Deal breakers!!??

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Before finding someone to date or have fun with, what are some of the things you can't look past or things you can't tolerate?

For example, I would never ever date a woman with short hair. I'm not knocking you ladies with short hair but it doesn't work for ME. Also I can not stand white girls who try to act black. Biggest turn off possible. Another weird one is they way people say certain things. My neighbor is smoking hot but she says becaurse. Not sure how to spell but she puts an R in because and an R in Washington. She says warshington. That would drive me nuts!!
 
i don't usually have to worry about the deal breakers of others as i'm usually the one with the deal breakers.... instead of blaming the characteristics of others for my lack of interest in them, i simply blame myself for not being interested because that's all i have any control over.....
 
i don't usually have to worry about the deal breakers of others as i'm usually the one with the deal breakers.... instead of blaming the characteristics of others for my lack of interest in them, i simply blame myself for not being interested because that's all i have any control over.....

pretty twisted but yet working, I fancy :D
 
I will stick with the hair theme...Unshaved underarms.....I have slept with a woman who had hair on her nipples...but wasn't happy, un-trimmed bush
 
it's not so much that i have deal breakers.
it's more that i just have no interest in 99+% of people and i don't analyse why.
i s'pose bigotry counts as one. sometimes it takes a while to find out a person is a bigot but once i do *poof* they ugly to me.
 
Deal breakers . . . Smoking, Alcoholic (married one . . . never again), Poor personal hygiene, Woman with no friends is a major red flag!, Refusal of oral sex - either giving or receiving, Negative attitude about life, I could go on but that's enough . . .
 
A guy that completely shaves his pubes. That looks way to feminine for me. I want to be with a man that looks like a man, not like a woman.

Does a landing strip work? I'm almost hairless naturally but when I shave my pubes I at least leave a strip.

Another giant turnoff is drama. You know there are certain people who live for drama. I want no parts of that shit.

And women with high voices that over the phone they sound like a little girl. Ewwww.

And women that are too skinny. Like under 100 lbs. It makes them look like they are pre pubescent.
 
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Deal breakers . . . Smoking, Alcoholic (married one . . . never again), Poor personal hygiene, Woman with no friends is a major red flag!, Refusal of oral sex - either giving or receiving, Negative attitude about life, I could go on but that's enough . . .

100% agree!! keep away from woman with no friends! they are not normal!!
 
Deal Breakers for FancyPants:
  • Smoking (I'm allergic to nicotine and smell it on the body, even if you haven't smoked in a day or two.... I get sick)
  • Drug Use
  • No condoms (condoms are required... don't even ask)
  • Body Odor or Bad Breath (I will show you the shower, and, yeah, you will probably be offended)
  • Misrepresentation of yourself (if you show me a picture of you taken 10 years ago, I'm expecting you still look like that.... if you show me a picture of a very large cock... I'm expecting it belongs to you.) And YES, it happens ~
And yes, I agree about the DRAMA~~~ don't need it in my life...
Social Drinking is OK, but if you come already drunk, that's a turn off... (alcoholism is not a funny matter..)

pretty twisted but yet working, I fancy :D

What? You Fancy?? NOOOO... I Fancy :tongue::biggrin1::tongue:

edited : of course I meant wrong musical tastes :D if she likes Britney Spears for example... major turnoff!

What if she likes Brittany Spears, and Classical, and Jazz, and Hip Hop, and Soul?? So maybe she just leaves the Brittany music at home... or listens to your music? I'm very ecclectic when it comes to music... I like it all...
 
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Deal Breakers for FancyPants:
  • Smoking (I'm allergic to nicotine and smell it on the body, even if you haven't smoked in a day or two.... I get sick)
  • Drug Use
  • No condoms (condoms are required... don't even ask)
  • Body Odor or Bad Breath (I will show you the shower, and, yeah, you will probably be offended)
  • Misrepresentation of yourself (if you show me a picture of you taken 10 years ago, I'm expecting you still look like that.... if you show me a picture of a very large cock... I'm expecting it belongs to you.) And YES, it happens ~



What? You Fancy?? NOOOO... I Fancy :tongue::biggrin1::tongue:


lol I should have asked you the permit to use the word! you own the copyright!
 
I could never date someone that didn't engage in some type of fitness or exercise routine. Sure, not everyone will have a perfect body from exercising, but I can't stand it when women (or men, for that matter) completely disregard their health. Living in the south, this lifestyle is too common, especially in rural areas.
 
Before finding someone to date or have fun with, what are some of the things you can't look past or things you can't tolerate?

For example, I would never ever date a woman with short hair. I'm not knocking you ladies with short hair but it doesn't work for ME. Also I can not stand white girls who try to act black. Biggest turn off possible. Another weird one is they way people say certain things. My neighbor is smoking hot but she says becaurse. Not sure how to spell but she puts an R in because and an R in Washington. She says warshington. That would drive me nuts!!

Deal breaker is crappy personalty, smoker, heavy drinker.
 
Talking about ex/exes.
Has a child (I'm sorry if this is shallow but I couldn't do it).
Has been married (I couldn't do this either cos I'm too insecure lol).
Lives with parents.
Unemployed (cos I work damn hard at my job and am not going to support someone who won't work).
 
Someone who is a mooch (supported an ex for way too long in the past, silly me). Someone who not a single one of my friends get along with. Someone who lies. Someone who isn't a gamer (yes, really). Someone who puts absolutely no thought into their appearance at all (no, not a model or any such, but caring some is nice). Those are what I think of off the top of my head :tongue: