Deal breakers!!??
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I cannot stand people who disrespect me. Even if it is a constructive criticism about me, I cannot tolerate any comment or feedback from others. That's a deal breaker.
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Ehhh well unless you are content with pets the rest of your life, you're going to need to open yourself up to it. It's a part of life and no one with any backbone/balls is going to sit there and exclusively shower you with compliments.
Mine would probably smoking, hygiene, appearance and arrogance. I suppose those are the major ones.
I take it that the poster is referring to pronouncing the "S" at the end of a word in a manner that it is noticeably drawn out, which sometimes could sound like hissing or whistling.
Smoking and hygiene are included under my previous post of maintaining fitness and health. You don't have to run marathons, or spend hours in front of the mirror getting ready, but taking care of your health and keeping up an appearance that is not sloppy is important.
you cannot differentiate between constructive criticism and disrespect?
IMO it's the duty of my partner to tell me when i'm overstepping the mark. who wants a nodding dog for a lover??
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I think AvgJoe would need a fag hag as well as a BF.... the FH to give the criticism, and the BF to compliment the result of said criticism.... you'd be surprised how many men and women do this....
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well, my sexual deal breakers are: no blood, shit, piss, children, animals, incest, choking/asphyxiation, mega extreme BDSM/humiliation, ass to mouth, non-con scenes, group scenes. i think i am game for pretty much anything else.
general deal-breakers are hygiene, i guess. that's the only thing i can really think of. this includes dental hygiene, i like fairly nice teeth though i don't expect toothpaste commercial teeth or anything.
the only other general deal-breaker i can think of is pronounced homophobia/bigotry.
general deal-breakers are hygiene, i guess. that's the only thing i can really think of. this includes dental hygiene, i like fairly nice teeth though i don't expect toothpaste commercial teeth or anything.
the only other general deal-breaker i can think of is pronounced homophobia/bigotry.
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People who judge their dates on:
And I do deeply apologize to the people on this thread who have some of these things on your list. I know it's your preference and you absolutely have a right to it, and I'm sure you're nice enough not to be all preachy, but some people are very vocal, arrogant and rude about it. I'm talking about them and NOT YOU! :biggrin1:
Again, I apologize (it's the Canadian in me.)
- how much they exercise
- whether or not they smoke
- how fit they are
- length of hair
- vegan/vegetarian
- recycling/environmentalism
And I do deeply apologize to the people on this thread who have some of these things on your list. I know it's your preference and you absolutely have a right to it, and I'm sure you're nice enough not to be all preachy, but some people are very vocal, arrogant and rude about it. I'm talking about them and NOT YOU! :biggrin1:
Again, I apologize (it's the Canadian in me.)
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Smoking - I hate cigarettes and the smell of them. If you do something that makes me not want to be around you, then thats kind of counterproductive, yes?
Excessive drinking - I want to be with somebody that is in control of themselves. If you drink a lot, I dont think you are in a healthy state of mind.
Poor health should probably be on this list to. I want to be active with somebody, not just in bed but also outside.
I wont judge a person if they do this, its just that these all pertain to what I want to avoid in a relationship.
Excessive drinking - I want to be with somebody that is in control of themselves. If you drink a lot, I dont think you are in a healthy state of mind.
Poor health should probably be on this list to. I want to be active with somebody, not just in bed but also outside.
I wont judge a person if they do this, its just that these all pertain to what I want to avoid in a relationship.
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i did think of one other thing to add to the deal-breaker list: intentional litterers.
littering on purpose is a big pet peeve of mine.
i've done the volunteer cleanups and it is so gross. so gross. what some people decide to toss for ease, i guess? i once found a bag of used diapers.
*yuck face*
littering on purpose is a big pet peeve of mine.
i've done the volunteer cleanups and it is so gross. so gross. what some people decide to toss for ease, i guess? i once found a bag of used diapers.
*yuck face*
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