice on a thread..well its since proven i need to post further to respond to such as this...Thanks MB'
In a post a few days later, i have acknowledged respecting Senior members etc, so i think i am getting the picture.
Damage may have been done in that post/but not irreversible.?? (i hope')
While i felt quite strongly in that post, i now feel a little differently..especially as i mentioned also..-acceptance- in the follow up post...and all this in a week;..well keen to learn..am i.
Made a few mistakes, trying to correct them and adapt to all others, is as much as i can do
Maybe there can be a Forum entitled "TRUTH" where only truthful threads are created,and valued members can offer there opinions and advice, so we all dont have to sift thru many meaningless posts?
enz

 

[justmeincal]

RBKWP, It is often difficult to make your feelings/ideas correctly understood on the internet, even in your own native language. The fact that you try so hard to do so in English when it is not your native language, is admirable.

Best of luck to you.

 

[rbkwp]

justmeincal

THANKs fr that justme
I best quickly admit ... English' is my Main and only Language
Asian-Maori am i,and lazy me learnt neither of those languages
I geuss education NZ in the 60,s was not as in the USA or elsewhere,( or at the time i chose not to fully grasp it) plus leaving school at 15 to work the fields' possibly did not help?? ha
but..NO regrets
THANKS tho fr yr reply .. appreciated
enz

 

[SteveHd]

Curious stats:

This thread: ~280 posts in 5 days.

Monster's thread: ~400 posts in 3 days.

Any conclusion you draw from that is entirely your own. :smile: